After considering whether there are any shortcomings in the boy that he can't accept, Chiba thinks about it ideologically.

Among these 11 boys, he felt that Xu Ruizhi and Dang Haoran were on a par with him ideologically. They are better than him in terms of ability and accession to the WTO. Other aspects are also very attractive. Chiba listed the two picks as his strongest competitors. But he knew in his heart that his strength was not as good as these two people, and it was only a matter of time before Yu Xinxiang was snatched away, and he could only wait for death.

Helpless, he had to comfort himself like this.

Chiba's self-comfort: First, whether they can be together or not, this is a matter of God, and there is no need to be together at the moment, temporarily separated can allow each to better improve and improve themselves, and choose the exercise environment they need. Second, everyone has their own characteristics, and the attraction is not the same frequency, so why care that you are inferior to others in some aspects, and others are also inferior to you in some aspects. Third, take a step back, even if you lose your heart and have no shortcomings to resist the boys who have no shortcomings and are listed 12/16 = 3/4, then on the other hand, there are three-quarters of the girls in the class I have no shortcomings to resist, as long as each other's bottom line is not violated, they can be together, three-quarters of the girls in the class have such a large range of choices, there will definitely be people who are willing to be with me. Fourth, and the main reason why I'm single, maybe together now, but it's everyone's instinct to choose better people, and if you want others to like you, you naturally have to be good enough in a large crowd. Morality tells us that before choosing, if you can, try to choose someone you like, and other conditions are better, as long as you don't have any particularly huge changes, you will not abandon it. I am now using enough time and energy to make myself better, on the one hand, I can let others choose myself, on the other hand, it is also for the happiness of the future, and the most important thing is that I like to move forward with this attitude, more passionate, more unwilling, and more motivated.

Everyone is a one-winged angel, only to find the other half can spread their wings and fly, I finally found you, but the sad thing is: it turns out that we are a smooth child. Haha, don't cry, don't be sad, you have to stand up, you have to be strong. He is not your lover, but he is your most intimate and iron friend.

Generally speaking, friends are first born in the "Yishuner", that is, the same sex, but it is not excluded that there will also be one or two friends of the opposite sex, the term is called "blue confidant" or "red confidant". It's a blessing to have a real friend of the opposite sex who can show you a whole different world. She is the one you know that life is so beautiful in the eyes of women, and he makes you feel a wider world.

However, the maintenance of friends of the opposite sex needs to be more measured. When the other party already has their own boyfriend and girlfriend, you should pay attention to your words and deeds and don't cause misunderstandings. If the other person is still a happy bachelor, do you occasionally want to hold his hand and go further? Stop, think before you do it, taking this step means that you may have gained a boyfriend and lost a friend, or you may not have a boyfriend and you have lost a friend, think for yourself.

Actually, what you crave most is love, right, because you're getting older.