PS: Ahhhh When the code reached half past ten, the web page collapsed and flashed away, and the manuscript was all gone, uncomfortable!

Alas, I have to come back after a long day of work, and make up for tomorrow's piece, I'm sorry everyone.

The so-called "highest emotional intelligence"

Before his son stepped into society, a father admonished his son three times: "When you meet a good leader, you must work for him faithfully; If you have a good salary in your first job, then you are lucky to work hard to be grateful. If the salary is not ideal, you must know how to hone your skills at work. “

This father was undoubtedly wise. All young people should take these three sentences to heart and always act according to this principle.

Maybe every job can't be perfect, but we still have to be grateful for the working environment, thank the boss, thank every job opportunity, and work with gratitude. Even if you are initially below others, don't think about it, and actively see each task as a new beginning, a new experience, and a door to success.

Because every job has valuable experience and resources, such as the frustration of failure, the joy of success, the strictness of the boss, the competition among colleagues, etc., these are the feelings that any worker must experience and the forging that must be experienced to succeed.

Cao Yuanyong, HR director of Cadbury Greater China, said that it is inappropriate for some college graduates who are currently in the internship period to negotiate terms with their bosses before they have yet to work, or to bargain with department heads after just making a small achievement in a new position. “

At this time, they should know how to thank the company for its training, rather than caring about whether they should take a few hundred yuan more, and should put forward a reasonable salary increase request to the company when they have performance, so that they can have greater development in the enterprise. “

Stevens, a programmer, worked for eight years at a software company, and just as he was getting his hands on it, the company went out of business. At this time, his third son had just been born, and he had to find a new job immediately.

There was a software company that hired programmers, and the pay was very good, and Stevens confidently applied for it. With excellent professional knowledge, he passed the written exam with ease. He was going to the interview in two days, and he was confident about it.

However, during the interview, the examiner asked questions about the future development direction of software, and he never considered this aspect of the problem, and he was eliminated.

But the company's understanding of the software industry was refreshing. He wrote a letter of thanks to the company: "Your company spent manpower and material resources to provide me with the opportunity to write a written test and an interview. Thank you for your labor, thank you!" The letter was circulated through layers and was later sent to the president.

Three months later, Stevens unexpectedly received an offer from the company. It turned out that the company saw that he knew the virtue of gratitude, and naturally thought of him when there was a vacancy. This company is the American Microsoft Corporation. More than a decade later, Stevens became a vice president of Microsoft with outstanding performance.

In business, people who know how to be grateful will be more welcome. Human resources experts said that when recruiting employees, many well-known companies value not only their professional knowledge, but also the way they deal with problems and the speed of integration into the enterprise, in other words, whether they can behave and do things with a grateful heart.

However, there are many employees who can be grateful for the help of a stranger, but ignore the blessings of the boss who gets along with them day and night. They take all this for granted, as a purely commercial exchange relationship. (Touching family diary enzhangba.)

And the oil magnate Rockefeller once wrote in a letter to his son: Now, whenever I think of the company I worked for, and when I think of my bosses, Mr. Hewitt and Mr. Tuttle, my heart swells with gratitude, that period of work was the beginning of my life's struggle, laid the foundation for my success, and I am forever grateful for those three and a half years of experience.

So, I've never complained about the boss like some people do: "We're nothing more than slaves, we're crushed to the dust by our employers, and they're having fun in beautiful villas, high up on top." Their safes are full of gold, and every dollar they have is earned by crushing us honest workers.

"I don't know if these complainers have ever wondered who gave them the opportunity to work? Who gave them the possibility to build a family? Who gave them the possibility to develop themselves? If they are already aware of the oppression that others are doing on him, then why not walk away and end the oppression? Work is an attitude that determines whether we are happy or not.

It is true that hiring and being employed are a kind of contractual relationship, but behind this contractual relationship, there can be no element of gratitude?

It is precisely because we have this job opportunity that we have the material of survival and the stage for realizing the value of life; It is our ingenuity that has a budding paradise; Our life experience is enriched; Only our abilities and talents can be displayed in the opportunity and space. So, why not tell the leader and thank him for giving you the opportunity?

Of course, everyone's success is inseparable from their own efforts. But no matter how perfect and wise your actions are, you can't help but be grateful to others.

Think about every time you act, what time did you not have the help of others? It is with the understanding and support of your colleagues, as well as the knowledge you usually learn from them, that you have the opportunity to become a talent and be promoted.

Successist Anthony says, "The first step to success is to be grateful, to be grateful for where you are, but also to have respect and gratitude for what others have done for you." One of the responsibilities of a leader is to be grateful. “

A person who was promoted from general staff to general manager said: "When I first came to this company, I was just an ordinary employee with no experience, why was I promoted to general manager in just two years?

This is because I always work with a grateful heart, I am grateful to my boss for giving me the opportunity, and I am grateful to my colleagues for their care and help. 'The grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a gushing spring'. It is this kind of gratitude that makes me work harder, and I want to do my best to repay all this, but unexpectedly, life has given me a greater reward.

Going to work with gratitude is not only good for the company and the boss, "gratitude leads to more things to be grateful for." This is an eternal law in the universe. Benedict said, "It is not a virtue to receive favor, but to repay it." When one has gratitude, virtue arises. "Don't think that work is dull and boring, when you go to work with gratitude, you can easily become a person of high moral character, a person with more affability and influence, and a person with a unique personal charm.

You have to believe that gratitude will open a magical door of power for you, discover your infinite potential, and welcome you with more and better job opportunities and opportunities for success.

"With the guy who makes you laugh"

1.

