And the initiator looked satisfied, and inexplicably I wanted to scold.

Fortunately, he still has a conscience, and he has always carried me on the four-mile road to my aunt's house. I have been to my aunt's house a few times, their house is in a village four miles away, and most people will drive motorcycles into it, and we have no means of transportation, so we can only walk in.

There are no Didi taxis in this place, and there will be no buses, so if you don't have a car, you can only walk.

We bought some fruit gifts, he carried me on his back and I carried the things, and I thought it would be okay to get evened out.

As long as he can not walk, I think he can still be forgiven.

When I was halfway there, I saw a young couple arguing in the field, I didn't know what they were arguing about, they looked very fierce, and I couldn't help but look at them twice.

At this time, the woman also saw me, and suddenly she jumped up and pointed at her man and said, "Look at the surname Wang, look at how people treat other people's daughters-in-law?" I still have to carry it on my back when I walk, my mother is with you at the age of sixteen, what do I get by marrying you? But when have I ever been treated like this? Now I do all the work at home, and you haven't said a good word to me when I'm tired! ”

The man also glanced at us after hearing her words, and then snorted coldly, "Compare you with others, people's daughter-in-law is smart, you are already a mother of two children, you can't drink the northwest wind if you don't work, you can't drink the northwest wind if you don't work." I only know how to complain all day long, and such complaints can be eaten as food? ”

"I'm so tired that I can't even complain? Then who called you a nest, you have the ability to raise me! ”

"If I have the ability, I still want you? I have the ability, can't I go find a young and beautiful one? If you marry me, if you really live with me, don't say bitterness. If you're running for money, don't make a fuss, go remarry! I complain that you are bitter every day, am I not bitter? ”

"......" Listening to their argument, I was a little speechless. I stretched out my hand and patted Gu Bonan, and couldn't help asking, "Bonan, do you say that you will do the same to me in the future?" ”

When every girl has a water spirit, everyone comes from that age, if one day she really becomes a yellow-faced woman for her husband and children, and she only gets her husband's reproach and reprimand, then what achievements does she have in this life?

Actually, I think women are different from men, women are made of water, soft and fragile. All they want is a word of care and warmth, women are fragile but not cowardly, because they are easy to shed tears, but such women will also be moths to the fire for a trace of insignificant feelings in the eyes of men.

For example, the couple just now, the woman was with him at the age of sixteen, so ignorant and beautiful, she had no hesitation. did everything for this family, but the man blamed her for not being good enough. This may be the biggest harm to a woman.

"Nope! We'll never be like them. "A very positive voice, Gu Bonan carried me on his back, his pace was steady, and his voice was also very gentle.

I pouted, "Really?" How can you be sure it won't? You know, the world is as black as a crow, and you men are all virtuous. Look at how many negative people there are in this world......"

"Linglong, the angle from which you look at the problem needs to be improved. The couple just now is a kind of poor couple who mourn! They are arguing about who gives more and who gets more, and around these two issues, they ignore their emotional issues. After a long time, I have forgotten the best vows I once made. In fact, at the end of the day, there is no right or wrong between them. "Gu Bo Nandao.

"But there are also some poor couples who get along happily all their lives!"

"Yes." Gu Bonan hummed and didn't deny it, "Yes, it depends on a person's mentality." The biggest challenge between people is tolerance and tolerance! Assuming that they are all willing to give and consciously tolerate, these contradictions can be reduced a lot. But the human heart is a very complex thing, and there are too few couples who don't care about gains and losses, which will eventually cause a series of contradictions. For example, the woman's complaints just now, in fact, these complaints have no effect except to bore the man. She can't learn to be tolerant, so she can't be tolerated by men! ”

"What if it's because the man didn't tolerate it, so the woman didn't tolerate it? Didn't the woman just say it, she was tired and tired, what's wrong with complaining about a sentence or two? ”

Gu Bonan chuckled, "Is she just complaining about a word or two?" She is dissatisfied with her life and with this man. She thinks that this man has no ability, so he can't support her. And this man also said that if he had the ability, he would not have wanted this woman. Do you understand why? ”

This......

Got it! The woman herself chose to marry this man, but in the end she found that life was not good, and she began to complain, feeling that the man had no income to support her. In the final analysis, her spirit is still in the feudal society, waiting for the era of men to raise. But the idea she pursues is a new era of women, and she wants to be equal to men!

At the end of the day, if you don't work, you don't get anything. This woman wants to be on an equal footing with this man, but she also wants this man to be able to support her. And in the end, this man couldn't give her the life she wanted, so she began to complain.

So the man told her that if he was able to support her, he would be superior to her, and there would be no equality. Naturally, he could choose the life he wanted, such as abandoning her......

Perhaps, no one is wrong in this matter, the fault is that they don't know what they want.

"I didn't see that you still have a lot of research on the way of husband and wife, and I don't know that I think you have been married before."

He paused in his footsteps, didn't know what was in his mind, and suddenly stopped talking.

I patted him on the shoulder and asked him to let me down, "I'm going to go by myself, it's almost there, you let me down, let people see it, I'm embarrassed." ”

He bent down and put me down, "You said I'm sorry when it's almost there, I haven't seen you on the way just now." ”

I coughed lightly and complained, "Who is to blame?" If it weren't for you, I could have walked eight kilometers! What is the four-kilometer road? ”

He raised the corners of his lips indifferently, and his thin lips outlined a perfect arc, like a summer breeze that made people feel more comfortable.

If only he laughed a lot, it would be the most beautiful thing in the world.

I haven't been here for several years, and many places in the village have been renovated, and many people have demolished the old houses and built new ones, so after I entered the village, I searched for a while before I found my aunt's home.

A few years ago, my aunt's house built two floors, but it hadn't had time to renovate it. I know my aunt's mother-in-law, she is over 70 years old, but her body is still very tough.