"Or brother and sister, you have a way, looking at your words, it makes Ruilin as excited as if he was beaten with chicken blood, if he wasn't still thinking about playing at this time, he should have struggled a long time ago!" Gu Shengxia looked at this scene, and immediately laughed in his heart, his mother is not ugly, how good his children look, but because there are more elders who love Xu Ruilin, they are parents, and on the basis of loving them, they have a little more reason for their children's long-term plans.

Ruilin is okay with everything, it's just this temperament, maybe it's too easy to get, but there is not much pursuit and enthusiasm, they have been worried that they will raise a living baby who can get by with leisure. This will make it seem that it is not that Ruilin did not pursue, but that they did not grasp the point that Ruilin was interested in, Gu Shengxia's beautiful eyes were dotted with stars, and he secretly said in his heart that in the future, he should ask for advice like his younger siblings.

"Just find Ruilin interested in coming, Ruilin, this child, you don't know what you gave birth to, it's definitely not bad, it's just that the child is still young and hasn't opened up much, Sister Shengxia can't be too anxious, she can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, let alone raising a child!" Lin Ning can understand Gu Shengxia's worries, just like when she was at the beginning, she was also worried that she would not be able to fulfill the responsibilities of being a mother, and since she was pregnant with two little things, she trembled to explore her responsibilities as a mother.

However, Lin Ning's worries and caution are for the sake of the two children's better, but he has never been afraid of anything, just do it from the bottom of his heart and start from the root. It is good not to restrain children's nature for the sake of children, respect their nature, teach them the truth of how to behave in the world, and take care of them with heart!

"We need to give our children time to grow up to the best of our ability!" Looking at the children who were happily running away along the willow shade, Lin Ning sighed with a light smile, after two or three years of groping, she and Shaoqiu walked alone hand in hand, and finally lived up to the four words of being a parent, and the two children grew up very well.

"Hey, this is also the contradiction of being a parent, I hope that Ruilin will open up, and I hope he can be more relaxed!" In a family like theirs, although the starting point of the child is high, it is not that they can get everything without paying any price, and if they want to get more, they have to pay more, which is an eternal truth.

Ruilin, as the only seedling of the Xu family, both his father-in-law and Wenzhou have high expectations for him, counting on him to provoke the responsibility of the Xu family, now Ruilin is still young, waiting for him to be a little older, he has to follow his father and grandfather to learn how to take on the burden of the Xu family, when do you want her to be so relaxed, there is not so much time to give him.

Therefore, although Gu Shengxia said that the child was worried if he was not open, he still selfishly thought about what to do while the child was still young and did not really go to the upper line, Lin Ning's words were not so much relief, but just to see the real thoughts in her heart and give her a step down.

"It's all the same, how to do it in the future, it all depends on these children's own abilities, how much they want to get has to pay more, we parents, can help them for a while, can't help them for a lifetime, so, into our best ability, due diligence is, the rest, the children's temperament is not bad, let's just see later!"

A small sapling wants to grow into a towering tree, the foundation is necessary, in the process of growing up, it is inevitable that there are some curious branches, they are parents, just to watch from the side, these children do not go the wrong way, focus on the development of branches and branches, ignore the focus of the rise, this is unacceptable! The small trees need to be repaired frequently, and they, the parents, are silently responsible for pruning.

For the future development of the two children, Lin Ning's requirements are not high, she does not require the two children to bear anything in the future, but she is also unwilling to raise two rice worms to gnaw the old family, I hope that they will be a useful person to themselves and others, and their lives will be happy and satisfied, whether it is spiritual or emotional, they are complete, and when they are old, they can recall their lives without leaving too many regrets!

She has never done it herself, but she hopes that such a complete happiness can come to her two children, this softness as a mother, and after having two little guys, it is really soft! Therefore, for the sake of the two children to be better, Lin Ningqing is willing to work hard to personally educate and guide the two children, educate and entertain, start from a small foundation, and do every step well, I only hope that they, the parents, will be the cornerstone of the children's feet, so that they can walk more steadily, they are all mothers, and they all understand their respective moods better, and they glanced at each other, Lin Ning and Gu Shengxia looked at each other and smiled, everything was in plain sight.

Gu Shengxia is not an idler, on a rare day off, he leisures in the old garden until the sun sets and the sunset burns with magnificent colors, so he takes his children to say goodbye to his parents and Lin Ning and return to the city. Lin Ning and his family smiled and sent away this pair of mother and son who were having a good time, but there was not much reluctance, they were all in the same city, and the distance was not too far, Gu Shengxia came over with her husband when she was free, the family was fine, and there was not much reluctance to say goodbye now and the next time.

After the day warmed up step by step, Lin Ning went out of the garden even less, although Lin was not in bad health, but Lin Ning was a little bitter in the summer and didn't like the scorching sun, after all, when he could enjoy it, no one must be willing to go out and suffer. The urban area is a big steamer, except for the routine of going to the company to inspect, Lin Ning rarely goes into the urban area, and only concentrates on accompanying the two children at home.

Now the two children are full of energy, in order to pass the time for them, but also to prepare for the edification in advance before entering school next year, in addition to playing every day, Lin Ning slowly added other aspects of teaching the two children, such as literacy, writing and drawing...

Of course, there are no strict requirements, just to see that the two children are energetic and lay a foundation for the two children. However, due to the cultivation of Lin Ning's reading stories since childhood, the two little things are still very interested in Lin Ning's morning and evening lessons, recognize their names, recognize the titles of their parents and grandparents, and know the words represented by the things they are familiar with, Lin Ning's teaching is not limited to simple genealogy, but more casual free play, she heard a sentence in later generations, called interest is the best teacher, two children will remember more firmly if they are interested, and rigidity is a taboo for children to learn.