On July 26, 2011, at the beginning of the summer vacation after the end of her freshman year, Chiba began to have the idea of courting Kazukomi, and there were three reasons for this idea.

The first reason is that Chiba suspects that Kashika may have a certain affection for him. There are three small reasons for this suspicion, one is that he is more related to her. The second is that he and she happened to miss it, and when they exchanged the third letter of the second semester, just as she was about to start conveying good intentions, he happened to write a letter to tell her that he had two girlfriends. The third letter of the second semester, that is, the time when she folded the letter very delicately, should have been to convey good intentions, and if she detected that he also had a good impression of herself, she might be ready to tell him that she was his previous English pen pal.

The second reason is that Chiba feels that he is very close to Yu Xinxiang, he is a person who attaches great importance to fate and affection, and often makes small favors huge, always thinking about repaying kindness and repaying others. Because he felt very fateful, he cherished her very much.

The third reason is that he has a certain affection for Yu Xinxiang. This favor can also be divided into three aspects, one is that he will say anything and what he thinks to Yu Xinxiang, although the other party has reacted a lot many times and can't understand it, but he doesn't mind this, anyway, he will say everything, and over time, he has a certain dependence on her. The second is that he thinks that the Xinxiang people are very good, kind-hearted and easy to talk. The third is that the fragrance is very beautiful, although this is not very noble, but it is indeed an important reason. Although she is a little chubby, she has a beautiful face.

In order to prepare to show favor to Yu Xinxiang, he must summarize his emotional experience, and he feels that it is an obligation of his own to present his emotional experience to the newcomer, just like looking for a job to show others his resume, which is both responsible for himself and the other party. Originally, he wanted to prepare only emotional experiences, but out of selfishness, before preparing for this, he also summarized some of his main experiences and experiences since college, so as to prepare for the next step of his new life.

Should you confess your past love history to the present? In this era of openness, how can you become a child's parents without experiencing a few EXs? Some people forget about their ex after breaking up, some people break up with their ex, and some people start a war with their ex and tear each other apart... However, even if your ex is the best of the best, the scum of the scum, he still becomes the past that you can't forget, because it has really left all kinds of mottled traces on your heart and body! Many people are indulging in the pain of losing their ex and can't extricate themselves, some people are thanking their predecessors for not marrying, and some people are eating from the bowl but thinking about the pot, so some people have never been able to let go of the unforgettable past of their current ex!

So, a big question jumped in front of everyone: Should we confess our love history with our ex? Is it a lie to maintain a good current life? Or, confess with leniency, and confession, because love can contain all? So there are two different approaches: some people think, let him pass in the past, we don't need to dwell on everything before, after all, they are all people who have loved, and many things are definitely not good for the current one, and people should look forward. The other type of person thinks that love is to tolerate everything, confess everything, as long as he really loves you, he will not blame the past, and life will be more perfect, so love him in front of him without reservation! So, are you sure you're really making the right choice? Whichever way you choose, you will have to pay a price for saying it or not saying it! Confession is to face and present the final result, and to avoid talking about it is to bear the price of settling accounts after the autumn! So, what exactly should we do with this multiple-choice question?

[Story 1: Confess the past love history, but I have become the past] My name is Xiao K, and my boyfriend is temporarily called Xiao V. I'm a girl with a big personality, and I can't hold back anything, especially the people closest to me. My boyfriend Xiao V is my third boyfriend, he is handsome, gentle, considerate, and really an ideal marriage partner, and when he first met, he asked me to listen to my past love history, but at that time he was not so close to him and played haha. As a result, nearly a year later, he asked me to unguard my defenses intentionally or unintentionally, thinking that he would definitely marry me in the future, and he who loved me should not mind my past, so I confessed all my love history to him: I went to a strange city alone for my first boyfriend, washed my hands and made soup for him, and finally broke up without saying a word; Laundry and cooking for my second boyfriend, and even having a tire for him... All kinds of things are poured out. He was silent for a long time, and then he didn't talk about it again, and he was as kind to me as he was before. As a result, one day half a month later, he suddenly said to me: I have been thinking about it for half a month, I think I still can't accept your past, although I love you very much, but I am really sorry...... So, he became my ex, and to this day I still can't understand what my confession did wrong.

