She and his story
The male and female protagonists in the film are very similar to real-life couples or couples, or very dissimilar.
How many families are female in and male in and out? This alone is now, although it has not been completely subverted, as if the idea of patriarchy has been deeply ingrained in a certain generation, not that it can be uprooted, but it can be.
The daily work of 5 to 9, in the eyes of outsiders, what they see is almost their busy return or the back of the distant, maybe some people praise the man of a certain family again and again, "I really envy her family, men will make money......
Such praise is often the one who is busy coming in and out, with a light on his head that cannot be ignored, but it is the people of his own family who are blind.
At home, if they have a problem in their hearts, who will help them straighten it out? If there is bitter water, who willingly serves as a pool? If there is a temper, who will be used as a punching bag or willingly? It's the one in the family, the one who doesn't go noticed, the one who goes out and just goes to the vegetable market or the supermarket.
Three meals a day may seem simple, but if you do it yourself, you'll find that it's just one plus one equals two. Breakfast, you can't prepare it too greasy, but light and nutritious, and if you have the heart, you will naturally remember who loves milk, who likes juice, and who doesn't like anything...... If it is a holiday, lunch needs to be hearty, and if you want to make a table of delicious dishes, you need time to experience, accumulate experience and experience, and it will take at least an hour and a half to let your family have a delicious lunch. Dinner can be simple, but it's not casual.
Grocery shopping, hygiene, ledgers, and even children, which is not a matter at home?
Especially the account book at home, if you get used to it, every day, even every day is recorded one by one in an orderly manner, it takes a lot of brainpower, no one will dislike the fact that there is more money at home~ There is such an interesting phenomenon, the richer the family, the more iron rooster! The account book is nothing more than to let the family's money go, and secondly, it is, compared with last month, last year, whether it is more or less, and the money saved is also money.
Don't underestimate it, keep all the account books, the past ten, fifty, or even several generations, then the account books at home, your great-great-great-grandchildren, may be able to take it to the museum with a thick one.
As for the child, it has become an easy matter, he has grandparents, grandparents, but the family is only the people in the family. Think about it, which one she likes to do more than let the child's grandmother help take care of the child and let her do all the housework?
What's more, now women not only have to take care of the inside of the home, but also take care of the outside work, so that there will be mothers who don't want to take care of their children, don't like housework, can't cook, and their husbands, if they are caring, can help themselves, they will do it in obscurity, if not?
Regarding trivial matters at home, quarrels and conflicts will be a snowball, and the more you roll, the more you get acquainted, and will it not collapse in the end? Where do I know?
For both work and family, it is better to take care of both more or less, and between housewives and husbands, mutual understanding is, a family, why should there be a division of the middle?