Chapter 2 Worrying about the sky
I thought that when I asked like this, the cuckoo would tell me about his troubles, after all, the two have never had any estrangement, and they have always said whatever they have, and the cuckoo has never been the kind of character who can hide things in his stomach and hold back what he likes.
Unexpectedly, after he asked like this, the cuckoo just pursed his lips and did not say anything.
"What's wrong? Is there anything that is so hard to say? Her appearance made Tang Hongye feel even more strange, "If there is anything to say, maybe the knot will be solved after the two of us discuss and discuss, is there anything that can't be solved?" Or is it ...... Isn't it convenient for you to tell me about this upset? ”
"That's not it, in fact, the things that I think are a little troublesome when I think about it recently really have something to do with you, so logically speaking, I should tell you, but ...... I don't know how to speak. The cuckoo's face was entangled, and even his face was slightly flushed.
Tang Hongye's years of knowing Du Juan are not too short, but this is the first time he has seen her squirm like this, which makes him feel very curious: "Then you slowly sort out your thoughts, I'll wait." ”
Du Juan actually thought of these things recently, and she would feel upset for no reason, she also knew that she might have been affected by Huang Liwen's incident, so she drilled the tip of the horns, but sometimes people are like this, once they drill the tip of the horns, it is difficult to get out of it by themselves, even if they know that a certain idea they have is wrong, but they can't control themselves.
She has always wanted to have a good chat with Tang Hongye about this matter, but she felt that she couldn't open her mouth, so she endured it all the time, and today she talked about it in a hurry, and when Tang Hongye asked, Du Juan found that her thinking was a little confused, and she always felt that she couldn't express her thoughts no matter how she said it.
"You...... No, we ...... It's not ......" The cuckoo wanted to express his inner worries in the most clear and least misunderstanding way, but the more anxious he was, the more he couldn't understand.
"Don't worry, speak slowly, do you mean to say that this matter is related to the two of us, but what you want to ask now is my personal attitude and opinion?" Tang Hongye reached out and gently stroked Du Juan's back, as if helping her to calm down, trying to make her relax and not be so tight.
Cuckoo nodded: "We...... I'm going to get married in the future, right? ”
When Tang Hongye heard this, he couldn't help laughing, but he realized that Du Juan was not in a happy mood to talk to him about marriage details and other issues now, let alone a suitable time for jokes, so he hurriedly smiled and nodded to Du Juan seriously: "Well, although there are no absolutes in the world, I am also very worried about whether I will kill a particularly strong competitor halfway to give me a sword to win love, but I definitely want to wait with you until the time comes. Get that little red book! ”
Tang Hongye's expression of loyalty made Du Juan's cheeks a little hot, she tried not to let her thinking be led crooked by Tang Hongye, and continued: "If the two of us get married, you ...... Want to have a baby? ”
"Huh?" Tang Hongye didn't guess what Du Juan was struggling with, just after hearing her ask about marriage, he instinctively guessed in his mind whether she was because she saw that Huang Liwen's ex-husband and Lin Jie were not reliable people, so she was afraid that Tang Hongye would become like that in the future, but as soon as she opened her mouth, it was not this aspect, but a topic that she hadn't considered when she played, which also made him a little confused all of a sudden, "Child......?" I haven't really thought about it, mainly because it hasn't gotten that far, why are you thinking about that? ”
After speaking, he couldn't help but tease the cuckoo: "My God, my little cuckoo shouldn't have been thinking about it so long-term, right?" Seriously, you've made me feel so much more secure all of a sudden! ”
"Not what you think!" Du Juan's face turned a little red when he said this, "I just thought of what happened to Huang Liwen before, as well as Lin Kailang, so my heart was a little messy during this time." ”
"What happened to Huang Liwen...... What happened to Lin Kailang? "Tang Hongye is still a little confused, either Huang Liwen and Fan Jiying, or Cui Xiaoyu and Lin Kailang, what's the matter with a combination like Huang Liwen and Lin Kailang? Aren't these two people clearly one the killer and the other the victim?
Well, because Huang Liwen focused all her energy on helping her ex-husband start a business together, she had no extra energy to take care of the child, so she could only hand over the child to her unreliable in-laws, which eventually led to Cui Xiaoyu's problem that could have been completely avoided. Lin Kailang is because his parents have enemies with others outside, so he became a target for others to retaliate against his parents at a young age. Du Juan sighed heavily, "So I suddenly thought that both of us are policemen, both are criminal police, and the current situation is that the two of us are peers and colleagues, so we can understand the pressure and hard work of each other, so there is no contradiction in this regard, our parents are not local, the two of us have not worked for a long time, and we don't have so many enemies, so we don't have to worry about the safety of our parents at home all the time for the time being, but even so, You were almost counted a few times a while ago. If we get married and have children in the future, in terms of time and energy, I'm not sure if the two of us can reconcile family and work, and if we do have children, who can guarantee that no one will want to use children to retaliate against the two of us? ”
Tang Hongye listened to Du Juan's words, and finally understood what she was struggling with, he also sighed, Du Juan's worries, at the moment, seem to be a little unfounded, after all, the two of them haven't even sat down to talk about it during the marriage period, let alone say that they don't have children, but in the environment where they work, it is not a self-seeking trouble that has nothing to do.