[Story 2: Confession is the most beautiful confession] Sometimes confession is the most beautiful confession, not everyone will mind your past, I don't have time to participate in your past, but I have to rely on your future closely. Lin Na and Hao Yun are such a couple, Lin Na has always been a very hard-working child, her father left her since she was a child, only her mother was by her side, because of the family economy, she was like a little adult since she was a child, and after going to high school, she resolutely gave up the opportunity to go to college to work early to support her family because of family constraints. I talked about three boyfriends during the period, the first boyfriend broke up with her because of her single parents at home, the second is simply a scumbag, the salary is low, after living with Lin Na, he doesn't go out to work and uses Lin Na's money, and later Lin Na is unexpectedly pregnant and he still plays with splitting legs... Although the third boyfriend was about to enter the palace, he finally left Lin Na at the wedding and left by himself. And Hao Yun is Lin Na's fourth boyfriend, and he is very good to her, because of emotional injury, Lin Na is not as serious as before when talking about her boyfriend, but he is still very good to her, and then Lin Na directly told him all the things she had done with her predecessor before, thinking that it was impossible for the two of them anymore, as a result, Hao Yun's eyes were moist at that time, and said: "Lin Na, I didn't expect you to suffer so much, I feel sorry for you, I will not let you get hurt in the future, let's go down together, okay?" Lin Na was stunned at the time, because many men around her who were interested in her before had gradually moved away after hearing all her own things, and he actually ...... Now that they have entered the palace of marriage, Hao Yun is very good to her, really good.

[Story 3: Concealing love history is the origin of all nightmares] Lin Yuan is a very honest boy, he has never lied since he was a child, and he is very sincere in everything he does, but it is because of such a character that he was cheated of a lot of money by a girl when he first fell in love, and was finally hacked, and he has never dared to fall in love since then. Xiaoli is the object of introduction to the family, she is beautiful and kind, she has been talking, she planned to get married and get a license in the next year, because she had been deceived before, and when Xiaoli avoided talking about his ex-girlfriend every time she asked about it, Xiaoli didn't say much. But once intentionally or unintentionally, Xiaoli found the chat history between him and his ex-girlfriend, in fact, it was nothing, but the ex-girlfriend inadvertently asked him what kind of conversation he was living now, which was really harmless, but he forgot to delete the chat history. Now he was found by Xiaoli, so he began to ask him about his ex-girlfriend, he and Pantuo, although Xiaoli was angry at the time, but finally slowly forgot, I thought everything was over, but Xiaoli later became more and more distrustful of him, checking his call history, QQ, WeChat, etc. every day, not only that, every time I quarreled, I would get involved in this problem, the two people were getting deeper and deeper, and they were in an emotional crisis, and he even wanted to break up now......

After reading the above three stories, one confessed and finally went to the tea and cooled down, one confessed and finally entered the palace of happiness, and the other concealed and finally fell into an emotional crisis. Maybe some people can accept your past, but not everyone can, and the second story may be a special case. Therefore, this multiple-choice question, whether it is confessed or concealed, will eventually have to face a painful price, and it is also a price that we cannot estimate. So, what exactly should we do?

First of all, there is no one way that is necessarily right, the key is whether you can correctly assess the acceptance of the current and the cost of confessing or avoiding the later stage! Multiple choice questions in life are sometimes like buying and selling, you need to predict in advance, you need to estimate the ultimate value and risk behind each choice, and finally choose the highest value and can avoid all kinds of risks well. Second, learn to be "honest" rather than "confess" completely! "Confession" means telling the truth about a mistake or crime. And "honesty" refers to not concealing or embellishing one's true appearance, and being honest with others, oneself, and heaven and earth. And for our incumbents, what we need to do is be honest.

The so-called honesty here is to be sincere to love, not to deliberately distort the facts, not to deceive or conceal, not to pretend to cover up, as long as you love frankly and openly with your true colors. Therefore, we need to be honest with every relationship, but it doesn't have to be confided, this is the difference between honesty and confession. So what are the parts that don't have to be said? For example, those things that the other party is most unwilling to know, after all, there are things that are not beneficial to both parties when they are said, and will only increase sadness and pain.

So how can we be honest? First, be honest about the relevant love history in the past, and explain the basic situation roughly, so that the other party knows that you have had that relationship. Second, don't go into detail and don't tell all the details. For example, the details of the sexual history, as well as the particularly beautiful things you have done to your ex, or how good you are to your ex. After all, we are all ordinary people, we cannot transcend the world, and many things are even known by heart, but we should not magnify them clearly, otherwise it will only increase the tragedy. Third, after being honest, you need to show that the past is just the past, and you will only look at the present and the future. And you also need to completely break with your predecessor, and you must not break the thread.

Everyone will meet many people in their life, leaving a lot of memories, whether beautiful or painful, but they cannot be changed. Therefore, everyone needs to learn to be tolerant of each other, and allow him to love and hurt, no matter how earth-shattering, silly, or heart-rending that love is...... After all, it is you who are with him now, and there is such a sentence - I have no time to participate in your past, and I will closely depend on you in your future.

Xia Qianye felt that confession was a matter of course, so he wrote an article for Yu Xinxiang, titled "Bright Starry Sky Prayer and Blessing". Unlike the previous chapters, this article is written in the first person by Chiba.

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