Cai Yuanwai said with a sad face: "You two have also seen this situation, but it is becoming more and more unpresentable." I'm going to have to ask the two of you to help me think of something today! ”

As he spoke, he was about to salute, and Jiang was also busy saluting, but was stopped by Zhang Rongkun.

Zhang Rongkun said: "There are methods, but you must first be sincere, and secondly, you must put in enough ink and wash work to see the effect." ”

Before Cai Yuanwai could answer, Jiang Shi immediately answered on the side: "I can do any kind of hard work, and I can endure any kind of hardship!" Please do not hesitate to command. ”

Cai Yuanwai glanced at his wife gratefully, and then said: "If my child can get better, my Cai family will remember the great kindness of the Taoist!" I vow that I will rebuild the mystical view and shape the immortal body again! ”

Zhang Weizhao secretly smacked his tongue beside him, rebuilding the Xuanmiao Temple, it was a big project, and it required a lot of money, and this Cai Yuanwai was really wealthy.

Zhang Rongkun said: "That's not necessary, you don't bother, I don't bother." As long as the consultation fee is enough. "Let's look at Zhang Weizhao, it means, apprentice, you go.

Zhang Weizhao answered: "Can you take a look at the eight characters of the prince in the house?" Jiang had already prepared, and immediately ordered someone to bring a tray, which not only contained An Lang's, but also Cai Yuanwai and Jiang's birthdays.

Zhang Weizhao picked it up and looked at it decently for a long time, then closed his eyes and meditated. Cai Yuanwai and Jiang were anxious, but they didn't dare to urge.

There was about a cup of tea, and Zhang Weizhao opened his eyes: "The prince and the young lady in the house are both noble lives, and there were many calamities in the early years. It's just that the little boy was born a moment earlier than the female son-in-law, and there are different men and women, and the cracking methods are also different. ”

"Then how will my son's calamity be solved? Please also teach me! Cai Yuanwai arched his hand.

"The little boy is currently in a broken spirit, weak and weak. The way to crack it is to use a loving mother to warm up her intestines and a loving father to warm her heart. ”

"A loving mother is soft-hearted, and a loving father is warm-hearted?" Cai Yuanwai and Jiang looked at each other, what kind of recipe is this?

"Exactly. In this world, the love of parents is the cure for children. However, not all parents will love their children, Zhang Weizhao said in his heart.

"This, this, since this child was born, we are afraid of falling off in the palm of our hands, and we are afraid of melting in our mouths......" Cai Yuanwai quickly defended himself, and Jiang also nodded again and again.

Zhang Weizhao didn't answer, and said directly: "If you have a loving heart, you must have a suitable method to effectively test it." I will teach you a set of "Compassion Prescriptions" for the two of you now, which can help you pour the heart of your beloved son into the soul of the little boy and calm your life. ”

Hearing this, Cai Yuanwai and Jiang were relieved, and urged Zhang Weizhao to tell the truth of "Compassion Fang".

Zhang Weizhao said unhurriedly: "Actually, it's not difficult. From today onwards, the night, the outsider, the lady and the little boy need to be in the same room every night. You can put a small bed with a fence, put it outside the big bed, fall asleep, change clothes, change diapers, take a bath and wipe your face, all of them have to be done by the staff and their wives, can the staff and their wives do it? ”

"Do you want us to do the work done by these subordinates?" Cai Yuanwai was surprised, he originally thought that Zhang Weizhao would teach him some secret techniques such as songs and mudras, but he didn't want to ask him to serve the baby with his own hands.

"I can do it!" Unlike Cai Yuanwai's surprise, Jiang immediately agreed. Although I don't know why Zhang Weizhao asked them and his wife to serve the children by themselves, but in this way, Cai Yuanwai and the children will be with her night and night. How could she not want to?

In addition to having three concubines at home, Cai Yuan often drinks outside, and it is inevitable to ask Xiao Sing and Fan to accompany him during the banquet, and occasionally he does not return all night. As Jiang got older, Cai Yuanwai spent less and less time in her room.

Now the doctor said that Cai Yuanwai has to sleep at home and take care of the child every night, why is she unwilling? Naturally, 10,000 are willing!

"It's up to the staff and his wife to do it themselves. And there are more people who do it outside the staff. It is only because of the abundance of yang energy outside the staff and the fact that you are always by your side, that the little boy has yang energy to protect his body, his soul is condensed, and his spirit is sufficient. ”

"This, this ......" Cai Yuanwai still felt embarrassed, he dressed and ate by himself and had someone to serve him, and now let him be a nurse for a baby, which is too reluctant. He is willing to pay any amount of money to see the child, but let him hold the child at home every night......

saw that Zhang Rongkun and Zhang Weizhao both looked at him with a pair of scrutinizing eyes, as if his careful thinking had been seen through at a glance. Cai Yuanwai gritted his teeth: "Okay, I'm willing!" ”

"Every night when I coax the little boy to sleep, I need to touch the top of the little boy's head with the palm of my hand, and softly say 'Daddy is here, my son sleeps well' 7749 times. When reading, you should be calm and have a good wish for your child. ”

"Okay, I'll read it!" Cai Yuanwai should arrive.

