According to psychologist Maslow's hierarchy of needs, human needs are like a ladder, when basic physiological needs and security needs are met, there is a need to love, to be loved, and to belong.

In this regard, we can also find a correspondence from Maslow's hierarchy of needs, what is love? It can be physiological satisfaction, a sense of security, social complementarity, a feeling of respect, and a search for self-worth. All in all, love is not singular, it is a collection of five emotional needs: physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs, and self-actualization needs.

Lin Jingtian is in this need right now.

Whether it's an online relationship or a long-distance relationship, after all, only when you meet can you be considered a positive result.

As soon as he thought of this, Lin Jingtian's heart was not quiet, and he seemed to have started another yearning for life.

Before, it was not that I didn't want to meet, but later, a series of accidents ensued and I had to stop this idea. First he was arrested, stayed in prison for a period of time, and then joined the company, without making any credit, and all the hard work and fatigue became in vain, and then he fell into the dark days of no money, and even basic life became a problem.

But now it's different, I'm ready to meet, and I have all the conditions to dare to meet, so this desire is on the agenda. Especially when I suddenly heard Roland say that he was going to marry another man, the feeling of rushing was really strong.

In order to confirm his charm and prepare for the meeting, Lin Jingtian even ran to Lin's mother, knocking on the side and trying to get a word from his mother.

Seeing that Lin Jingtian was back, Mother Lin was naturally overjoyed, and immediately made a large table of delicious food, and the mother and son chatted while eating.

While eating, Lin Jingtian suddenly put down the chopsticks in his hand and said to Lin's mother: "Mom, to be honest, do you think your son is handsome?" ”

As soon as she heard this, Mother Lin, who was eating, immediately stopped her mouth, put down her chopsticks and looked at her son, who always played cards according to common sense, and said earnestly: "Xiaotian, being good-looking is just a natural advantage, it shouldn't be the goal you should pursue at your current age, your goal now is to learn to become mature and steady, you are no longer the age that comes from temperament." ”

"Mom, do you think I'm the type that girls like?"

Could it be that I was wrong just now?

Although she didn't understand her son's true intentions, as soon as she heard this kind of showmanship, Lin's mother was still so angry that she couldn't beat me: "Don't mess with me anymore, since you went to kindergarten, are there still fewer girls hanging around at my door?" It's no wonder that the girls are blind now, and they spoil you, so there should be a girl who is not blind, so that you can be educated by some frustration, so as to save you from being a single dog like you. ”

"How can anyone boast so much about his own son? Praise me for being handsome, just say it, how can I bring such a roundabout, it's too impure. ”

Mother Lin immediately began to talk nonsense in a serious manner: "Not handsome." ”

"Really?"

"If I don't hit you, why will you sink your heart, if you don't sink your heart, when will I be able to hold my grandson."

"Then you don't have to fight, someone has already helped you fight me."

As soon as she heard this, Mother Lin immediately quit and said, "Someone dares to hit you, who is blind?" ”

Lin Jingtian looked inexplicable, is this old lady menopause early? Thinking is really complex and changeable, so he said: "What's the matter, you are allowed to say that I am not, and others can't say it?" ”

Mother Lin cleared her throat, straightened her sitting posture and said, "Of course, what is a child, a child is a creature who can be beaten and scolded thousands of times, but he is not allowed to say a bad word to others." ”

After finishing speaking, Mother Lin seemed to have reacted, stared at Lin Jingtian motionless for a few seconds, and asked tentatively, "Why do I feel that something is wrong with you today?" As soon as you come back, ask some strange words, you won't be? ”

The corners of Lin Jingtian's mouth rose, and he said seriously: "Really." ”

Mother Lin still had an expression of disbelief, her face was full of cautious temptation, and she asked with a blank look, "Really?" ”

Although Lin Jingtian is not particularly old, he has also reached the age of marriage, especially those old classmates in the past, many of them have already hugged their grandchildren, and their own children are still single dogs.

Therefore, after learning the news of Lin Jingtian's love, Lin's mother was still very happy.

It's just that this guy won't fool me, right?

After reconfirming Lin Jingtian's affirmative eyes, Mother Lin was overjoyed, and spontaneously had a feeling of joy that the pig that had been raised for many years would finally be able to arch the cabbage, and she hurriedly sandwiched a chicken leg into Lin Jingtian's bowl and asked, "When did it start?" I didn't know that before? ”

"I've known each other for more than two years."

"Male or female?"

"Mom, I'm serious."

"But then again, I always thought that girls were blind now, but is there anyone who isn't blind?"

Lin Jingtian didn't want to eat, put down the dishes and chopsticks and said, "People are not blind." ”

Like countless parents, after learning the news of Lin Jingtian's affirmation, Lin's mother immediately threw out a lot of questions, just like checking the household registration, and kept asking questions like a machine gun: "Really?" How old is the other person? Where is home? What are the conditions at home? When will you take it home and see it? Do you have any photos to show me below......"

Lin Jingtian didn't have the heart to continue talking, and was about to end this topic, so he said: "Mom, when I didn't say it, I'll leave first, and I'll come to see you next time." ”

"Don't go! You haven't eaten your chicken legs yet, I'll finish the meal before leaving, I still have a lot to ask you. ”

Lin Jingtian threw down a sentence: "I'll talk about it next time." "I'm going to get up and run away.

"Don't, wait for me."

After finishing speaking, Mother Lin returned to her room, rummaged through her box, and after a while, took out a household registration book, put it in Lin Jingtian's hand, and said earnestly: "Other things can be delayed, but this matter must not be delayed, since you have already pitted others, you will simply pit it to the end." ”

Lin Jingtian had countless crows flying in his heart, was he so unconfident in his son?

After giving the household registration book, Lin's mother continued: "You haven't answered me the questions I just asked. ”

"What did you just ask?"

"How old is the other person? Where is home? What are the conditions at home? When will you take it home and see it? ”

Lin Jingtian replied truthfully: "I don't even know myself. ”

Feeling deceived, Mother Lin immediately took back the household registration book and tried hard to pounce on Lin Jingtian: "Is it fun to lie to me?" Walk around, you're not welcome here. ”

Here it is, here it is, here it is.

Is there such a thing as a son to leave?

However, Mother Lin didn't care about Lin Jingtian's lost expression at all, glared at her in disgust, and immediately closed the door without even looking back.