"If anyone still asks me, have you ever been in love" / 2016-03-01

I felt that the pressure on my partner would be much greater than that of my family.

It only shows that you are more important than your family.

Time flies quickly, five years in a flash,

It's my second year of graduate school this year.

The family urged,

You have to do some preparations,

At this time, I thought of the H I knew.

I thought H liked me and was destined for me.

So, I want to judge whether I like H or not.

With a strong sense of fatalism, it was only when I revisited the Wings of the Ancients that I confirmed that she loved me 100%.

When I was ready to judge whether I liked someone else, I realized that she loved me 100%.

If I had been convinced of this earlier, I would have trusted her unconditionally.

When he wrote that proposal,

When I'm judging whether I like H or not,

I realized,

The love in love has more possession than the love in mother's love,

After that happened,

I'm so angry,

Simply because,

Something small, I'm just one of them, not the only one.

I mentioned it to her on the phone,

How about me and other girls,

I mentioned it to her on the phone,

And so on and so forth,

And I was at that time,

Just give her a call once a week.

She may have been just joking at first,

And I had all sorts of suspicions.

At that time, I believed,

Love is,

Make a vow to one another,

And then keep observing,

Forever.

At that time, I didn't understand,

Love someone,

Really care so much,

It's so easy to be jealous of a little thing,

The slightest sign is so easy to suspect.

At that time, I didn't understand,

Love someone,

will always find a way to confirm it many times,

See if the other person loves you too.

At that time, I didn't understand,

Love someone,

I like to talk back,

to ensure your place in the hearts of the other person.

At that time, I didn't understand,

Love someone,

may be a joke from time to time,

Look at the other person's angry or jealous look.

At that time, I didn't understand,

Even if you keep your oath,

And I'm that kind of person,

but

If you don't give the other person enough security,

She'll still be suspicious of you and angry with you,

Many, many little things.

The so-called love,

Nothing to do with similarity,

Nothing to do with suitability,

Standard-independent,

It is to love others courageously, and to love those who love themselves well.

More often than not, it's fate rather than standards,

As for what love is,

The kind of emotion that your parents care about you is love,

It's just that this love has more attachment and possession than the other.

The so-called attachment,

is to want to stay with each other everywhere,

The so-called possession,

It's that in many ways, you will especially care about whether you are the only one for her.

Together, what if the world doesn't allow it?

What should I do if I find that it is not suitable together?

Together, what should I do if the door is not equal?

Together, it is not fate, what should I do if I am unfortunate in my life?

If at this time, you regret meeting the other person, then you are wrong,

We just have too many ideas, too many prejudices, so we don't dare to love.

We are just afraid to suffer too much, so we don't dare to love.

The reason why it is desperate,

The reason why we are not afraid of dangers and obstacles,

The reason why moths fight fires,

It is because of the victory over these things that love is sublimated!

If you want to love, fight against fate,

This is the true meaning of struggle.

The world is spinning around to look at Dafa,

All living beings have sentient beings.