On New Year's Day, I made an appointment with a friend to have breakfast, and when I went out, I saw Uncle Liu and Aunt Wang on the first floor pushing their bicycles to the entrance of the community.

Aunt Wang smiled and was just about to speak, but was snatched away by Uncle Liu: "She said early in the morning that she was going to the vegetable market, and she had to be with her, I couldn't stand the noise, so I didn't accept my fate to come out to be a coolie." ”

While speaking, he also squeezed his eyebrows at Aunt Wang, and Aunt Wang glanced at him angrily: "You will be paralyzed at home for a few days after a few days of vacation, and if I don't pull you out for a walk, you will be in the parents' hair!" ”

Uncle Liu nodded again and again: "Yes, yes, what my wife said is too reasonable, if it weren't for you, I'm afraid I would have become a ball with the spider's web." ”

I was overjoyed next to me, and Aunt Wang couldn't hold back her laughter, whispering that he was the wrongdoer he owed in his previous life, and he came to collect debts, and he was not in shape when he was old.

Uncle Liu is actually a little unsmiling in front of people alone, at first I thought he was so serious that it was scary, but I saw him and Aunt Wang appear together a few times, only to find that this is simply a "strict wife".

In front of Aunt Wang, Uncle Liu always changes into a joker in seconds, as long as he can make his daughter-in-law happy, he can say anything funny, and even us outsiders are amused, not to mention Aunt Wang, who is happy in it, and she is smiling all day long.

reminds me of what Qian Zhongshu said:

Marriage is a besieged city. If marriage is about having someone who loves you and spoils you, who doesn't want to see your pain and tears, and who is even willing to give everything for your smile, this is a happy city gate.

That's true.

In this life, we have to meet many people, but it is difficult for one of thousands of people to understand that you love you, and it is even more rare to make you laugh from the bottom of your heart.

The best appearance of love is not the vigorous sweetness when you are in love, but the warmth that has been precipitated over time, even if it has been a long time, there are still people who are willing to make you happy and make you laugh.

The so-called quiet years are good, but like Uncle Liu and Aunt Wang, one is making trouble, the other is laughing, you know my warmth and coldness, I understand your joys and sorrows, you are willing to pamper me like a child, I am willing to worship you like a hero.

2.

I watched a video before about a professor giving a lecture and talking about how he and his wife have been married for 30 years and have always had a good relationship.

Why? The professor smiled and said:

ldquo; My wife has always advocated that the family should unify their thoughts, and most of the time she has fulfilled this good wish, she is the most important person in my family, and her thoughts are my thoughts.

When I first got married, my wife told me that in the future, you will have the final say on the big things in the family, and I will take care of the small things.

But then I found out that something was wrong, sometimes I thought it was a big deal, and I wanted to express some opinions, and she immediately said, such a small thing, you have to take care of it as a big man.

I've been married for more than 30 years, and there hasn't been a single major incident in my family. ”

The students in the audience couldn't help but be happy, and the old professor was also full of smiles, obviously this was an interesting way for them to get along with each other.

Behind the so-called "strict wife control", there is a rare and valuable willingness.

If I let you, you will be happy, then I will let you, as long as you are happy, let you live for a lifetime.

So you see, not all marriages are only responsible and boring in the end, the key is to see what kind of person you choose to live a lifetime, and the person who is willing to take care of your smile will do their best to make you happier throughout their lives.

If life is not comfortable, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, everything makes people numb; But if life is smooth, it is sweet to wash your hands and make soup for you, and the bucket mouth mixing rack is also a different kind of sweetness.

Living a life is not about how much the other party has, but how much he is willing to give you, not only material, but also spiritual resonance.

There are too many people who meet with red faces at the beginning, and finally they are red-eyed, the most rare thing is not how beautiful it used to be, but after many years, you look at that person's eyebrows and eyes, and you can still smile softly and say "I do".

3.

I don't know if you occasionally feel that life is really bitter and bitter, and we are looking for the sweetness in this long bitterness.

Even if a person is very free and easy, if there is such a sweet person, he must hold on tightly and not let go.

After all, this life is so long, you must be happy in time, and you must be happy as soon as possible.

Being able to make you laugh is not only a sign that the other party cares about you, but also an optimistic attitude towards life.

Even if there is a dispute, even if there will be a quarrel, even if it is inevitable to experience unsatisfactory experiences, through the rain, snow, wind and frost, but there is always someone who is willing to make you laugh, willing to take care of you, willing to spoil you, just thinking about it, I already feel that the world is worth it.

So, promise me, you must be with that person, just thinking of the name makes you can't help but smile at the corners of your mouth, okay?

There is no perfection in life, and regrets are also a kind of beauty.

The years are always in a hurry, and the stories in the stories are repeated every day, maybe not all the dust can wait for the scenery of the passing years. However, if a person can live a sound and colorful life in the darkest days, it is a kind of great wisdom.

Mr. Yang Jiang said that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart. Then, trying to be close to the sun and embracing each season with the warmth of each season is to become a better version of yourself.

Mr. Yang Jiang said that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart. Then, trying to be close to the sun and embracing each season with the warmth of each season is to become a better version of yourself.

Life is nothing more than an experience again and again, encountering mountains and rivers, crossing bridges and roads. It's just that some people turn their lives into disasters, and some people live under pressure into miracles.

The scenery on the outside, that is for others to see, the inner serenity, is the true nature of life, and the wonderful life of the calm is the love of life.

We must have the ability to run in the wind and rain; There is also the concentration to calm down and drink a cup of hot tea. The beauty of life is not in the outcome, but in the way it is, I love it.