108 Raising children is a technical job
For Su Muye and Zhou Mian, after Su Qiao returned to China, they were mentally prepared to slowly separate from Su Huaijin one day.
Especially after Zhou Mian's miscarriage and Su Huaijin was sent to Su Qiao, especially when Su Qiao is still living with Gu Tingshen, it is only a matter of time before Su Huaijin's identity is exposed and completely disassociated from them.
Therefore, at this moment, when Su Huaijin shouted their parents in Su Qiao's arms, their feelings were also complex and indescribable.
However, in the end, it was agreed.
When to disclose Su Huaijin's identity, or when to let Su Huaijin change his words to them, it is a matter for Su Qiao to decide, they choose to respect, to be exact, it should mainly be decided by Gu Tingshen.
The two chatted softly with Su Huaijin on the other end of the video, Zhou Mian's body was not suitable for exhaustion, and Su Huaijin was also time to go to bed, and the two told Su Huaijin to listen to Su Qiao and Gu Tingshen more at Su Qiao's house as parents, and then hung up the phone.
Zhou Mian sighed slightly, and gently buried himself in Su Muye's arms,
"When I thought that Huai Jin would leave us one day, I felt sad in my heart, I originally thought that having our own children would dilute this sadness, but I didn't expect this to be the ending, our children and Huai Jin are going to leave us......"
Zhou Mian was really sad when he said this, and he couldn't help but start choking.
Zhou Mian really loves Su Huaijin and treats him as his own child.
Su Muye is not sad in his heart, but he is a man, and he is not good at revealing these fragile and sensitive feelings.
At this time, he hugged Zhou Mian and comforted warmly,
"Mianmian, in the lives of both of us, we have survived more difficult and darker days than this, and now there is no reason why we can't get through these things."
"Besides, Huai Jin didn't leave us, even if he returned to the Gu family in the future, we could see him often, right?"
It was Su Muye's warm and firm voice that transmitted these words to Zhou Mian's ears word by word, and the inexplicable sadness in Zhou Mian's chest dissipated little by little.
Yes, Su Muye was once imprisoned, and she was once framed with a bad reputation, compared to these two things, what they have experienced now is really too insignificant, and besides, she is still young, they are still loving, and they are all people with good intentions, God has no reason not to give them a child.
Later, there will be.
They will have everything.
It was Zhou Mian who was soothed by Su Muye's gloomy and negative mood like this, she decided to recuperate her body, adjust her mood well, and strive to let her body recover as soon as possible, and then give him a healthy and lovely child as soon as possible.
After ending the video call, Su Qiao could see that there was obvious loss on Su Huaijin's little face, because he couldn't be by Su Muye and Zhou Mian's side.
Su Qiao hugged him and comforted him softly,
"Mom is sick, you can see it, she's weak, isn't she?"
Su Huaijin nodded lightly, and Su Qiao said again,
"So she doesn't have the strength to take care of you these days, so my aunt will take care of you, and when she gets better, I'll be-"
The latter sentence was whispered softly by Su Qiao with heartache,
"I'll send you back again."
For the first time in so many years, after Su Qiao took Su Huaijin to his side for the first time, he didn't want to send it back.
Su Huaijin is sensible, Su Qiao's mood was much better as soon as he comforted him like this, Su Qiao held back the sourness in his heart and continued,
"It's the New Year's Day holiday starting tomorrow, if you want to be a mother, will your aunt take you to see her?"
"Great, great."
The little man had a smile on his face, and jumped up on the big bed, and after jumping a few times, he threw himself around Su Qiao's neck, and kissed her cheek with his small mouth.
"Auntie, you're so good, I like my aunt the mostβ"
It was the villain who expressed his joy and happiness in this way, and no matter how sour Su Qiao's heart was, he still faced Su Huaijin with a smile on his face.
When Gu Tingshen pushed the door in, he saw the picture of Su Huaijin holding Su Qiao and the two of them hugging each other and falling into the big bed, Su Qiao was interested, so he hugged Su Huaijin and played around, and the two laughed together for a while.
Gu Tingshen's mood didn't mention how smelly, he tried his best to pinch off the rotten peach blossoms outside her one after another, but he never thought that there was another one more in the house, this picture of Su Qiao hugging each other, and the bright smile that Su Qiao showed at Su Huaijin, made Gu Tingshen grit his teeth with jealousy.
Since Su Qiao returned to China, Gu Tingshen has never seen her smile at him so sincerely and brightly.
stepped forward to interrupt the madness of the two, and his voice was cold,
"Isn't it time to take a shower and go to bed?"
When Su Qiao was having fun with Su Huaijin, he was reluctant to end it like this, so he replied to him indiscriminately,
"It's okay, anyway, I won't go to work during tomorrow's New Year's Day holiday, so it doesn't matter if I go to bed late."
Gu Ting took a deep breath, suppressed the jealousy in his heart, and spoke rationally again,
"It doesn't matter if you go to bed late, the child sleeps too late and it will affect his body."