"After the little boy wakes up in the morning, the lady will touch the back of the little boy with the palm of her hand, and wish 'my son is happy, my son is safe' 7749 times."

"Good, good!" Jiang replied in a loud voice.

"If you are restless, complaining and hating, then you have wasted all your efforts."

"We must do what the Prophet taught us with all our hearts." Cai Yuanwai and Jiang made a vow together.

"What if Anlang wants to feed in the middle of the night?" Jiang asked.

"You can ask the nurse to feed the little son, and after feeding, it will still be taken care of by the staff and his wife." Zhang Weizhao replied.

"Don't you need to take medicine?" Cai Yuanwai still has doubts.

"No, you don't."

"How long will it take for this to work?" Cai Yuanwai asked.

"With enough heart and hard work, it will naturally work."

"Isn't there a quicker way?" Cai Yuanwai still doesn't give up.

Zhang Weizhao smiled slightly and said, "Haven't you tried the shortcut before?" ”

Cai Yuanwai was speechless.

"On weekdays, try to dress the little boy in comfortable and loose clothes, and don't tie his hands and feet tightly with swaddling clothes. Get a lot of sun exposure. If this method works, the little boy can stop crying at night, and sleep peacefully at night, you can go to the Xuanmiaoguan to find me again, and I will teach you how to further strengthen your body and open your mind. ”

Every time she said a word, Cai Yuanwai and Jiang nodded again and again.

Fang Zi drove down, and Zhang Rongkun and Zhang Weizhao looked back.

In this era, everyone generally believes that having milk is a mother, and the implication is that children can grow up if they have food, in fact, only food is far from enough for babies, and children who have not received enough attention and caress are easy to die.

In the 50s of the 20th century, Harlow, a scholar at the University of Wisconsin in the United States, conducted an experiment with rhesus monkeys. He took the newborn monkeys away from their mothers and gave them two "surrogate mothers": one was wrapped with wire and had a bottle on it, and the baby monkeys could drink milk from the wire mother; The other is made of a towel and does not have a bottle on it, but it is soft to the touch.

According to the theory that having milk is a mother, the little monkey should prefer the wire mother. However, the truth is that the baby monkey only goes to the wire mother when it is drinking milk, and the rest of the time it snuggles up to the towel mother. When frightened, he will also hug the towel mother tightly for comfort for the first time.

And those little monkeys who have neither wire mothers nor towel mothers, and are only fed at fixed points, have a very bad physical and mental state, and have serious masochistic tendencies, some of which will be so serious that they bite off their toes and finally die of depression.

These experiments show that baby monkeys cannot grow up healthily only with enough food, and they still need love.

Love is not an empty concept, specifically eye contact, physical touch and hug, verbal comfort.

It's the same with human babies.

The dragon and phoenix fetus of Cai Yuanwai's family, in Wei Zhao's view, was born in a very special environment.

Cai Yuanwai has no feelings for pomegranates, and is purely matched for the sake of fertility. Pomegranate is the same for Cai Yuanwai, just obeying for the sake of livelihood.

A child born to a couple of loveless men and women, the parents' love for the child is also limited. They do not see the existence of the child itself, but their role as offspring.

With children, the Cai family has a legal heir, and the family property is saved from the fate of being divided up by relatives.

With a child, and bringing his son over to raise him personally, Jiang's position was stable.

With children, pomegranates can roughly enjoy a life of food and clothing.

However, when they faced this pair of little lives, they did not have that natural tender feelings, or rather, this kind of feelings had long been drowned out by the calculation of interests.

Children are more sensitive than adults can imagine, and in the face of a world that is so intolerant of them, they use their cries to express their dissatisfaction and protest.

The work that Zhang Weizhao has done is to let their nurturers establish a connection with their children with their hearts and learn to love them, rather than just treating them as tools.

She emphasized that Cai Yuanwai should be more involved in child-rearing work, on the one hand, because the father's parenting itself is very important to boys; On the other hand, the close cooperation between Cai Yuanwai and Jiang will promote the trust between the two people and give Jiang a sufficient sense of security. A mother with a sufficient sense of security will raise a child with a sufficient sense of security.

As for the triangular relationship between Cai Yuanwai, Jiang and Pomegranate, it has the characteristics of this era, and Zhang Weizhao cannot intervene. Only within their own capabilities, let them each do their duty as a good nurturer.

When Zhang Weizhao told Zhang Rongkun about the rhesus monkey experiment of "Western monks", Zhang Rongkun came up with the idea of raising monkeys again. Hearing that the master said that he wanted to confirm the rhesus monkey experiment, even a broad-hearted person like Zhang Weizhao felt that one head was two big. Fortunately, the weather had already begun to get cold, and the newborn little monkey was not easy to find, so Zhang Rongkun gave up. Zhang Weizhao secretly wiped a cold sweat.

Besides, Cai Yuanwai, in the next few months, he really did his best to take care of An Lang according to what Zhang Weizhao said. At the beginning, it was naturally miserable, it was difficult to sleep at night, listless during the day, and the husband and wife took turns to make up for sleep.