"Young lady, Xiao Langjun has woken up!"

Before the two people in the room could react, the originally happy face of the painting screen suddenly changed to a sad face, "It's just that Xiao Langjun seems to be very afraid of me, he used to like to play with me very much." ”

Su Niang suddenly cried and laughed, "You, you're always so babbling, if your heart is not strong, you will be frightened!" ”

Su Yun was slightly stunned when he heard this, but quickly settled down, stood up and smiled: "Then let's go over and have a look." ”

She had to tell herself over and over again that she was not only a child psychologist, but also a mother when faced with that child.

No matter how uncomfortable you are, this is a fact that cannot be changed.

When a few people passed by the front hall of the study, Su Yun called the old doctor who had been waiting here since he finished speaking.

The old doctor, who had been stuffed here for almost half an hour, immediately stood up in surprise, and then probably felt that he was a little impolite, so he hurriedly clenched his fists and coughed twice, twisted his beard and said slowly: "Since this is the case, the old man will go and show Xiao Langjun." ”

Su Yun smiled a little, but he pretended to be something, so he didn't say anything more, and led a group of people to the bedroom.

After thinking about it, Su Yun first asked the old doctor to wait in the outer room, took the painting screen and Su Niang to lift the curtain of the inner room first, and walked in.

As soon as he entered the room, Su Yun saw a small group of people huddled in the corner with a panicked face, and his body was still trembling slightly.

Su Yun's heart was sour, at this time, the villain obviously saw her, and the whole person subconsciously shrank back again, and a pair of black grape-like eyes were full of uneasiness and horror.

Su Yun slowly approached him tentatively, and the villain suddenly cried, "Don't come here!" Bad woman! You're a bad woman! ”

As he spoke, he grabbed the pillow on the bed and threw it at Su Yun.

Su Yun's heart was sour and astringent, he stretched out his hand and gently caught the pillow, a pair of eyes still looked directly at the child gently, as if he couldn't see his increasingly frightened expression, slowly approached him, squatted in front of him, looked at him at eye level, and said softly: "Can Jiaming tell me, why don't you want to see me?" ”

Slightly shaken by the smile on the lips of the woman in front of him, the five-year-old child was inexplicably a little cramped, and the panic that was full of fear just now did not know when it gradually faded, and it turned into a thick grievance and anger, "You are a bad woman!" Everyone said, "Because of you, my father won't come back!" Don't Ming'er! Ming'er is not a child who no one hurts, no! As he spoke, a pair of small hands patted the bed board angrily.

Su Yun looked distressed, and stretched out his hand to pull his little hand to see if he had hurt himself.

The child in front of him shrank back with a wary face.

Looking at Xiao Budian, who shrunk into a ball and stuffed in the corner, Su Yun was distressed and angry, but when he spoke again, he still spoke in a gentle and gentle tone, "Of course, Jia Ming is not a child who no one hurts, they don't understand, Jia Ming hurts a lot!" ”

She secretly focused the conversation on the second half of the child's sentences, downplaying the part about her and his father, and now she had to slowly reverse some of the child's thinking, to let him know that he was not unloved, and to let him feel the love of others.

The child's world is very simple, his reaction to a person is like a mirror, how you treat him, he will give you how to respond.

A child who is bathed in a lot of love will inevitably have a sound personality and a warm heart, so it is useless to say more, the point is to slowly influence him with actions.

The five-year-old child was really easily led astray by her, but listening to Su Yun's words, his small mouth flattened, and he suddenly cried with a whin, so aggrieved that he couldn't do it, and kept wiping the tears on his face with his little hands, and said while crying: "You lied to Ming'er, no one loves Ming'er, woo, my father didn't come to see Ming'er when he came back, woo, Ming'er deliberately didn't appear in front of him, and he didn't come to me, you ...... You too, woo woo, you don't hurt Ming'er, Ming'er comes to play with you and you ignore Ming'er, sometimes you are fierce Ming'er, woo woo, Ming'er can only come to see you secretly, but ...... But everyone said, you're going to run away with someone else, never Ming'er, woo woo, bad, you are all bad! ”

Su Yun listened to this child's innocent language, and tears were about to fall, Zheng Yunge, Zheng Yunge, how unbearable you are! This is the child you gave birth to in October!

He didn't want much, he just wanted to be cared for by his parents, even if he had a pair of unqualified parents, he never gave up his expectations for his parents, but the reality disappointed him again and again.

Not when he longs for love, not when he needs the protection of his parents, how does such a child subconsciously protect himself with thorns in the midst of crying and despair again and again?

Su Niang and Huaping, who came in with Su Yun, also had red eyes at this time, who would have thought that Xiao Langjun thought like this!

