Chapter 4: Those Sensitive Children
After more than ten days, Zhang Rongkun was still worried about the poplar tree, and when he went out, he deliberately turned to Qian's house to take a look.
When the Qian family saw that Zhang Rongkun was coming, they hurriedly welcomed the Taoist chief in, served tea again, and wanted to serve wine. As soon as Zhang Rongkun saw this situation, he knew that the children of this family were very good.
The child's grandfather said that the tree was cut down that evening, and the child slept much better at night. In the past two days, I have gradually been able to eat milk, and today in addition to milk, I also ate a small half bowl of egg custard.
also deliberately took the child out to Zhang Rongkun to see, and the child's little face began to be rosy, and flesh grew on his body.
Zhang Rongkun returned to the temple and began to interrogate Zhang Weizhao again, how she judged that these two methods were effective. You know, the more clever the doctor, the more he will solve the problem in a simple way. Behind this, it is actually supported by keen observation, accurate judgment and rich experience.
Zhang Weizhao was very happy to hear that the child was better, which proved that her judgment was right.
The child of the Qian family should be a highly sensitive child.
In his previous life, when he was studying and training, Zhang Weizhao had been exposed to the research of the Danish scholar Ils Sander and the British scholar Elaine Allen's highly sensitive personality, and he had also encountered this type of children and adults in his work to understand the characteristics of this group of people.
Highly sensitive people are more capable of capturing information than ordinary people, and they are also more susceptible to interference from the outside world than ordinary people. For example, dazzling lights, noisy sounds, special smells, things that can be tolerated or ignored by ordinary people, and troubles and even disasters that cannot be ignored by highly sensitive people.
About 20 percent of the population is highly sensitive, and each of these 20 percent has different levels and types of sensitivity.
The children of the Qian family should belong to the type that is particularly sensitive to sound. That day, when the child was brought out, Zhang Weizhao noticed that whenever his mother's voice raised slightly, the child's expression changed, and when the mother-in-law shouted loudly and asked her daughter-in-law to hurry up and hold the child over, the child's brows were tightly locked, and it was immediately like crying.
Highly sensitive people, whether visually sensitive, auditory, or tactile, have a keen sense of other people's emotions. The child's mother is always scolded and emotionally depressed, and the child can feel it immediately, and will also bear a lot of emotional pressure.
That day, Zhang Weizhao also noticed that the large-leaved poplar tree in the courtyard of the Qian family had a trunk as thick as a sea bowl, a large crown, and dense leaves. The leaves of this tree are hard and make a rattling sound when the wind blows. The Northland is windy, and in the dead of night, the sound is unusually distinct.
This level of noise is not a problem for an adult with insensitive nerves, but it can cause great fear and anxiety to a naturally sensitive and weak baby who cannot verbally express his emotions.
The best way to get this child better is to remove the noises that frighten him. If you want to explain to parents in ancient China what a highly sensitive personality is, it simply won't work. Therefore, according to Zhang Rongkun's explanation, the efficiency of requiem is much higher.
Highly sensitive children have high demands on their environment and require more attention and understanding from their parents than others.
For example, some children may seem to have a particularly bad temper, irritability, and crying, but in fact they may just be very sensitive to noise and need a quieter environment. Some children look special, clothes must be washed soft before wearing, the trademark must be cut clean, shoes, socks are a little wet is unbearable, in fact, such children are likely to be sensitive to touch, uncomfortable touch unbearable.
Sensitivity is a gift from heaven. If they grow up in an environment that is well understood and supported, such children will gradually show their special talents. But if they grow up in a rough, harsh environment, these children tend to live a very miserable life and have various psychological problems.
Zhang Weizhao doesn't think that the Qian family can provide a good enough living environment for that child, but most people in this era are generally like this, it is good to be able to live with enough food and clothing, and it is difficult to have extra energy for further psychological development.
What Zhang Weizhao can do is to make this child's infancy life as less painful as possible and reduce the chance of early death.
Zhang Weizhao tried his best to explain these principles to Zhang Rongkun in the language of this era. After Zhang Rongkun listened, he pondered for a long time.
Zhang Weizhao's second customer is equivalent to the Qian family's introduction.
On the street where Qian's family was located, there was a merchant who opened a grocery store that sold grain, straw paper, candles, spices, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
The family's surname is Lu, and there were originally a total of six people in the family. Lu's shopkeeper's father has been dead for many years, and there is an old lady who is raised at home. The shopkeeper Lu and the Zhou family of the Hun family raised a total of three children, one boy, two girls and three children. The son is eleven years old, and the daughter is seven years old and the other is five years old.
On weekdays, when the husband and wife visit the store, the grandmother takes care of the children at home in the backyard. The family is all diligent and honest people, and the life is quite harmonious.
But there are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and people have good and bad luck. Their seven-year-old daughter suddenly developed a high fever and diarrhea at the beginning of last month, and the treatment was ineffective, and she died.
