"Look at your little bit of interest?" Si Huang was not angry, and glanced at Si Jingmo, "Is a woman important or is the world important?" ”

Si Jingmo: "Woman." ”

"You're not going to be angry?" Si Huang's belly is on fire, and the son he has high hopes for actually thinks that women are more important than the country!

Si Jingmo looked serious, "Father, if your wife and children are all away from you, do you think it is interesting to guard the country?"

Erchen can have Yubai and Qiqi, and at the same time can assist his father and emperor to govern the country, the two are not contradictory, and there is no need to choose between them.

Erchen just doesn't take concubines, it's not Yubai who forced Erchen to do this, this is Erchen's own choice, Erchen feels comfortable like this, so he chooses.

Why do you have to force your sons to take concubines? Why do you have to impose your ideas on your sons? So what is the difference between you and your mother?

If someone drugged his father, and someone forced his father to marry a woman he hated, how did his father feel?

If the son-in-law assumes that it is very inappropriate, assuming that the queen mother empathizes with other men, falls in love with other men, and even commits to other men, what does the father feel in his heart?

Not to mention the difference between men and women, they are all human beings in essence, they all have a heart, they all have seven emotions and six desires, and they all have joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

If it is different, it is just that men hold power and control women, and they are not allowed to have two hearts, and even when they have two hearts, they are not allowed to be jealous.

Maybe my father will think that this is the ancestral system, that this is the rule set by the ancestors, that this is a secular rule, and that all this is taken for granted.

Erchen doesn't deny this, but Erchen cares too much about Yubai, he can't bear to make her sad, he can't bear to make her jealous for other women, and he is even more afraid that after she is sad, after being sad and disappointed, he doesn't care about Erchen anymore.

When people live, there are always some things that cannot be parted with, and if they are parted, it will be very painful, and they will feel that many things are meaningless.

Sometimes, walking hand in hand with Yubai, without saying a word, Erchen feels very beautiful, really beautiful.

Erchen is very happy now, if someone destroys Erchen's happiness, Erchen will go crazy and will do everything he can't imagine in order to defend his happiness.

Although Erchen was very disgusted with what his mother did, after knowing the pain in her heart, he was not incomprehensible at all.

Some people, after losing what they care about, the people they care about, will become extreme, they will become depraved.

The queen mother is depraved.

I don't believe that the former father would really choose a vicious queen and tolerate her for so many years, I can only say that she once made her father shine.

It's just that in the harem, the queen mother is not becoming more and more open-minded, but more and more narrow-minded, more and more extreme, more and more degenerate, more and more indistinguishable between right and wrong, and unclear about good and evil.

There are too few people who can maintain their original intentions after the vicissitudes of life.

Compared with the queen mother, Erchen feels that Yubai is a little very good, after being hurt, he is not cynical, but still remains kind, still full of hope for life, and still believes that life is beautiful.

Erchen was moved by her, probably because of her warm atmosphere that exuded from the inside out, which made people feel very comfortable.

In the past six years, Erchen has done nothing for Yubai and Qiqi, Erchen is ashamed of them, and wants to compensate as much as possible, he is really reluctant to hurt, and he is reluctant to let such a beautiful Yubai be hurt again and again.

My father may think that she is just a woman, but it is really important and important to her sons. ”

Si Jingmo said sincerely, and every word came from the bottom of his heart.

He respects his father and loves his woman, and he doesn't want to be persecuted by his father or hurt the people he loves.

Si Jingmo is a perfectionist, from childhood to adulthood, he pursues perfection in everything, even if it is emotional, is strict with himself, and tries his best to do his best.

The best son, the best husband, the best father.

He is a filial person, Lan Lan drugged him six years ago, and he minded, not only because of his mother's calculations, but also because of his mother's actions, which made his life stained and flawed, even if he encountered a relationship, he lacked perfection.

No one is perfect in this world.

If you strive for perfection too much, you will only put yourself in the other extreme.

So he was troubled by his always striving for perfection, and as he grew older, he began to work hard to accept the imperfections that should exist in life.

There are even times when you do things, try to make yourself less good, and then adapt to your imperfections.

After meeting Huo Yubai, he found that when he began to pay attention to her, he never knew the truth of the past, and his heart had also been entangled in her incomplete body, but after the entanglement, at a certain moment, he had decided to accept it.

It's not generosity, it's the clarity of the heart, knowing what is important.

Si Huang felt that he was about to be persuaded by his son's words.

He rarely persecuted his sons, even if his sons never married a wife, he said that he would give marriage, but he did not give marriage directly, hoping that they would follow his heart.

The third son has been married for five years, and he has not taken a concubine, and he has not been persecuted.

But the fourth son is different, he is the prince in his heart, and he can't act arbitrarily.

"Jingmo, Yubai's child is very good, and his father approves of it, but ...... In all dynasties, there is no emperor without a concubine in the harem, and even if I agree, the courtiers will not agree. ”

The emperor does not accept concubines, and for those ministers who want to send their daughters to the palace, it directly infringes on their interests.

"Father, my sons don't want to confuse family affairs with state affairs! Whoever the minister wants to marry, who he doesn't want to marry, he doesn't need the minister to interfere! What's more, my father is in good health and will live a long life, and some things should not be mentioned too early, so let it be. Si Jingmo said.

Si Huang nodded and sighed, "Forget it, let's leave it to you first, and I'll talk about it later." ”

Si Jingmo breathed a sigh of relief in his heart, as long as he didn't force it so tightly, as long as he was strong enough, the minister's opinion that he should take a concubine could be completely ignored.

"Father, since the marriage date has been set, the son should not be hired by the Huo family, should the father give Yu Bai some rewards?"

Si Huang glanced at Si Jingmo, not angry, "You can plan!" ”

Si Jingmo smiled, "This can be regarded as a piece of the father's heart for his future daughter-in-law, not long after the natural disaster, the treasury is short of money, so I don't want this yellow and white thing, and I don't want jewelry, just reward some granges and shops."

Also, Qi Qi is five years old, and when he was born, his father did not give a reward, and he did not give a reward for his birthday in the past five years, so it seems that he should also make up for it.

The child is young and doesn't know how to spend money, so if you don't need money, you can still give some shop. ”

He remembered that his wife had to do business, and it was too expensive to buy the shop herself.

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