Qiong Zimei 21:59:20

The questions asked to you do not involve three views, they are purely small talk, depending on what you think.

Natsu Chiba 22:00:14

I'm curious about the two words in your sentence, your "heart" and your "self", can you go into more detail about these two words?

Qiong Zimei 22:00:57

It's without considering other people, like your original feelings

Natsu Chiba 22:01:54

I will not distinguish between those three views, but I will unify them as the meaning of my own existence

Natsu Chiba 22:02:18

It's all the same, one thing

Natsu Chiba 22:02:38

Worldview and outlook on life are fundamentally inseparable

Natsu Chiba 22:03:12

Are you a victim of religion?

Natsu Chiba 22:03:18

Helen Keller

Qiong Zimei 22:03:41

I don't understand religion

Qiong Zimei 22:04:26

I didn't want to ask you three views just now, but I just wanted to hear your opinions

Natsu Chiba 22:04:31

Primitive feelings are all kinds of things that you believe in, and people only believe in the parts they want to believe.

Qiong Zimei 22:05:05

Then you want to believe it

Natsu Chiba 22:05:05

One should be equal to a part here plus a part there

Natsu Chiba 22:05:19

Believe what?

Qiong Zimei 22:05:50

My attitude has always been: I don't reject marriage, whether I am single or married, it is the result of personal choice, as long as I am sincere to myself, it is OK, and it is a bit natural.

Qiong Zimei 22:06:51

If that state is comfortable for you, then go in, that's my attitude.

Qiong Zimei 22:07:05

Walked in and made a mistake

Natsu Chiba 22:08:03

Only by knowing what your heart thinks, can I know what it means to "be true to your heart, when you say, be true to your heart",

Otherwise, that sentence is not the same as saying in vain,

Natsu Chiba 22:09:54

Whenever you want, you can do whatever you want, regardless of anyone, only consider yourself, is this what you mean by going with the flow?

Natsuchiba 22:11:05

"If that state is comfortable for you, then go in,"

This sentence is a bit difficult to understand

Qiong Zimei 22:11:07

It's easy to understand, for example, I think I've met the right person and want to get married, okay, then go for it, if you don't think it's suitable, then don't settle, don't get married because of the urging of your family, or because you're old

Xia Chiba 22:12:57

Well, I know,

Natsu Chiba 22:13:56

Talking so much is still equal to talking in vain, alas,

Qiong Zimei 22:14:14

Maybe you want to be complicated

Natsu Chiba 22:14:47

Whether or not you will think about it like this depends on the person's opinion on "whether it is the right object or not".

Natsu Chiba 22:16:19

And what I wanted to express at the beginning was not the urging of others, but that if you meet the right and suitable person, wouldn't it be a good thing to be together.

Qiong Zimei 22:18:03

Well, I know, I'm talking about if I happen to be so lucky and can't touch it, I'm willing to look for it for the rest of my life, at least for now

Natsuchiba 22:18:43

The reason for the white chat is that the essence of the problem is "whether they think each other is suitable for each other, and whether they will feel comfortable together?"

And not the useless ones mentioned above

Qiong Zimei 22:19:40

I don't quite understand what you mean

Natsu Chiba 22:20:07

Through a wheat field, if there is a good one, choose it, if you don't have it, don't want it,

Natsu Chiba 22:20:47

It's also useful, as a basis, probably

Qiong Zimei 22:20:53

The reason for the white chat is that the essence of the problem is "whether they think each other is suitable for each other, and whether they will feel comfortable together?"

And not the useless ones mentioned above???? I don't understand what you're trying to say

Natsuchiba 22:22:29

To put it another way,

Natsu Chiba 22:23:20

If you think about it

It's easy to understand, for example, I think I've met the right person and want to get married, okay, then let's get married, if I don't think it's suitable, then don't compromise, don't get married because of the urging of my family, or I'm old."

Natsu Chiba 22:23:24

so

Natsu Chiba 22:24:19

The above views on marriage, etc., have no effect on this,

Natsuchiba 22:24:35

It's just for nothing

Natsu Chiba 22:24:41

That's what it means

Natsu Chiba 22:25:13

It's up to you to judge whether it's the right standard,

Natsuchiba 22:25:33

If this item is included, then useful

Qiong Zimei 22:26:59

I'm a little dizzy, I don't know if I didn't make it clear, or if I didn't understand what you said

Natsu Chiba 22:27:27

Well

Qiong Zimei 22:28:19

I just wanted to ask you what you think about marriage, and my attitude, it's as simple as that