Originally, the bigger the scene of marrying a daughter-in-law, the longer the façade, and the glory of the ancestors, I naturally know this. But I always feel that our family was forced by Yin Changtian to do a wedding that is beyond my personal ability. The gift money of the twenty-eight tables of wedding banquet guests was the same as the cost of the entire wedding, and the eldest sons were not returned.

Speaking of gift money, I have to mention Zhang Zheyi again. When he got married, I gave a gift of 3,000 red envelopes, which was already the highest price of red envelopes for friends in the market. When I got married, Zhang Zheyi was so generous that he repaid me 10,000 yuan.

He said to me earnestly: "When I bought a house, if I didn't have your 200,000 yuan, it would not be so easy to get married." I see that your wedding is so extravagant, this is a little bit of my heart, I hope it can help you. ”

I felt a warm current in my heart, and it was not my main purpose to borrow money from him to help him, but it was also a mistake.

I don't want to focus on the process of the wedding, because in retrospect, there aren't many details that stand out to me. Most of them are formal ceremonies, only the song that runs through the whole process: Stefanie Sun's "Meet", which echoed in my ears for a long time.

It was the song that Yin Hui specially told the wedding company to choose. I still don't know what special meaning this song "Encounter" has. Perhaps it was this song "Meet" that made Yin Hui deeply infected, she was very excited, and the wedding was full of happy tears.

My situation is quite the opposite. On the day of the wedding, I was seriously sleep-deprived, groggy and conscious.

Hand in hand with Yin Hui and listen to the host's impassioned speech. I realized that from now on, I would also be a family man. In the future, there can be no more unbridled madness, and there is an extra hostess in the house to guard and restrain them.

When the parents took the stage hand in hand, they were even more overjoyed and smiled from ear to ear. It was the happiest and proudest smile I've ever seen my parents. It seemed that everyone except me was very excited about my wedding.

Looking back, I only seem to remember my confession to Yin Hui at that time. We looked at each other affectionately, and Yin Hui's smiling face full of tears I will never forget in my life.

"Hui'er, you dare to marry me Qin Yuan, it's really commendable." The guests at the wedding banquet in the audience gave me such a speech, casting strange glances and sporadic laughter mixed with boos, but Yin Hui didn't care. "I am willing to do my best to be a good husband and a good father in the future."

This is the most sincere and natural expression of my emotions at the moment. I don't dare to make bold promises, swearing. Because I'm afraid of not being able to cash in.

Yin Hui cried with joy, she said excitedly with tears: "I am willing to use my life to stay with you Qin Yuan, accompany you, and grow old with your son." ”

We hugged and kissed, and the audience responded with warm applause as a freeze frame for the beautiful picture of our wedding......

The price of slapping a swollen face and becoming fat was bloody, and it took me nearly three Chinese New Year's Eve to work day and day to pay off Yin Changtian's debt. I have a faint grudge in my heart, I passed on my grudge against Yin Changtian to Yin Hui, maybe I didn't even notice it.

Of course, the lavish wedding made my vanity fully satisfied. The pomp and circumstance of my wedding reception was a story that my neighbors talked about for a long time.

When we first got married, Yin Hui and I were living quite poorly. The family does not dare to have big expenses, just making up for the gifts, which has already accounted for most of the expenses in life.

Subsequently, Yin Hui and I lived a small life. At first, I was a little uncomfortable, and I was in and out of pairs with Yin Hui in a bright way. Later, with the run-in of time and the slow habituation, our feelings can only be described as stable and step-by-step.

I don't have to worry about the trivial things in life, Yin Hui takes care of the family affairs alone, and the whole family is comfortable.

She often asks her mother for advice on how to live at home, and her mother always imparts everything without reservation. It is more appropriate to say that it is not so much the daughter-in-law of the husband as the daughter-in-law of the mother-in-law.

At that time, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were inseparable from daily housework such as shopping, grocery shopping, and cooking, and were very intimate. I even suspect that I'm more of a son-in-law's character.

The combination between me and Yin Hui, I summarized it myself, it is inexplicable, it is more like a marriage that my mother pushed me into.

We lived in a two-person world for two years, and we were safe. Of course, there will inevitably be some stumbles and quarrels in life. I think I have a good temper and can hold back the anger.

Yin Hui's temper and personality are also easy-going, but she is a little tough, and she can't pull back ten cows if she recognizes it. The personalities of the two of us are difficult to fight for red-faced, and under normal circumstances, we should maintain our demeanor and give in first. Yin Hui got off the donkey, and everyone ended up peacefully.

In addition to daily life and work, we can talk about very few in-depth topics, such as values, dreams, the meaning of life, and so on.

Before she got married, she had a few female friends and girlfriends to talk to, but after marriage, she completely gave up her relationship, and all her focus was on me to live.

The details of Yin Hui's personal life that I know are not comprehensive, but what impresses me is that she often wears a pair of gold bracelets. The style of this pair of gold bracelets is old-fashioned, and the color is not bright enough, and she always likes to play with and look at it in her spare time.

She told me: "This is what my mother left behind before her death, and the dowry for me to leave the cabinet in the future is a thought, and it is also a spiritual sustenance for my mother." But my mother didn't wait for the day her daughter got married. ”

Instead, she pretended to be mysterious: "This bracelet has an extra meaning, it bears witness to our marriage and leads to our union." ”

I said, "No, your dowry must be witnessed." "It's so heavy that I don't talk about it very often.

I also like to joke about Yin Hui, saying that she looks like a young man, but her heart is more conservative and traditional than that of the elderly. In the bathroom, she used the little flirtatious love between husband and wife to refute the error of my opinion......

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Early the next morning, I met Li Zecheng according to the address. He and I have been covering for a day, and it was quite smooth to visit his uncles and uncles today.

When I went to his third uncle's house to buy gifts, Li Zecheng said that the money on his body was not enough in a hurry, and I didn't think much about it and helped him pay 180 yuan in advance. His cousins and cousins had a lot of contact with Li Zecheng when they were children, and they were very enthusiastic about their age, and they took out the proper etiquette of entertaining guests with tea and water.

But they just didn't feel the seriousness of the situation, and when they talked about Li Zecheng, everyone seemed to be in a calm and relaxed mood.