"An In-Depth Study on How to Really Be Ignorant of Other People's Eyes" / 2015-10-23

If you care too much about what other people think, then whatever they think of you, what they say about you, or what you do will stop you from moving forward in life. Perhaps you will give up on what you want to pursue for fear of being judged by others or by most people. Perhaps you will not improve your life because you know how others will react to your actions through previous experiences.

An unintentional word or a joking word from someone else may make you sad for days,

Sometimes I will hurt others unintentionally, and trouble comes from my mouth.

And if our state of mind is too much influenced by others, we will live a very tangled life, and gradually get used to judging ourselves by the standards of others.

A genius, a paranoid, a person who doesn't care about the eyes of others and goes his own way--- the last perfectionist~!! —Jobs quotes.

Only those who really live only for themselves, love only themselves, and not for their relatives can really not care about the strange eyes and cynicism of others, not for anything else, just to satisfy their curiosity about the unknown.

At all times and in all places, people who are different from the collective always feel very annoying, and people always want to strengthen their correctness by stifling and assimilating them into their own kind

It is only in this way that they can feel safe, because the denial of faith by others is a very serious thing, and it is enough to break a person completely as much as giving hope and then despair.

I know that being too willful will make others very uncomfortable, but I can't disappear and won't disappear, although I admire people who have disappeared, but I still often bubble up when I have ideas, and being an eyesore is the meaning of my existence! I also know that there won't be a few fools like myself who don't want to distinguish between people, dislike that the QQ circle is too small, treat the space as a sticker, and treat acquaintances as strangers, but it's okay, if it's a little more arrogant, it can be described in one sentence, is it necessary for God to classify ants?

One of the most important things in the world is "power".

It can fully satisfy the instinct of the beast to fight and the desire for war and plunder, as long as there is enough strength and ability, money, power and status must give way to it.

Secondly, there is money, everything can be obtained except for the worthless human heart!

From a national point of view, the United States is currently the most powerful militarily at present; From the perspective of the individual in modern society, it is online.

You are just a passerby in other people's lives, don't take yourself too seriously, the protagonists of other people's lives are themselves, you are just one of the countless people he knows now, even if he laughs at you for this second, maybe he will forget it in five seconds.

And you have to understand what you want in your heart and do it bravely. Even if you fail, no one will laugh at your courage, and the people who laugh at you are not laughing at you, they are just looking for some jokes in their boring lives. Do you care if the protagonist in a joke is Xiao Ming or Xiao Hua?

Be brave and be yourself, you are just the protagonist of your own life, live your true self.

Everybody's going about their own business, you don't have that many viewers.

Remember that "being strong to the heart of a bastard, more than anything else!" ”

In addition to the air, there are other people's "eyes" that surround us, and we even force ourselves to breathe in order to "fight for breath". In fact, happiness is your own, so why care too much about the eyes of others?

There are countless forms of life, and there is more than one way to live. Others look at nature, and their own lives are awkward; It's natural to live by yourself, and it's another kind of awkward look at others. Living the life you like is the best day, and living the way you like is the best way to live.

Say to yourself: In this world, you are unique, no one is like you, and you don't need to replace anyone. Close your eyes and tell yourself quietly. We can't control what others think; We can't force others to do anything. The only thing you can do is to do your best to do your own thing, go your own way, and follow your heart.