Gu Tingshen's words made Su Qiao's enthusiasm warm up, Gu Tingshen's words were indeed right, for a child like Su Huaijin, the time period from ten o'clock in the evening to seven o'clock in the morning is the best time to grow up, and sleeping too late will not benefit the child.
Only then did he get up from the bed with Su Huaijin in his arms,
"Okay, let's stop playing, I'm going to take a shower and go to bed."
Su Huaijin hasn't played enough,
"Would you like to play a little longer? Auntie, please, okay? β
Su Huaijin especially likes Su Qiao to play with him, because Su Qiao's temperament is not always gentle and polite like Zhou Mian, Su Qiao can let go of playing with him and is crazy to make trouble together, and is also willing to play some slapstick games with him, especially boys.
When Gu Tingshen heard that he was going to continue playing, his face sank immediately, but before he could say anything, Su Qiao agreed to Su Huaijin's request,
"Okay, you can play a little longer, but just five minutes, okay? In five minutes, you're going to take a shower and I'll sleep with you. β
Su Qiao negotiated with Su Huaijin so skillfully, so that all the words that Gu Tingshen wanted to say were swallowed back like that.
Because Gu Tingshen had to admit that Su Qiao's gentle and tactful way was much better than him directly giving orders with a cold face, which would not cause the child's resistance and rejection, but made the child feel that it was easy to accept.
It seems that this is also a science with children.
Su Qiao took Su Huaijin to take a bath, and after washing, he dried it and wrapped it in a bath towel, Su Qiao directly hugged Su Huaijin to the big bed where she slept with Gu Tingshen, Gu Tingshen had already taken a bath in the bathroom outside, and was half-leaning on the head of the bed to read.
Seeing Su Qiao coming out with Su Huaijin in his arms, and then stuffing the slippery Su Huaijin into their quilt, he couldn't help but put down the book and frowned and asked Su Qiao,
"Don't tell me you're going to let him sleep in the same bed with us?"
Although this bed is big enough, Gu Tingshen doesn't think that being big enough to sleep with a child doesn't affect them to do a certain bed exercise, after all, when that kind of thing is done to the fullest, there will be some inattention to the side, what if the child is pressed?
Moreover, for so long, Gu Tingshen has also become accustomed to having only Su Qiao alone in his bed, and now he suddenly has an extra child......
Gu Tingshen sincerely felt that he couldn't accept it.
Su Qiao felt that what he asked was nonsense at all,
"Of course he sleeps with us, or you're going to let him sleep on his own?"
Su Huaijin is not yet three years old, and Su Qiao thinks that it is not the age suitable to sleep in a separate room with adults. It is also a highly controversial topic at what age children begin to sleep in separate rooms with adults.
Too early can easily damage your child's sense of security, and too late is not a good thing.
Su Qiao is planning to wait for Su Huaijin to be three years old before slowly guiding him to sleep in a separate room with adults, and now Su Huaijin lives with Zhou Mian and Su Muye by living in the same bedroom with them, but he has his own separate small bed, which is connected to the big bed.
When Su Qiao spent the night at Su Muye's house, Su Qiao slept with Su Huaijin.
Today something happened suddenly, where did Su Qiao have time to prepare a small bed for Su Huaijin alone, so he could only let him sleep with them.
After Su Qiao finished speaking, he glanced at Gu Tingshen again, although there was nothing wrong with his expression, Su Qiao could feel that he didn't want Su Huaijin to sleep with them, but it was impossible for Su Qiao to leave Su Huaijin and let him sleep alone, so he said,
"If you think it will affect you when he wakes up and cries a few times at night, I'll take him to another room."
As he spoke, he was about to step forward and hug Su Huaijin to get up, but was stopped by Gu Tingshen,
"Then let's all sleep here."
Gu Tingshen reluctantly said this sentence after a lot of mental construction.
It's better to sleep together than to sleep alone.
Su Qiao glanced at the compromise on his face, took Su Huaijin's pajamas on the side, and complained about Gu Tingshen while dressing him,
"You still want children with this mentality, and with children, the two of them don't have the free life they have now, revolving around the children all day long, and sleeping at night like this, but it's a compulsory course every day."
After Su Qiao came out of the hospital after visiting Zhou Mian, he took Su Muye's key back to their house, and simply packed up some of the items that Su Huaijin would use every day, tableware for eating, drinking cups for drinking, pajamas and some clothes, and a few toys.
But now it seems that she still has a lot of things to buy for Su Huaijin again, and she plans to take Su Huaijin out shopping just in time for tomorrow's holiday.
Su Qiao's words made Gu Tingshen have a headache, he felt unbearable just thinking about what she said about going around the child all day long, and now he wants to go around the person every day, it's her.
However, even if he had a headache and thought that if the child was born to her, then even if taking care of the child was hard and tiring, he was looking forward to it and felt that it was bearable.