Tang Hongye is not particularly clear about other people's living conditions, so let's not talk about it, just say that Yang Cheng, the captain they usually deal with the most in their work, Yang Cheng's children are already old, and now Yang Cheng himself may not be able to tell which school the child is studying, this is not to say that he is too busy with work and completely ignores the family, there is actually another reason in it, that is, for the safety of the child, Yang Cheng has not dared to go to school publicly to pick up the child to school for so many years, When his child was in elementary school, he also encountered someone who threatened him and intimidated him with the child's safety, so Yang Cheng's child almost didn't complete a certain stage of learning in one school from childhood to adulthood, and transferred to another school many times.
Even Yang Cheng's family did not live in their own house for a period of time before, but lived in a rented house outside, and it was not until the last few years that it was better.
Du Juan may have been worried a little early, but the things she was worried about were also real problems.
"I ...... Is it just thinking about something that doesn't make sense? Philistines disturb themselves, right? After Du Juan finished speaking, seeing that Tang Hongye did not speak, he was also a little uncomfortable.
"No, these are not mediocre people disturbing themselves, what have the seniors in our team encountered before, we have heard of it somewhat, although we have not yet reached that stage, but it must not be said that it is mediocre self-disturbance, at most it can be regarded as a rainy day," Tang Hongye knew that Du Juan had misunderstood his silence, and hurriedly waved his hand, "It's just that I'm a person, and I always think about things as carefully as you, so I haven't had time to think about those situations, and you have already taken them into account." Seriously, about the child's business, I really haven't taken it too seriously, if I really say my personal opinion, it may be to go with the flow, all aspects of the time is ripe, then to have one, it can be regarded as experiencing a different life, but if you feel that you still don't have the ability to take on so much responsibility, then don't want it first, or don't want it all the time.
Putting aside these subjective factors, let's just talk about objective factors, people are so old from birth, who can try whether they have fertility before getting married? If there is a physical problem on both sides, or one of them, then this kind of thing cannot be forced, after all, people live a lifetime, and the goal of their efforts is not just to have children and reproduce, we can do a lot more, right? ”
"That's what you say...... But I'm ...... Alas, I can't even tell what's wrong with me! Du Juan hated that he was trapped in Huang Liwen's case, and his emotions couldn't be pulled out no matter what.
"It's okay, in fact, I can't be happier when I hear you say that you are worried about these things," Tang Hongye smiled and grabbed Du Juan's shoulders and let her lean on his body, without the slightest banter in his tone, and said to her very seriously, "If you don't have a plan and plan for the relationship between the two of us at all, you can't think of such a thing." You're not a bull's horn, it's just a girl's house, and you're more careful, so you'll think about it more. I think we can think about this from a different angle, maybe there will be a feeling of enlightenment? ”
"Then tell me about it!"
"What is the root of Huang Liwen's tragedy? First of all, she didn't have a full understanding of her ex-husband's family and didn't see their essence clearly. Secondly, when her energy and financial resources were relatively limited, she hurriedly had a child with her ex-husband. Third, from before the birth of the child to after the birth, she and her ex-husband, neither of them included the child in their life plan, one was full of entrepreneurship, and the other was full of husband, which in itself was also their dereliction of duty. Tang Hongye said his thoughts to Du Juan, and he was also triggered to think a lot about the case that just ended, "So in the final analysis, the crux of the problem lies with adults, not children." As long as two adults are cautious and thoughtful about this kind of thing, mature enough, and have enough sense of responsibility, then there is no insurmountable problem, you look at those seniors in our bureau, I haven't heard of anyone who quits eating because of choking, and even children don't want it, right? The children of the Yang brigade have a pretty good relationship with him. ”
"I'm not taking precautions, but once I think about what the problem is, I hope to communicate well in advance, so as not to stay until the late autumn evening, only to find that the two people have such a big difference, or there is no way to reach an agreement with the families of both sides, and then cause a lot of contradictions, it will be really difficult to solve." When Du Juan heard Tang Hongye say this, she did feel a lot more relaxed in her heart, and she realized that she really subconsciously attributed the crux of all the problems to the children, and ignored the problems of adults.
"This kind of thing, don't worry about it so early," Tang Hongye rubbed the cuckoo's head, "There is definitely no difference between the two of us in this regard, as for the home, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and when the time comes, the two of us have also made the most suitable choice for us to know, and then we can have a showdown with the family, I think that the weather is getting a little cooler now, should you also consider going back to the two of us to participate in the class reunion?" ”
Du Juan remembered after Tang Hongye's reminder that the monkey had informed them before that the day of the class reunion had been advanced, and there was no need to wait until around the Spring Festival, and it was initially set at the end of the year.
"Is there anything to think about so much in advance?" Du Juan didn't take this party too seriously, after all, the classmates who had a good relationship in the past, even if she didn't get together, she always kept in touch, and those old classmates who hadn't been in touch for many years, the feelings between each other didn't seem to be particularly deep, and naturally Du Juan didn't look forward to it so much, "Besides, it's still so long, who knows if the two of us will have the spare time to participate!" It's not going to happen just because you have a class reunion. I think we've been getting some serious things lately. ”
"What's the matter?" Tang Hongye didn't know what the cuckoo was referring to.
"It's the few times you were almost plotted against before," Du Juan sighed, those few things were always a pimple in her heart, which made people very uncomfortable, "I have been busy with other cases before, and I didn't make time, but now I finally have nothing at hand, and we have to pay attention to this matter." ”