Dad once said it to me

No man can make you dependent for the rest of your life.

Mom once said that to me

If a man likes you when he has everything, he really likes you, there are not many variables, if he has nothing at the beginning and then has a lot, then he will generally abandon you.

Mom also said

Don't look for anything worse than mine in the future, no, if the family is much better than us, absolutely not.

Fat aunt said

A man wants to take care of his family, if he doesn't care about his family, no matter how good and beautiful he is, he is someone else's husband, not yours.

And what others said to me, the day a woman loses herself, the day a man leaves you.

Some things are in the bones, keep them for yourself and slowly experience them.

Lu Tao is Xu Zhisen's refusal to admit defeat and his skills, but he has been exposed to Lu Yaxun since he was a child.

Yes, he once despised Lu Yaxun, and he had no respect for this man who had raised him for more than 20 years knowing that it was not his own child, and had no heirs of his own.

But at the end of the story, he called Lu Yaxun's father, and he said that he would always call him that.

He is only called Xu Zhisen and Lao Xu.

If Xu Zhisen had appeared a little earlier, maybe Lu Tao would not have fallen in love with Charlene, in his bones Lu Tao is inferior in front of Milai, he doesn't know Milai, he thinks that rich girls deserve to be deceived by them, and he doesn't love Milai either, because they are not in the same world.

When Yang Xiaoyun and Xiang Nan rented a house, they talked about the courtyard life they had when they were children, and said that the locust tree and the jujube tree. But Lu Tao and Milai have never shared similar experiences.

When Lu Tao became more and more like Xu Tao, Charlene began to be at a loss, she found that this man said to her, don't forget to write your name in the driver's book when you buy a car, she was angry, because he became no different from those nightclub men, she found that he slowly moved away from their world, no longer complaining to each other when they were together, but that he was successful, and I was just a salesman who achieved nothing, he bought a single-family house, but I still have nothing.

Such a feeling, how can it not be Lu Tao, Milai can spend a month's living expenses of a college boy at once, can drive a sports car to school, and can rent a house all at once, which is too strange to Lu Tao.

Milai opened A3 and Lu Tao opened A4, and at that time they began to raise their eyebrows.

However, a person's personality is generally determined by genes, and the other half is the first memory.

The psychology teacher told me that one year old is big, and three years old is old.

Later, I finally understood that genes come from the experience and life combination of the previous generation, and the first memory is the environment they struggled into.

In the end, Lu Tao is still Lu Tao, he chose not Lingxian'er, nor Milai, because he is not a rich man in nature, and he has nothing.

He will never be the Xu Tao that Xu Zhisen hopes, despite how similar he once was.

Women can't rely on men, but they can't be completely isolated.

Men can't rely on others, but they also need someone else's help.

There are four words that are most important for marriage, and that is to seek common ground while reserving differences.

To love you is to love yourself because we are similar

Being attracted by the very different lives of you and me is only for a while, and one can never love others more than oneself.

It didn't take long for him to be in contact with Xu Zhisen for a long time, and when he had 20 million, he didn't blink an eye to buy things and pay for them without giving change.

He has changed.

When Xu Zhisen analyzed the women around Lu Tao, he said that Lingshan and Milai were very good, but Charlene made you unable to brake.

This is Xu's view, which is fundamentally different from Lu Tao.

Because Lu Tao is not from a rich background, he doesn't know the life and heart of those distant rich girls.

He knew Charlene because they grew up in a similar environment

People are inherently good at the beginning, and their natures are similar and far away.

Because Lu Tao was born in the Lu family, he loves a similar Charlene.

Lu Tao loves Charlene instead of Milai because he is not Xu Tao.

Even if he once moved closer to Xu Zhisen, even if he was once separated from Xia Lin.

In the end, he called Lu Yaxun's father and married Charlene.

I remember that neither Pighead nor Lulu understood the meaning of utopia, and this is what they have in common.

In the heartbreak utopia, Xiang Nanhuazi Lingshan Lu Tao Milai all live in equal space and have the same large space, which is indeed a utopia. Such a utopia will eventually dissolve one day after everyone's life is on track, Huazi bought a big house of 160, Xiangnan and Yang Xiaoyun are still in the youth home, and Lu Tao went to France.

What is the slogan of the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom? Everyone had clothes to wear, everyone had a flat field, but in the end the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom was just a disillusioned idealism.

We used to be like equal individuals in a utopia, with different lives under different environments and genes.