The husband and wife were grief-stricken, so they thought about burying their daughter properly. Relatives and friends around said that the unmarried daughter could not be buried in the ancestral grave when she died, otherwise she would come back and harm the family. And the couple has always loved their daughter, and they couldn't bear to let their daughter be left behind, so they buried their daughter under the grave of their grandfather.
However, not long after the eldest daughter was buried, the younger daughter had problems again.
The originally lively and lovely little daughter has been a lot quieter since her sister is gone. On weekdays, I sit and fiddle with a small needle basket. This sewing basket was given to the two of them by her mother when her sister was still alive, and some needles and threads and rags were placed in it, so that the two little girls could learn to sew needlework by themselves.
When the youngest daughter fiddled with the sewing basket, she couldn't stop talking to herself. When asked who she was talking to, she said she was talking to her sister. Ask her where her sister is? One moment she said it was in the tent, and the other it was outside the window. It made the family creepy.
Originally, because the daughter who died before was buried in the ancestral grave, it was discussed by the neighbors, and the family felt worried. Now that something is really wrong, could it be that the little girl's soul has come home to make trouble?
Someone came up with an idea, saying that it was best to invite a Taoist priest to do the practice and send the eldest daughter to reincarnate as soon as possible, so that she would no longer be nostalgic for home.
However, the rituals have also been done, and the youngest daughter is still the same. The family is worried.
The grandmother of the Lu family and the old lady of the mule, horse and Qian family are familiar with each other. Once the old lady of the Qian family came to the Lu family's shop to chat, and heard about the Lu family's youngest daughter, so she vigorously recommended the Taoist doctor Zhang Rongkun to Grandma Lu, and also told her family that since she heard Zhang Daochang's words and cut down poplars, the eldest grandson has grown better and better.
Grandma Lu was puzzled: "You said this Daoist Zhang, what is he treating people?" Or is it the practice? ”。
The old lady of the Qian family said, "Wow! You don't care if he sees a doctor or does it, as long as your granddaughter can get better? ”
Grandma Lu thought about it, so she told her son to invite Zhang Rongkun.
Zhang Rongkun is not easy to invite. The Lu family is not as rich as the nouveau riche, the family background is not rich, and the consultation fee that can be paid is limited.
The son of the Lu family was very hesitant, but the old lady urged, and the wife chattered, so he had to come to the door in person, carefully said his intentions, and waited anxiously for Zhang Rongkun's reply.
Zhang Rongkun copied his hands and thought for a while, and did not answer the shopkeeper Lu, but tilted his head and asked the apprentice behind him: "Can it be cured?" ”
Zhang Weizhao pondered for a moment and said, "You can give it a try." ”
The master and apprentice put on the medicine box and got into the car.
Shopkeeper Lu listened to the master and apprentice talking, how was it a little bit big, not too small, and a little weird. But as long as Zhang Rongkun is willing to take this trip, he can't ask for it, and how dare he guess.
Along the way, Zhang Weizhao asked Shopkeeper Lu many questions, and Shopkeeper Lu only thought that she was consulting for the master, and did not dare to slack off, and answered 1510 seriously.
Zhang Weizhao asked, did he not let the younger daughter come forward when the eldest daughter was seriously ill?
The shopkeeper said yes, yes, the little Taoist saw it accurately, because the youngest daughter was too young and afraid that she would also be sick, so when the eldest daughter was sick, she lived in the cubicle of the parents' bedroom downstairs to facilitate care. The other two children lived upstairs and didn't let them come close.
Zhang Weizhao asked again, was it that when the eldest daughter died, he did not let the younger daughter participate in the funeral and funeral?
At that time, relatives and neighbors said that it was unlucky for an unmarried daughter to die young, and the youngest daughter was too young for fear of hindering her, so he didn't let her participate, and sent him to his uncle's house for a few days, and only picked him up after the funeral.
Zhang Weizhao nodded, saying that it was precisely because of this that she never felt that her sister was dead. Rong Kun said "I don't think", not "didn't know" that her sister was dead. There is a difference between the two.
Shopkeeper Lu obviously understood what Zhang Weizhao meant, and nodded with tears.
Zhang Weizhao said, your daughter is not in a collision with the evil spirit, she is sick. Her sister's death was too bad for her, and her heart was sick.
Hearing this, a big man in charge of the shopkeeper Lu almost couldn't cry, his daughter went, and in his heart, why didn't he have a big mouth, hula hula and pour cold wind? I finally held back my tears and asked, "That heart is sick, how should I treat it?" ”
Zhang Weizhao said: "If you can trust me, you will do what I ask you to do." ”
So far, the shopkeeper Lu has developed a lot of trust in Zhang Weizhao, not only because she is Zhang Rongkun's apprentice, but also because of her insight, bearing and self-confidence.
Naturally, he agreed.