On June 3, 2011, he sent another text message to Junya and Chu Xue.

Xia Qianye: I like someone who doesn't like me, and it's painful to dare not approach and gradually become stranger; Being liked by someone you don't like, that feeling is just a burden, and it's also painful! The person you like likes likes others in your heart, and being together is just touching and responsible, and it is also painful! People don't want to fall in love but study hard, but the other party can't let go of the struggle no matter how hard they fight, and it's also very painful; The answer is the only one, but it is so troublesome, the shout turns into an echo, and the forest has been wandering for a long time, if everyone is in the right time, like the person who likes him, then there will not be so many people in the world, in the process of fighting for their dreams, gradually become indifferent, become complicated, and never return to the innocence of childhood, the kind of pure self.

He then analyzed his own heart.

Chiba's heart:

In your heart, Lu Junya occupies an important position, and your feelings for her could not be better described by the song "Obsession and No Regrets". You believe that this is a fate arranged by God, because you love her deeply. For Ao Chuxue, maybe it's fate, although you also like Ao Chuxue, but you are destined to be together, just like the love offering sings.

Obsessed and unrepentant, a free and easy attitude to life, can also be a dose of self-comfort between half-dreaming and half-waking.

Fate, it is a religious concept from Buddhism, Confucianism and Taoism do not talk about fate, nor do they say that you and I have fate. The fate of later generations is described as the silk thread entangled in fate, and it is also fate; It is an invisible connection between people; It is the chance and possibility of some kind of inevitable encounter, including all emotions. In love, the fate of two people falling in love is composed of many coincidences, many coincidences, many suddenness, some accidents, and some inevitability.

Chiba and his roommate in the lower bunk, Ikahiro, have a good conversation, mainly because they are both interested in the philosophy of life, both are interested in psychology, and both watch Naruto. But Chiba also doesn't agree with him very much, one is that he loves to play CF too much, and he is addicted to it, and the other is that he is unusually obsessed with virgins. He often preached to the other nine people in our entire dorm room—the importance of virginity. Although we felt that it was really important, he emphasized it again almost every few days, which made the roommates feel a little frustrated.

Ye Huixuan slept in the bunk opposite Chiba. Chiba admires him very much, he seems to have almost no hobbies except for watching the Legend of Sword and Fairy and occasionally playing table tennis, he doesn't play games, he doesn't watch movies, he is almost a person who spends all his energy on improving himself, and everything he does is almost working hard for the future. This is something that Chiba can only admire but can't do himself.,His two hobbies of animation and famous books take up a lot of his time.,And he can't get rid of or let go of them.,And these two are almost of little help for future work.,Can't make money at all.。 Ye Huixuan has an introverted personality, he is very good at playing table tennis, and he is one of the best among boys.

What might a person be like if he or she didn't have any hobbies? The results can be imagined. Hobbies are sometimes a spiritual sustenance for people. Some people will say that if his greatest hobby is controlled or banned, it will undoubtedly kill his head. That's a bit of an exaggeration. But it also makes sense. For example, you are a fishing enthusiast who loves and even obsess about it. If you are forbidden to go fishing for a month or two, the pain is definitely not understandable to ordinary people. Because in your eyes fishing is a very beautiful and even sacred event, and there is nothing more important than this, and no activity is more meaningful than this. Anglers get endless pleasure from fishing, and naturally regard fishing as the most important and indispensable activity in their lives. Even their own lifeblood.

If the hobby reaches such a point, it can only be said that the person is truly devoted to the things he likes and is good at getting spiritual enjoyment from them, which is not something that many people can achieve. But if you are so obsessed with love, even your hobbies affect your work, family harmony, and even other people's lives. If it comes to this extent, it is indeed excessive. Such a hobby is not advisable. Because hobbies are just hobbies, just a part of spare time, and cannot completely replace one's life and work. Sometimes people may be overly obsessed, too persistent and abandon the basics, forget the essence of life, forget the core meaning of life, such people are definitely not people who really understand hobbies, and it is impossible to make hobbies better serve their lives and the development of life.

If a person does not even have normal hobbies in life, what kind of attitude will he or she have towards himself/herself? I can only think that he is pathetic. Because he doesn't understand the joy of life, because he can't understand the relationship between life and work well, because he is a single-minded person, because he may also be a person who has no interest in life. Would you be happy with such a person?

What is a hobby? Hobbies refer to a person's frequent participation in an activity under the guidance of interests and a positive tendency to be active. For example, if a person loves the science of psychology, then he will often go to bookstores and libraries, buy and borrow books on psychology, read these books, and will be energetic, emotional, and happy, and will behave consciously and positively. The cultivation of interests and hobbies by young people has an important impact and significance on their healthy growth and even their life. Hobbies are the most important partners and friends in the lives of each of us who love life and love life. We can neither indulge our love for her, nor kill the minimum respect for her. We should let her embellish our lives, enrich the connotation of our lives, and enhance the taste and value of our lives. Such a hobby is the most reasonable; Only such hobbies can truly promote the harmony and healthy development of people's body and mind.

So what is interest? Interest refers to the psychological tendency of a person to know and grasp a certain thing, strive to participate in a certain activity, and have a positive emotional color. For example, people who are interested in psychology tend to pay attention to psychology and show a longing mood in their speech.