Some people choose a partner based entirely on feeling. They feel that people are emotional animals, they feel that they have a sixth sense, they feel that they are gods, and they know each other well at a glance, and they know if the other person is their other half.

If you only know one or two points about the other person, you feel that you know everything about the other person. Yes, yes

The definition of the word "feeling" is very vague. To put it simply, the so-called feeling is that at the beginning of the other person's certain qualities attracted you and made your heart move.

For example, mature, calm, calm, gentle, kind, responsible, self-motivated, secure and so on.

It may also be due to the other person's ability or interest, and of course, there are also those who are attracted by the appearance of the face and figure.

Some people choose their partners with complete reason. They feel that sensation is the reflection of the human brain on the individual attributes of objective things that act directly on the sense organs, and it is unreliable.

First of all, we need to look at things from the perspective of development, things are in the process of development and change, and the feeling of changing things is naturally changing; Secondly, we are naturally constantly changing and developing, changing our vision and changing

The perception of "glasses" on things that do not change is changing, not to mention that they are aimed at things that are changing, and the changes of both are relative; In the end, this fully shows that feeling is unreliable, it is completely an emotional self-deception, I feel that I like him, I think I believe him, I will be willful, I must like him, but I don't need to like it, I just tell myself that I have no feelings for him, okay, break up, divorce, that's all!

Some people pay a lot of attention to the similarities and differences when choosing a partner. On the one hand, they feel that there should be as many similarities as possible so that they can like it for a long time.

Just like if you like to read, then you will naturally like to read people. On the other hand, they feel that differences also need to be paid attention to, and that if the differences are too large or even completely opposite, they are prone to contradictions, especially those that cannot be tolerated.

For example, people who hate watching horror movies and people who like to watch horror movies are naturally difficult to get along with, just like people who like pollen and are allergic to pollen, water and fire are incompatible, and being together will only hurt each other!

Chiba felt that she remembered what she said,

"You don't feel comfortable when that person isn't there" is very unreliable, because there are some of them

The "criminals" found this characteristic of the girl, and then took advantage of the situation to successfully attack the target, as long as it caused huge emotional fluctuations to the target, that is, to make her feel happy and sad emotional fluctuations, such as giving her hope first and then despair, or making her cry first and then make her laugh, etc., left on the prey

The deeper the "imprint", the more uncomfortable the other person will feel. As for what Yi Qiying said

"Deciding whether to say I like you or not", he thinks this is also easy to say, difficult to judge, just like moderation, moderation of the words, can only be used to fool people, when actually faced with a choice, can you still choose both.

Obviously, this is not going to work. He didn't think about it so much, he felt that Chu Xue loved her, she was very good to him, and she was so beautiful, not inferior to Ta Shaoli whom he admired, and he was out of love, and he urgently needed a partner to fill the pain, so he naturally accepted the other party.

It is easy to understand that he chooses the person who loves him than the person he loves, after all, it is easier to be happy when he chooses the person who loves him, and if you choose the person you love, you have to submit to the other person.

However, this is not the case......