Chapter 155: Planting Heart Anchors and Advancing Movements

I thought for a moment and said, "The snake she dreamed of was black, and in Freud's interpretation of the dream, the snake was indeed a symbol of man, a symbol of power and wisdom, and also a sexual suggestion. But in Chen Chen's paintings, the snake just pounced on her, not entangled with her, and the snake brought her a feeling of fear, which was not a sexual drive, and had nothing to do with the relationship between men and women. This man should be very powerful, much older than her, and alive. After speaking, he looked at Lu Zenghan a little apologetically, "I can only see this." ”

Lu Zenghan nodded and smiled: "These are not easy anymore. ”

"Do you trust my judgment like that? Are you not afraid of mistakes? I pursed my lips and looked at him.

"I have confidence in your professionalism." Lu Zenghan said with certainty, "If you say so, I will roughly have a direction." ”

"Who's that?" I asked.

Lu Zenghan shook his head and smiled: "I still need to be sure." ”

I still have a lot of questions: "You mean, Chen Chen later helped Zou Shizhao to do things, but in fact, he was looking for an opportunity to avenge Jin Peijiang and severely hurt Zou Shizhao." And behind her, there is a powerful man as a backer? But Zou Shizhao never found out? And when did Li Xia replace the real Chen Chen? ”

"Chen Chen has been more hidden over the years, and after Jin Peijiang's death, he has been more low-key, and Zou Shizhao has more downlines, so he won't pay special attention to it. But when the female corpse of Nanqi Island came out, he would be somewhat suspicious, and he was even more an old fox. Lu Zenghan said leisurely, "As for when Chen Chen died, there is no way to verify." I have checked the time of Li Xia's plastic surgery, which is earlier than the time when Chen Chen disappeared on Nanqi Island. But after Chen Chen disappeared on Nanqi Island, it is unknown whether he died at that time, or went to deal with the matter of Indian goods, and was later killed by Jin Peijiang on Nanqi Island. ”

"Zou Shizhao found out?" I couldn't help asking, "Could that be the Chen Chen he killed?" ”

"Him?" Lu Zenghan thought about it, and finally shook his head with the corners of his lips raised, "He won't kill people in such a complicated way, and he won't do it himself." But he must have found something, otherwise he wouldn't have suddenly sold Yunhu Villa at this time. He didn't wait for the money. The female corpse of Nanqi Island came out, and Chen Chen, who looked the same as her, fell from the building, and it was rumored that he killed Chen Chen before, but now it is even more troublesome. That's why he sold Yunhu Villa to prove his innocence, so it seems that he found the male corpse of Yunhu Villa. ”

I didn't understand it a little, but I roughly understood the reason, and I couldn't help sighing: "But the female corpse of Nanqi Island, that is, the real Chen Chen, has been dead for five years, and Jin Peijiang is also dead, where can this case be solved?" Now I don't know if the murderer can be found in the male corpse case. ”

A trace of unknown obscurity flashed in Lu Zenghan's eyes, and his expression was a little gloomy: "It's good to solve Chen Chen's case." In old cases, where to find creditors. ”

I looked at Lu Zenghan expectantly: "Then do you know the real murderer who killed Chen Chen?" ”

Lu Zenghan rubbed my hair: "My bet will definitely win this time." Chen Chen's death, if I don't come forward, the police won't be able to find the cause of her death if they want to break their heads. ”

"Then you still don't use your ingenuity to give the police some clues?" I laughed.

"In two days, I'll arrange the arrangement." After Lu Zenghan finished speaking, he leaned back on the sofa, not knowing what he was thinking, his eyebrows and eyes were tired and thinking.

Chen Chen's case finally had some clues, and I slept soundly that night. In the next few days, the criminal police team did not look for me again, and I called Yang Yize several times, knowing that the police had followed Peng Zihao's line and found out that the remittance to Chen Chen was made by several overseas banks, including Indian and Philippine accounts, and these remittance accounts also had transaction records with Zou Shizhao's voyage. Now the police have determined that Chen Chen and Peng Zihao have an inseparable relationship with Yuanhang's smuggling group. It's just the key point, or how Chen Chen died. The cause of Chen Chen's death could not be determined, and the suspect could not be locked.

I've been idle at home for the past few days, and Lu Zenghan hasn't allowed me to go out, I don't know what he's planning, for fear that I'll run around and let others hold him hostage. Nancheng, a bustling city, has too many treacherous things behind it.

After tidying up the house at home, I was really bored, and suddenly remembered the book "The Magic of Psychology" that Han Muzhi gave me, I have always wanted to find time to read it, but I have never had time. It's time to read a book these days. I pulled the book out of the box, lay down on the couch, and read it carefully.

This book eschews the boring principles of many psychology books, and instead adds a lot of examples. It makes the whole book vivid and interesting, even for the uninitiated, to read with relish. But there is no shortage of professional analysis, I just read the beginning, and I was attracted.

