What is Love? Only when you love yourself can you understand what love is

May you leave for the rest of your life and still dare to love when you return.

As for love, let's talk about it together.

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What about me, my name is Nan Enxi, I have always been looking forward to love, and I am eager for love, maybe I liked Gu Anze first The moment, he was high and so handsome when he appeared on the TV on my screen, my heart always walked with him, now we will separate our boyfriend and idol, but mine is different, my love is that idol is boyfriend, and it is also an idol, who will see their boyfriend as an idol, like him is like him, if they all have such an experience as me, I think that's fairy love, there is someone who is spoiled, understands you in everything, thinks about you, I have thought about all the future of me and Gu Anze, and I have also thought about the current appearance of me and Gu Anze, very good, it's been half a year, like an old husband and wife, isn't the best love is that the person you like also likes you, how sweet it is for people who like each other to be together.

One day Wu Na asked me what is love?

What is love Love is that you see through all my shortcomings and bad temper but still tolerate Love is that after a quarrel, both of you are afraid of losing each other and take the initiative to admit your mistakes Love is when the enthusiasm gradually fades, but you still love me as before Love is the care that you let me wear more when the weather is cold Love is the tenderness of you waking me up in the morning and saying good night to each other at night Love is the only me in your eyes and reject all ambiguity for me Love is that we will achieve each other's future Love is the attachment that you have to live with me for a lifetime.

In fact, love is very hazy, but the only thing I know is that love is the pillar of a person's spirit, because everyone longs for true love, true love is two people care for each other, care for each other, and put their hearts in each other's hearts at all times, so that is true love!

True love is tolerance rather than indulgence Love is care rather than pampering Love is mutual blending and not unrequited love Love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything... … Please cherish the time, love well True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

Always find the right person to spend it with

Even if you rush to life every day

There are really not many people who are willing to understand you

But everyone's heart is still looking forward to it

Beautiful, sweet love

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I'm Wu Na, I don't know what love is, I just liked someone who didn't like me a few days ago, I know that many people will be rejected by the person they like, some will be very sad, but I will really understand what love is from that time.

Since I was very young, someone told me that in this world, there is almost no such thing as two people who are happy and can be together in love, and the probability of getting that kind of love is equivalent to God's favorite, and there is such a thing as winning 5 million in the lottery.

I've always believed in that, so I've never thought about looking for it, I've always just studied very hard, been good to my parents, and kept meeting people who are liked by each other but don't like each other, and who like each other but don't like me. This made me believe this more and more.

Then something happened to me. I found out that the real rarity is not love, but the willingness to grow for love, and the ability to control love, although love has some luck factors, but it is ordinary, everyone's efforts are likely to be able to have.

Just like I used to think that the kind of very good, perfect people can love themselves, so it is very rare to love yourself. Later, when I felt the love for myself, I realized that loving myself was not a privilege for a few, but a feeling of respect, love and belief that everyone could obtain as long as they wanted to.

So what is true love? In my opinion, love is a generalization of a complete process, a collection of emotions and feelings, rather than a description of a single point in time and a single state.

It's hard to find someone who feels for each other. Although it is difficult to say who we meet, in the case of a fixed probability, we can choose to expand the base number that is, expand the social scope to increase the absolute number, or we can increase the probability by actively improving ourselves, showing ourselves, and making ourselves more attractive. Feelings, like career, studies, and health, are one of the major issues in life, and it is impossible for God to send us good answers to the subject of feelings without effort, practice, or effort.

The myth of love, so that more people have a kind of anxiety or desperateness, or directly because of despair and give up the effort and just invest time day after day to wait, can only make more people have more regrets in terms of feelings, or waste a lot of time. I remembered a quote I once saw: there is a second largest industry in the world called selling anxiety and panic. I think something like that.

Of course, the time that marriage contains love is almost negligible in the entire history of human marriage. It requires an investment of time and effort, and it is not a necessity of life. However, with the abundance of human material life, the need for the spiritual level is more urgent, and if the investment required to obtain it is within the scope of what you can afford, a relationship full of love or even marriage, I think it can bring more happiness to people.

We are shouting at every turn that we don't believe in love anymore. There are too many factors that are not credible, money, time, life, loyalty.

It seems that being realistic can make us suffer less. So many people take love as a calculation problem, and include family background, education, income, status, and dedication, hoping to find the maximum value as much as possible.

But true love has never been a calculation problem, it is not suitable or unmatched, there is only one sentence, if you are willing, I am also willing.

That's what I think is, true love.

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My name is Gu Anze, I like a girl, what about her, some of them I knew when I was very young, I like her very much, I love her very much, I really want to marry her home, but I know it, it's not the time, when we like a person in our hearts, the eyes and movements can't deceive people, the heart will want to lift the other party, create more opportunities to contact each other, hope to be closer to the other party, and will want to embrace the idea of touching each other, the heart will not be calm for a long time, there is a good thing that no one can replace, This is probably a manifestation of loving someone. Really like a person, only each other in the eyes, there will never be traces of others, no matter what the other party looks like, in your heart will always be the best, no one can replace, you don't love only the love of him, real love, is with each other will never worry that the other party will leave, and with him will be calm and down-to-earth. If you really like someone, you will be willing to accept everything from TA, the other party's brutality and willfulness are not a problem in your eyes, and sometimes you will feel cute, which is probably the feeling of truly loving someone, and you will never dislike each other.

When you fall in love with someone, you become less philistine and realistic. When the other party suffers difficulties and setbacks, we will be very willing to help each other and share all the pressure and pain together. The person who is willing to accompany you is still the person who loves you the most after all. So if you really like someone, you are willing to accompany TA to come and go in the wind and rain without complaints.

What is the concept of love....

Be a man, have an outlook on life; Do things, have values; When it comes to love, there is also a concept of love. When two people are together, they can support each other for a lifetime and walk for a lifetime, or they can get off halfway, choose a new path, and continue to move forward.

Love is like this, you have to plan for a lifetime, and you have to be ready to leave at any time, you can be nostalgic, but don't entangle, this should be the best view of love, right?

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My name is Zhang Yanyi, I also like a girl very much, I have paid a lot for her, and I have been sad in the end, I once asked Gu Anze, what made his relationship with Nan Enxi so good, and what made him not tired of it, I understood after listening.

But what is the true concept of love.

In fact, there is no concept of love at all, whether it exists or not does not depend on others, it depends on yourself, but I am sure that the concept of love will grow up.

When you were a child, there were a lot of things that you didn't see thoroughly, and you will understand it after more experience, and the big truths are all said to others, and you can only understand a little bit if you take one step, and the more you walk, the more you will understand. There are so many great truths in life, you don't care about yourself, and others won't feel sorry for you.

In the end, you will know that the wounded heart has to be healed by itself; If you are hungry, you have to fill your own stomach; The tears after crying have to be wiped off by yourself, life is your own, and you can continue to live it.

The best love allows you to constantly improve yourself, but you don't have to lose yourself. Don't be in a hurry to judge life because of a momentary emotion. For some people, the outlook on life today and tomorrow will be much different. If you hurt others or destroy yourself because you fall to the bottom of your emotions for a while, you will regret it tomorrow. I used to think that parting was to leave someone I didn't love. One day, when I grew up, I realized that there is a kind of parting, which is to leave the person you love. There is a kind of parting, which is to wipe tears and dare not look back.

I wish everyone who knows us can meet the best person and truly realize the most beautiful love.