Yes, Xiao Langjun has gradually had his own thoughts, his own desires and sadness when they were negligent, but they didn't know anything, and completely ignored this little person.

Su Yun finally suppressed the sadness and distress that came to her throat, she knew that she couldn't give her child any negative emotions now, he needed positive affirmation and encouragement.

So he raised the corners of his lips slightly, and said softly: "How could Jiaming think that I was leaving, I am Jiaming's mother, naturally I will not leave, Jiaming don't listen to other people's nonsense." ”

Before, the joint friends threw stones at Zheng Yunge, also because they thought that Zheng Yunge was going to abandon him completely, so they made a move in sadness and anger.

In the future, she will slowly teach him how to properly vent his emotions, how to control his behavior, what is right and what is wrong, and how to be a little man.

And all this, no one has ever taught him in the past.

Jia Ming looked at the woman with a gentle smile in front of him with teary eyes, and seemed to be stunned for a while.

In the end, it is the mother who has always longed for it, the five-year-old child slowly stopped his tears, tentatively stretched out his hand to Su Yun, stretched out halfway but seemed to be afraid of something, retracted again, and said in a small voice: "You...... Wouldn't you really want Ming'er? ”

Su Yun looked at the child's unconscious small movements, and sighed slightly in his heart, it must be that when the child tried to contact Zheng Yunge before, Zheng Yunge did something bad to him, which made him not even dare to touch her now.

This is called conditioned reflex in psychology, and the American psychologist Watson once did a famous experiment in which he made an eleven-month-old baby see a white-haired toy when he heard a terrifying sound, and then the baby learned to be afraid of white-haired objects.

Yes, for a child who is like a blank sheet of paper, he learns all the time, it's just that some of the learning is unconscious, and some are imposed on him by others. Therefore, in the same way, the theory of conditioned reflexes can also create a positive impact on children.

After a few quick turns in his mind, Su Yun just smiled softly on his face, and before the child could react, he gently wrapped his little hands with his hands and said, "Naturally not, how can I not want Jiaming." He held his hand with one hand and touched his head encouragingly with the other.

The child was stunned for a moment, and a flush seemed to flush on his fair face.

He pulled the quilt beside him with his other hand a little uncomfortably, and his face was twisted to the side and he didn't dare to look at her, but he didn't withdraw the hand she was holding, and said twistingly: "That...... Can Ming'er come to you often to play in the future? As he spoke, his teeth unconsciously bit his lower lip, a micro-expression of unease.

Su Yun smiled and said, "Of course you can!" Jiaming can not only come to play with me, but in the future, we can also live together, okay? ”

The child's hand pulling the quilt paused, and an expression of joy, disbelief and hesitation flashed on his face for a moment, but finally returned to unease, looked at Su Yun and said, "However, grandmother is not allowed to ......"

He remembered very well, he had asked his mother why he couldn't live with her, obviously they all lived with his father and mother, every time they played late with him, their father and mother would come to them to go home for dinner, every time, Jiaming would be very envious.

But his mother looked at him impatiently, shook off his hand, and asked him to ask his grandmother himself, what did she have to do with her if she didn't let them live together?

"I'm going to tell my grandmother that I really want to live with Jiaming, and beg her to let us live together, okay?" Su Yun said softly, carefully taking care of the child's emotions, "In the future, I will accompany Jiaming every day, Jiaming can find me at any time when he wants to play, and he can say anything to me at any time." ”

The child's eyes burst out with dazzling brilliance for a moment, the uneasiness on his face gradually receded, a small face was faintly flushed, and his small mouth couldn't help but, but he didn't seem to want others to know, and finally only pursed slightly, very reserved, looked at Su Yun and nodded, "Hmm." ”

After a pause, as if he was afraid that his movements would be too light for others to see, he nodded heavily with a nervous face, "Hmm! ”

This kid might still be a little tsundere.

Su Yun smiled in his heart, and continued to say softly: "Then now, I'll let the doctor waiting outside show you, okay?" Jiaming has been crying for so long just now, and we are all worried about whether you have cried and damaged your body. ”

A hesitant expression appeared on the child's face, and Su Yun immediately said, "I'm here to accompany you, Su Niang and Huaping are here to accompany you." ”

As if struggling for a while, the child finally nodded slightly.

Su Yun smiled slightly, touched his head, and just wanted to turn around and call the doctor in, when he suddenly felt the child next to him pull her sleeve, with a small force, as if a little milk cat bit her clothes with its immature teeth, and said in a small voice: "Mother don't worry, Ming'er is not unwell, Ming'er is fine, and she will never cry again in the future." ”

Her heart suddenly softened, this child was so obedient that she was sad.