The Sun family gave birth to daughters, and they didn't want their daughters to be big officials and glory lintels, but what they wanted was that their daughters could have a sense of family honor and wouldn't run away with other men.

Isn't this Sun Yan's aunt Sun Pomegranate a precedent?

Men will fight for the honor of their family and their country, but how many women in this world will?

It is men who fight in the army, and it is also men who die for the country, and they die for the honor of the country.

But women are different, women will die for chastity, and that is for men, or rather, because of society, so that they have to die. Because of the environment of the whole society, women do not have a strong sense of belonging to their family and country, and they do not care about the sense of honor of their family and country.

Therefore, a woman will leave her elderly parents and elope for the sake of a man, but a man will not abandon his parents and surname and elope with a woman.

Once the country is ruined, men will be ashamed to serve the monarch of the new dynasty, but women will not be ashamed to serve foreign men, and if the new foreign ruler of the whole society has a high status, women will also feel that it is an honor to marry a foreign man.

When Yun Duoduo was in college, he once saw a girl arguing with a boy over a Qing court drama.

The boy felt that the heroine of the Qing court drama was pursued by the Manchus as a Han is outrageous, because the Han people in the Qing Dynasty were untouchables, and the Manchus were not allowed to marry Han people. And that girl thinks that if the heroine is good enough, there is nothing wrong with being chased by the elder brother.

The boy said again, people have oppressed your father, brother, and compatriots, don't you feel ashamed to marry someone else?

The girl said he was a nobleman......

Most of the resources of the whole society are in the hands of men, and women have no sense of identity with their families, nationalities, and countries, and who marries whom. Serving a strong man is glory.

This is understandable for most people, because their daughters are originally raised casually, and it is okay to marry a powerful son-in-law, where to fall in love, where to die, how to live, what kind of person to become in the future, what kind of ability, how to character, parents at home will not care.

Because if you marry, you will lose your husband's family.

But Sun Yan of the Sun family is different. She is the hope and future of the Sun family, the Sun family hopes that she will become a virtuous and respected person, and hopes that she can inherit her family's property, the honor of the family, and regard herself as a member of the Sun family.

Such a daughter naturally can't be illiterate.

Therefore, the Sun family invited a special teacher for her, however, the teacher of the Sun family saw that she was a woman, and did not teach her wholeheartedly, but secretly rubbed the little girl to show the little girl, to be three from the four virtues, the future marriage is serious, making a fortune is a man's business, as long as you are weak, gentle, obedient, for the sake of your husband, you can live well, you can get the praise of men.

Of course, the Sun family didn't want their daughter to do this, but they didn't know how to educate their daughter.

Too spoiled, afraid that she will be as pampered and selfish as Sun Shimei, too strict, afraid that she will be timid and afraid of things. Let her study, she learned three from four virtues, let her not from three from four virtues, and afraid that she would become a shrew and be disliked......

When the Sun family was at a loss, they met Yun Duoduo......

Because Yun Duoduo is neither an ignorant woman with three obediences and four virtues, nor a shrew who rolls around, she is assertive and capable. At the same time, she did not become the kind of dominatrix that makes men fearful, on the contrary, she maintained a good relationship with men, and did not blatantly violate the interests of men, so that men were willing to accept her style of doing things.

They want to train their daughter to be a person like Yun Duoduo.

"Sir sends silver taels to his aunt who serves in the palace every month, and entrusts someone to take care of her, which shows that Sir is a filial child." Sun Yingniang touched her tears, "Better than my short-lived pomegranate." ”

Yun Duoduo said: "The old lady mourns. ”

Sun Pomegranate is not without filial piety, but without conscience, she ran away with the man, leaving behind the lonely old mother, and I don't want to think about it, after the Sun family has lost her, there is only one sister who has been cultivated in front of her daughter since she was a child, and her sister is so weak, and her mother treats her sister badly, so she is naturally embarrassed to ask her sister to recruit her, and then the Sun family will change from a female household to a desperate household.

Doesn't she know how much oppression the desperate family will suffer?

She never thought that her mother would be bullied by other people. The Sun family's wealth will become something that can be fought for when they are broken.

If Sun Ruyi hadn't finally given up Ruyi Langjun and recruited a poor scholar who was not in good health to come back to get married and have children, the Sun family would have been defeated a long time ago.

Yun Duoduo smiled and said: "My aunt has the virtue of nurturing me and the grace of saving my life, so naturally I can't forget it." ”

The old lady sighed: "I just ask my granddaughter under my husband to teach her benevolence, righteousness, etiquette, wisdom and faith, so that my family can get through this difficult time safely." I'm afraid I won't be able to wait for my great-grandchildren to grow up! As he spoke, he burst into tears again. ”

Yue Chang'an can't see this scene, he left home at a young age, received the great favor of his parents, but he has never been able to bear the joy of his knees, and has always felt very guilty, and now he sees this old man so miserable, so he said in a voice: "Old lady, you have been talking for a long time, we haven't seen your granddaughter, as the saying goes, Mr. picks students, but also depends on the virtuous and foolish." ”

When the old lady heard this, she was overjoyed, and hurriedly asked her to call the young lady over.

