"Roommates quarrel phone perception" / 2015-01-23

Roommate Lu Yingxiao was talking on the phone in the dormitory every day, and a dozen was more than an hour, talking about personal thoughts.

Why do they always want to change others, why do they always want to get the other person to agree with their point of view, why they always worry that others will misunderstand them, why they always quarrel over a little thing, why he calls his girlfriend in that tone - to a child who has made a mistake - a tone of criticism, ridicule, scolding.

The cause of the problem --- long-distance, rich, and only child.

I don't have to force the other party to accept my point of view at all, real life, just be able to get by, people are different, and being different is a normal thing.

Quarreling all day long, spending all day in all kinds of entanglements, all day long on the verge of dividing or not separating, it's better to divide it, this is no longer love, not even the relationship between husband and wife, the key practical problems can't be solved, and continuing to be entangled will only be more depressing.

Imagine how a normal family and a normal couple live, and you will be fine.

"On the Perspective of Increasing Knowledge" / 2015-01-30

Be curious about what others do and how they think.

In order to know all the ways to make money in society, which ones can be done by themselves.

But a while ago, my curiosity about distant friends was gone, and I thought that it would be good to focus on the real life and the people around me. What's even more terrifying is that they also turn a blind eye to the people around them. I don't like to put on a show, so I don't have anything to do, I don't go through the motions, and it makes sense that I don't have a lot of contact.

Be curious about external phenomena and understand why they are the way they are.

"What is the meaning of being alive" / 2015-01-30

What is the meaning of life, some people think that it is what he made to society during his lifetime, some think that he left something after he died, and some think that he provided some help to others during his lifetime.

If you want to understand the meaning of life, I think you should first understand what people are made of.

Person = Body + Memory + Thought (Faith, Will)

All kinds of people, all kinds of ways of living, I think the meaning is that these three things of oneself, plus the interaction between oneself and non-oneself, the former may disappear with death, a pity, the latter will survive forever, in some kind of flow and unity, after death, you will never see a ray of sunshine, no longer see your relatives and friends, no longer see the prosperous society in the world, what changes have taken place in the world in the future, what kind of life people live, and what kind of daily necessities, If a new species emerges, even the things that you used to see before you die will no longer be seen. Thinking that before I was born, I had missed countless sunrises and sunsets in the world, missed people's previous lives and the society in which I lived, and death was just a return to the previous state, maybe it would not be so sad anymore.

Although we can learn from the history books that the earth began to form to the present, it is different from experiencing it yourself at that time, and there is no way to know what will happen in the future.

The theory of reincarnation believes that there will be an afterlife after brainwashing, and the retractor says that how to explain the rapid increase in population, the population has increased, but the living things have not necessarily increased, even if they have increased, but the matter may not have increased, even if the material of the earth has increased, the entire universe may not have increased. Some things cannot be changed by man, so we come to the view that the value of hard work may lie in the tortuous fluctuating progress in the cycle of samsara.

The preservation and transplantation of memories and thoughts seems impractical, immortality in the true sense of the word, which violates God's understanding.

Let me see what the world will look like in a thousand years......