Chapter 256: Look at Him as a Person

Lu Tao and Charlene are not as similar as imagined, if you use Millay as a reference, they are just not rich families originally, Charlene is a career-oriented woman, very temperamental, very strong personality, she looks very stubborn when she is not casual, engaged in fashion design, wants to study in France, from the whole play, I don't like her stubbornness very much, Lu Tao is very willful, whether it is Xu Zhisen, Lu Yaxun or Xia Lin, when he is taught a lesson, it is difficult to accept, quarrel with a straight face, and have a very bad attitude, When I was doing pastoral songs, I couldn't listen to the advice of Mr. Mi and Uncle Fang at all, and I deceived Mi Lai and stole her and Charlene.

Interests and hobbies are nothing, and the main thing to look at a person is to see who he is. Huazi is a good person from beginning to end, he gives people sincerity, peace of mind, and reality, he is good to Lulu, he didn't lie to her, and Lu Tao, Xiang Nan and other people also get along, in general, he is a purebred good person, although Lulu has some reasons at home, it is understandable, but like Lu Tao and Xia Lin, it is always unreasonable to go behind the scenes and be good with another person, Yang Xiaoyun and Xiang Nan are also good people, she is a little compared to the heart, often count Xiang Nan, his career is ordinary, he is very good to his wife, they are honest, cute, and often quarrel. Milai is a good person, gentle and lovely, virtuous and easy-going, Lingshan is also very good, in the whole play, he is a good boy who has not entered the WTO. Although Pig Head and Lulu are on good terms, they are very righteous and okay when they are with other people.

Xu Zhisen has been struggling for business all his life, after returning to China after his successful career, he wants to pass on his life's experience in this area to Lu Tao, he wants to convey all his thoughts, concepts, interests, etc. to his son, at first it was okay, Lu Tao accepted a lot, and then he understood that it was not the life he wanted, he just wanted to be an ordinary architectural designer. Think about it, too, in the Hokage, Naruto changed Airo and the others, didn't he also impose his warm side on the cold hearts of others? There is another way for teachers to teach and educate, and that is to impose on students what is in the books and on themselves. Influencing others to realize their own value now feels a little ridiculous, it is the self that does things, but how can there be perfect things in the world, it is precisely because of accepting its shortcomings that it will be easier to face its truth.

How to see people and recognize people? How do you look at a person's character? When getting along with others, the most important thing is to look at the other party's character, if the other party's character is very poor, don't make deep friends. Many college students who have just entered the society often do not recognize the good or bad character of a person.

Look at this person's conversation

When intersecting with people, we must first look at the person's conversation, which can reflect the person's education level, personality and temperament. If it is a person who does not match the preface and the afterword, and speaks upside down, then he must be an insincere person, and such a person cannot be friends with him.

Look at the person's appearance

In addition to conversation, a person's appearance is also very important. Many people understand that the appearance is brightly dressed, which is not right, the sages of ancient times were willing to be poor, all of them were dressed in tatters, and they still became a generation of grandmasters. The appearance I say refers to the spirit shown to others, such as people who are always cringing and not worth getting along with.

Look at what others are saying

If you want to understand what a person's character is, you can see what the people around him say about him, the eyes of the masses are always bright, if it is recognized that the character is very poor, then you must have reservations when you get along with this person. There is also the case where this person is praised by others, either he is a good person or he is a hypocrite.

Look at his social circle

The fourth way to observe one's character is to look at the person's social circle, and people always like to form various circles with people who are similar to their own conduct. If a person is surrounded by friends who are not very good people, then slowly, he will also become such a person, on the contrary, if a person associates with noble people, his own conduct will immediately become noble.

Look at the person's hobbies

Hobbies can also tell part of the story. If a person is always addicted to mahjong pai gow, then such a person is absolutely untouchable, and the other side of gamblers shows that they are expecting nothing for nothing. Not only gambling, but also stealing, and people who drink well should not be exposed too much.

Look at the person's attitude to life

How do you look at a person's character? Everyone's attitude towards life is different, and I recommend that you get along with those who love life and are optimistic and open-minded. Making good friends can help you a lot, especially those who are active in life, and you will always find it nice to be with them.