Chapter 282 Don't Do What You Say Without Evidence

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Luan Yiyue saw the aggrieved little appearance of Xiao Jewel, how could she not feel distressed. But she still had to take advantage of this opportunity to teach her some facts and the cautious attitude that people should have:

"Because, neither Little Jewel nor Mother knows when the money disappeared.

Think about it, when this money is put into your small change bag in the commissary, it is five pieces a dollar. From being snatched by that Li Mier to now, a long time has passed.

The main thing is that we didn't find out on the spot when the money was gone.

Now, no one can say clearly whether this money was stolen by Li Mi'er! Anything, in the absence of clear evidence, we can't casually speculate and accuse her of stealing the money. ”

Little Jewel's eyes widened, looking at her mother's special grievances, tears hanging in the corners of her eyes.

Luan Yiyue also felt that this matter was very bad, but this time they didn't find out in time, and they had to swallow it if they didn't eat it, and explained comfortingly:

"Little jewelry, in the absence of direct evidence and stolen goods, we can't casually accuse other people's behavior, this is slander!

So today's loss, let's eat, eat a trench, and grow wise. When you go out in the future, you will have to pay attention to your belongings, understand? ”

"Woo~"

Little Jewel lowered her head, nodded and sobbed lowly.

"Well, big girl, you can't skip eating if you're sad. Moreover, it is immoral to casually accuse others without verification. If what you say is not true, in the eyes of others, Little Jewel will also become a bad girl, so we can't do things that have no evidence, huh? ”

"Got it." Xiao Zhu wiped her tears, responded with a red nose, and then obediently went to wash her hands and eat, on the way, Xiao Zhu may have thought of the key point, she raised her little face, and asked softly:

"Mom, even if we know in our hearts who did it, can't we say it out loud?"

In the eyes of Little Jewel, this money must have been stolen by the bad sister!

"Small jewelry, preconceived notions, may not be right. But in this matter, my mother also thinks that Li Mier did it. It's just that we didn't catch her on the spot, so we can't say it casually, because this small coin purse has passed through the hands of several people! Do you remember? ”

Xiao Jewel listened and was stunned for a while, "Mom, I'll think about it again~"

The little girl lowered her head again, and while carefully eating the warm sweet paste, she followed her mother's prompts and thought: Who in her little purse will take it?

She fell, and the small coin purse was snatched by the bad sister, and then she went to Aunt Xiang to chase it back, and when she came back, Aunt Xiang handed the coin purse to Aunt Zhang, because when her mother left her, Aunt He and Aunt Chen were by her mother's side-

When they were about to go home, Aunt Zhang handed the small purse to her mother again......

Li Mier, Aunt Xiang, Aunt Zhang, Mom, and finally came to her hands-

Little Jewel understands a little bit why her mother said that she can't talk nonsense, because she really wants to bite the bad sister to death and take her money, so the two aunts who took the small coin purse also have a problem!

Also, one thing that Xiao Jewelry didn't consider was that there was another situation: the guard stole himself.

If you testify against someone without evidence, you may be countered by the person concerned! How is it that outsiders stole your money? Can't it be your family, friends?!

Luan Yiyue watched the girl ponder while eating, watching the little girl frown for a while, and biting the spoon breathlessly for a while, she nodded comfortingly.

This expression also shows that Xiao Jewel is indeed seriously thinking about her rhetorical question, rather than blindly self-identification.

Although educating the girl in this way is too realistic, it will make the girl gradually doubt human nature, and after a long time, it will make the girl too realistic.

But compared to letting the girl raise the land innocently and psychologically fragile, she still hopes that her eldest girl can understand the world and live to understand reason.

"Mom, I see. Without catching the bad guys red-handed, Little Jewel won't talk nonsense anymore. Little Jewel finished the last bite of sweet paste and replied quietly.

Although she understood, Little Jewel was really unhappy: she now understood why her mother said when she took her home, 'The wicked have their own wicked grinding'.

Mothers and daughters like bad sisters will definitely reap the consequences in the future!

Treat others as fools, in fact, they are really stupid! Xiao Jewel is only four years old, and he can already reflect on the consequences from the past, let alone others?

"Yes, the little jewel is awesome! As a man, we must pay attention to seeking truth from facts, and do not let people's words cause public opinion, which is the behavior of a long-tongued woman, don't learn.

The little jewel grows bigger and bigger, and every word you say in the future will be responsible for your own words.

Because, if you say something casually, you may invisibly hurt others and help them abuse. Let's not hurt people, when we don't know the truth, we just purse our little mouths and protect ourselves, understand? ”

Little Jewel nodded: "Mom, bad sister is like this, why does her father ignore her?" ”

has already learned Aunt Wu's virtue, Xiao Jewel directly ignored her, but asked about her father - in the concept of the villain, the father of the bad sister, like her father, is loyal to the country, and must be upright and a good father.

How can you tolerate your own children growing up to be so virtuous?

"I'm sorry, little jewel, my mother doesn't know. Xu is... Things, like a set, right?! This actually has a lot to do with the environment in which she grew up. Just like your sister Sannizi, because she follows her mother a lot, she has been perverse and strong since she was a child, isn't she just like your uncle, different temperament? ”

In this era, taking care of children is generally the responsibility of the 'mother', and the child must be taken care of at least about 13 or 4 years old, and at least 7 or 8 years old.

And the most important thing for a child's good moral character is to grasp it from an early age - it is very important to teach by word and deed.

Puyang Liang's two eldest daughters, because they have been free-range since they were children, have not been protected by their parents, and their temperament is much better than that of Sannizi - and they are more miserable.

Because they can't be loved by Jiang Liting, their father sees the sky working in the field and outside, and he has no time to manage them, and don't expect grandpa and auntie to feel sorry for them.

In their concept since childhood, they have no relatives to rely on, so they have been obedient and sensible since they were young, in order to make their lives better.

On the other hand, Sannizi is completely different.

has stayed in Jiang Liting's arms since she was a child, and her strong temperament is to learn enough from her biological mother, if she hadn't been scolded by Puyangqu's uncle before, she would have been afraid of her once, she might continue to grab the supplementary food of the little jewelry, instead of staring at it like later-

This is the difference between having discipline and not being taught at all.