Chapter 161: Gone with the Wind
Reading books, watching animations, watching movies, etc., is using other people's experiences to grow yourself.
Love is based on understanding.
If she had known Ashley, she would not have loved him; If she knew Rhett, she wouldn't have lost him.
He loves Scarlett, but he knows Scarlett better, so he never says it, just expresses it through actions, and Scarlett never wants to know him.
The real relationship does not need to be chased at all, the tacit understanding of two people is slowly shortening the distance between the two hearts, and gradually getting closer to each other unconsciously, from good friends to lovers, this is the most ordinary way of progress.
The feeling of being very loving is something that you will only discover after going through a lot together.
He could guess what was going on in Scarlett's every movement and expression, fate likes to play tricks on people, they are the same kind of people, even if they don't end up together.
Pure silly love may be once, but cherishing may not be only once, time will heal all the pain. In fact, we can fall in love with many people, we don't like a certain person, but like a certain type of person. The five factors of liking are similarity, complementarity, physical attractiveness, personality qualities, familiarity, and proximity. The first person met us, and we came together happily; For those who arrived late, I can only apologize.
He always tries to make Scarlett understand that the guilt in her heart is not to repent for the people she hurt, but to get rid of punishment for herself.
Love = Listen + Obligate Gratitude + Valued Respect + Excues Forgiveness.
Marriage is not 1+1=2, but 0.5+0.5=1. After getting married, you both have to get rid of half of your personality and be prepared to make compromises and concessions, so that you can form a perfect family. Today's young men and women are often attracted by each other's "edge" at first, but they will also be injured by each other's "edge".
Love is not intimacy, but tolerance and "intermittentness". After getting married, everyone has their own circle of communication, and the husband and wife are sometimes vague and reserved, but they are more attractive, giving others space, and also giving themselves freedom.
Home is not a place to be reasonable, let alone a place to settle accounts, home is a place to talk about love. Isn't there such a saying? Men are mud and women are water. So the union of man and woman is nothing but "harmony and mud". Marriage is two people living together, and if you delve into the "legal principles" of everything, it will only make both parties very tired.
Yes, loving one means giving rather than taking, but true love goes both ways, and Tolstoy said, "To be loved by the one you love is the happiest person in the world." "If the person you love does not love you, then your devotion to him should be to stay away from him, lighten his burden, and give him a comfortable space; If you don't love the person who loves you, then stay away from him, reduce his harm, and don't give him hope, lest he despair even more in the future.
In dealing with polyamory, confession is better than a lie, a lie is better than silence, it doesn't matter if someone else hurts in their hearts, the main thing is that you delay his happiness and make him miss some people, which is related to his future, not to mention that facts are facts, such harm is only temporary, and the pain will be much less.
You know the closer you get to something, the tougher it is to see it , and I'll never take it for granted.
You know the closer you try to get to something, the harder it is to see, and I'll never take it for granted.