I couldn't help but flip to the author of the book, JAMSON, I don't know if it was the brother of my mentor, Katherinede.

I continued to read, and I had already read half a book in less than half a day, but when I saw the later chapters, my breathing couldn't help but be a little short, and the speed of turning the book increased suddenly, and my eyes were fixed on every word in the book, and I refused to miss it.

This chapter uses the principles of psychology to talk about how to pursue girls in practice. The book writes that for older, less experienced in love with highly educated white-collar women, the first way to appear should be different, the traditional pick-up, flattery, warm men are not suitable for this kind of girls, you can appear with a mysterious identity, or speak amazingly, and the way of speaking with girls can also attract the attention of girls, some girls are accustomed to flattering and kind words, change their appetite, and speak with prickly and mouth is also an ingenious skill.

Secondly, after getting to know each other, you can use a psychological technique called "heart anchor" to win the girl's heart. The heart anchor is a form of conditioned reflex, which connects people's behavior with certain conditions, and people's heart anchors are established. If this articulation process can be repeated multiple times, the effect of the heart anchor will be more obvious. For example, when you hear a song, you think of someone. Or when you see a scene, you think of someone. It's a typical way to plant a heart anchor.

The book also gives several examples. For example, you can give gifts, watches, bags, jewelry, etc., or send a song link to a girl, so that the girl can link the song to the person, so that when she hears the song in the future, she will naturally think of the boy who sent her the song. In this way, the heart anchor is established.

I know the heart anchor, and I will treat patients in the way of the heart anchor, but I never knew that this kind of psychological knowledge can also be used when falling in love. What's even more terrifying is that in the descriptions of these words, I seem to see familiar scenes. The love process between me and Lu Zenghan is simply a copy of this tutorial.

He followed this tutorial step by step, from the mysterious appearance, to the sudden delivery of my watch, to the sending me songs in the ward...... I went from lying down to sitting upright reading, and every cell in my body twitched nervously.

I continued to flip through the book, this section is about "planting heart anchors", and the next section is about "moving in": the so-called moving is the boy's physical contact with the girl step by step. The safe distance between people is about 40 centimeters. In normal social interactions, we unconsciously keep a safe distance from outsiders. In a relationship between the sexes, the man and the woman are promoted by breaking the safe distance.

By moving and approaching, the bottom line of the girl is gradually tested, and the psychological defense line of the girl is lowered step by step, and the way of approaching can be spoken.

After that, you can try to change positions and touch, such as trying to fasten a seat belt for the other person, or hug the other person when she is injured, especially for older Kochi women who have no experience in love, they are often bound by some rules and regulations, and they are not familiar with male physical contact, and moving forward is very effective. The touch of the body will make such women be stimulated by hormones in ignorance, open the door of their hearts, and be more receptive to men's overtures.

This part of the text made my whole body shrink. For the first time, I felt as if my whole body had been stripped naked and put in the eyes of everyone, and it was like every hair on my body had been plucked out, and the pain was dripping with blood. Why is this the case?

What I thought of as love turned out to be all psychological routines. There are tutorials, there are methods. I am a psychotherapist who graduated with a master's degree in the United States, and I was deceived by people using psychological routines to deceive my feelings. I'm the biggest joke in psychology!

I sat on the couch with my arms crossed, my head buried in my knees. It's so cold in this world. Did Lu Zenghan study this book? I picked up the book, and the publication date was after I met Lu Zenghan. My heart was relieved, was it a coincidence? I suddenly remembered the original manuscript that Han Muzhi gave me, and I looked at it carefully, and tears slipped down.

This original manuscript, I am afraid that it was written by a Chinese, although it is nothing at a cursory glance, but if you look closely, there will be two or three grammars on a page with traces of Chinese grammar habits. I sat up abruptly, took a picture of the book, emailed my mentor, Katherine, and asked her if she knew Jamson, the book's editor-in-chief, and if so, who was the author of the chapter.

When I sent it out, my heart was so worried that I couldn't get it enough. It's five o'clock in the afternoon, and it's four o'clock in the morning on Kathrine's side, and I don't know what time she will see it, so I'll write back.

Before I knew it, I was still sitting on the sofa, recalling over and over again every scene from the time I met Lu Zenghan to the time we got along. Did he ever have a little bit of sincerity for me? What kind of heart did he have when he approached me with such a routine?

I don't know how long I've been sitting like this, and I've been sitting in the heat until I'm cold. The door rang, the light turned on, and Lu Zenghan's voice sounded behind him: "Why don't you turn on the light?" Sitting in the dark in the house? ”

I didn't seem to hear it, but I still sat up straight. Lu Zenghan strode up to me, touched my forehead, and said with a smile: "What's wrong with you?" ”