The same people don't have the same fate, some people drive Alto, some people drive Audis, some people live in houses, and some people are homeless.

This is the driving force of human progress

We are all orphans in this beautiful world, looking for our own kind, and after finding it, we realize that we are not alone, not monsters, not alone.

This is the irreplaceable meaning of Charlene's Lu Tao.

In the process of becoming more and more Xu Tao, Xu Tao and Lu Tao are always fighting, and Charlene is Lu Tao's original state.

He would be relieved when he saw Charlene, knowing that he was still Lu Tao.

When Charlene is gone, why is he at a loss, because he can't find himself anymore.

Lu Tao and Xu Tao were evenly matched, which made him confused.

Remember what Xiang Nan said lastly? Yang Xiaoyun, you always want to learn from Xia Lin, but in fact, you are different from Xia Lin!

Yes, they are different, just like Yang Xiaoyun's mother is different from Xia Lin's mother.

Xia Lin's mother is stubborn and celibate and has no money, and Yang Xiaoyun's mother is very good at making money.

Ling Shan, she is still young, and there are always defects behind the adult world that have not yet unfolded to her.

She is like Milley before she was hurt, she loves someone and treats her in her own way.

She didn't ask for anything, she was kind to Lulu's younger brother, and went back to Taiwan by herself, leaving only a beautiful smile.

Or else? Can she, a rich girl, be with a peasant kid like Lulu's brother?

What to say? My dad asked me whether to buy an Audi or a Mercedes-Benz, a villa to buy in Beijing or Shanghai, and you can accompany me to see a jewelry exhibition in a few days.

Lu Tao and Charlene love themselves, because they found their own shadow in each other's bodies, so Charlene was once willing to humbly love Lu Tao and let him realize his dreams.

Lu Tao succeeded, and she felt that she had also succeeded.

It's just that Lu Tao, who succeeded later, became Xu Tao and no longer Charlene.

And what Lu Tao is fighting for is for himself and for Charlene, because they originally had similar goals.

The biggest loser in this film is Xu Zhisen, he is planning to succeed, but he regrets it the most, he finally knows that what he gave up with his own hands is what he wants most, love, including love and affection.

He has struggled alone for decades, and he really wants to find a kind of people for himself and turn Lu Tao into Xu Tao.

It's just that he failed after all.

Comrade Mi Lixiong is not like a professional businessman compared to Xu Zhisen, he is a chef, hehe, Mi Lai follows him, and he can't fight in business like Xu Zhisen.

Milley's father can hand over the business to Milley and lose hundreds of millions for one of her love fantasies.

I just said that although the academic background and growth environment make people very different, but human nature, the most essential and important thing is the same.

Struggle has taught me the biggest truth, people are different, others spend 10,000 a day, you blindly follow the trend, but ignore that others earn 100,000 a day and you earn 100 a day.

Don't help others realize their dreams, others are always others, whether it is father and son, husband and wife, and even more so friends.

Xu Zhisen helped Lu Tao realize his dream, and Milai also helped Lu Tao, but he didn't come by himself, and he never knew how to cherish it.

Lu Tao helped Charlene realize her dream, Charlene only felt that her personality was insulted, and to truly love someone was to respect the way she wanted.

Money is important, friends are more important, but you are the most important.

Don't lose friends for money, don't lose yourself for friends and lovers.

There is a rich father who is very polished, and it is very beautiful to marry a rich man.

But you have to understand that all this is nothing compared to the loss of yourself.

And no one is truly self-fulfilling because of others.

Maybe you are Huazi, so you are not angry with Lu Tao's life.

Maybe you're Lulu, so you don't understand Milley's spontaneity.

Maybe you're Charlene, so you don't understand Lulu's change of heart.

The first step to growth is to embrace the complexity of the world and the diversity of individuals. And after understanding the complexity of this world, the same self-insistence.

Finding a group of like-minded friends and partners who can sing together is all about trying to assert yourself.

And success is just to better assert yourself.

Man's greatest enemy is himself, and this is a universal truth.

Whether you are a post-80s, post-90s, post-00s or postdoctoral queen mother.

Everyone is self-asserted and respectful. Peace and quiet, the world is peaceful!

People are divided into groups, and things are gathered by like!

This is a journal that finally understands why Lu Tao doesn't love Milai, which is also equivalent to Chiba's early concept of love.

In particular, the phrase "I see my own shadow in you" had a great impact on him!