"Since she started studying, there have been more than a dozen gentlemen, some of them are old and sick, some of them are not dedicated to teaching, some of them are pregnant and about to give birth, and some of the things that they teach are really not good......" The old lady sighed, "My good children have been delayed." ＂

Yun Duoduo: "......"

Forget about anything else, there is still a ...... to have a child

If you think about it carefully, it makes sense, this is for girls to find a husband, naturally try to find a female gentleman first, unmarried girls are naturally not many husbands, they are all looking for married women, this married, naturally easy to get pregnant and have children......

After a while, the young lady of the Sun family came over.

From a distance, it was a little girl, wearing a red power suit, her hair was combed into two pairs, tied with a hairband, this winter, the little girl was sweating, and she was wiping the sweat on her face with her hands.

She gave birth to a pair of bright big eyes, looking at Yun Duoduo and Yue Chang'an with bright eyes.

At first glance, this beautiful little girl is a bit like Yun Duoduo's cousin Jiang Linghui, thinking of Jiang Linghui, Yun Duoduo felt sour for a while, and I don't know how my cousin is doing now.

"Your girl still practices martial arts?" Yue Changan was surprised.

Sun Ruyi hurriedly said: "It's not about practicing martial arts, it's just that this girl is not in good health, it's not early, our family is afraid that her life is not good, so let her practice her fists and feet at will. Our family still wants her to study. ”

Yue Changan smiled: "You girl is so patient, why bother to let her study, so that she can learn martial arts, and when she grows up in the future, she will join the general, and she can be a female general." ”

Yun Duoduo looked at this little girl, and felt that this little girl was very suitable for her eyes, she didn't want to be entrusted so much before, but after seeing this girl, now the truth is a master-apprentice fate.

"Do you know how to read?" Yun Duoduo asked the girl with a smile.

The little girl said seriously: "Yes." ”

Yue Chang'an said: "Do you know how to write a name?" ”

The little girl looked at him in surprise: "Naturally, I have read all four books, but Mr. refuses to teach me." ”

Yun Duoduo: "......"

She said in her heart, don't talk about the Four Books and Five Classics, I don't know all of what they are. But she is not afraid, there is a Cui Pingsheng at home, what kind of apprentice can't teach well?

The little girl said earnestly: "Mr. Yun, you can accept me." ”

Yun Duoduo sighed: "Do you know, why do you want to follow me?" What do you want to learn? ”

The little girl said: "I want to learn the history of governing the country, and I want to learn the ability to appease the victims like my husband, I don't want to learn the three from the four virtues, and the female precept girl will return when I am ten years old, and I don't need to copy silently." ”

Yun Duoduo: "...... Your dream is a bit big, but my husband doesn't have that much ability. ”

The little girl said, "Sir, yes." ”

Yun Duoduo smiled: "You don't regret it. ”

The little girl patted her chest: "A gentleman is hard to chase after a horse!" ”

She smiled sweetly as she spoke, and glanced at Yue Chang'an again.

Yue Chang'an said: "Little girl, I don't have the ability to govern the country, I can eat, you worshiped me as a master, this cooking ability is indispensable." ”

The little girl suddenly knelt down towards Yue Chang'an with joy: "Student Sun Yan, I have seen two masters, and the apprentice will only cook for the master alone in the future." ”

Yue Chang'an: "...... Why is that? ”

Little girl: "Because the gentleman is far away from cooking...... The last master of the apprentice said that cooking is what a slut does, and if an apprentice wants to be a gentleman, he can't cook often! ”

Yue Chang'an: "......"

Yun Duoduo: "What did your last master teach you!" ”

She stretched out her hand to help Sun Yan up, recognized this apprentice, and really felt that the Sun family was pitiful, and thought that this little girl was very likable, so she agreed.

She has been in Jiangzhou City for so long, and it is rare to meet such a lovely little girl.

The Sun family was so happy that they clapped their hands and chanted Buddha.

On the second day, the Sun family came over with the deed and wanted to sell the house in the other courtyard to Cui Pingsheng. The house cost 800 taels to say the least, and the Sun family just moved away some valuable playthings and calligraphy and paintings, and the furniture and rockery stones in the house were not taken away, adding up to 1,400 taels.

The Sun family only received 800 taels from Yun Duoduo, and the house was sold to the Cui family at a low price. Cui Pingsheng didn't want to suffer such a big benefit from others in vain, so he gave Sun Yan a set of precious Cui Yan's ink treasures left by his father.

This Cui Yan is a person who has been a prime minister in Cui's family, and he is a founding minister. Although his calligraphy and painting are not particularly good, he is famous, and like Sun Yan, he has a Yan character in his name, which can be regarded as fate.

Sun Yan got this reason, and he could be regarded as another gentleman, and the Sun family was overjoyed.

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