Chapter 78: Life 3

"Let's go, I'll take you to dinner."

Jun Jiuyuan looked doted and took her hand, his mood had recovered as before, and he did not let his mood continue to be bad because of Jun Lishan's matter.

After Jun Cheng and Chen Yu sat down, the two of them looked a little strange, and finally looked at Chu Ya, they sat in silence, but they didn't say a word.

Facing the appearance of the two of them, Chu Ya looked indifferent, looked down at the menu in front of her, and ordered a few of her favorite foods. When she comes out to eat, she will never be polite to others, because if she is polite to others, then the hungry person will be herself.

She doesn't have this idea, she just wants to be her true self, and she doesn't want to treat her belly badly.

After ordering the meal, Chu Ya looked at Jun Cheng and Chen Yu, "If you have anything to say, you might as well say it directly." ”

"Huh?"

Jun Cheng looked stunned and didn't know how to answer.

On the contrary, it was Chen Yu on the side, he looked a little honest, he helped the glasses on the tip of his nose, and finally said, "Sister-in-law, you don't have to pay attention to them." In my heart, you are my brother's sister-in-law. The thoughts of others really don't need to be taken to heart. ”

When Chu Ya faced what he said, she chuckled, "What if others look down on me?" As long as Jiuyuan has me in his eyes, that is the most important thing to me. If he doesn't have me in his eyes, then even if I'm by his side, I'll abandon him. ”

When Jun Jiuyuan and the others heard this, they were all stunned, they didn't expect that she would say this so clearly.

In other words, if Jun Jiuyuan doesn't have her in his eyes one day, she won't need Jun Jiuyuan to speak, she will leave.

Jun Jiuyuan glared at Chen Yu and stretched out his hand to hold Chu Ya's hand, "What nonsense?" How could I not have you in my eyes! ”

"It's hard for anyone to say anything about feelings."

Chu Ya said this sentence with a calm face.

However, Jun Jiuyuan said seriously: "I like it, there will be times of passion." After the passion, it is calm. Later, the so-called liking is nothing more than self-deception. Like is the so-called passion, and love will not change because of distance and other things, you are you, no one can replace you. ”

"You look at me well now because you haven't met anyone better than me. Who can guarantee that I will be your ultimate love? ”

Chu Ya chuckled, she still couldn't fully believe in Jun Jiuyuan's sincerity.

Forgive her, it's not that she doesn't trust him and doesn't love her at this time, it's just that she has seen too many things, what a seven-year itch of marriage. In the final analysis, it is because the distance between the husband and wife is too close, and they are obviously two people who are not related by blood, but they live together, and they also expose all their temperament to each other.

Someone once said that if you really love someone, try to restrain your bad temper and give all the good to the other person. Regardless of whether before or after marriage, they still keep their distance from each other, because they don't treat each other as relatives, but as lovers.

Relatives, no matter how they beat and scolded, they can't break that blood relationship.

Lovely person, if you don't love it, your lover will leave.

Therefore, smart people will see their other half as a lover, not a relative.

If one day Chu Ya and Jun Jiuyuan really regard each other as relatives, I am afraid that they will not be far from breaking up.

Chu Ya never treated him as a relative from beginning to end, he was her man, and he was the lover she accepted from her heart. So for him, she is willing to work hard to conceive and give birth to a child in October.

The pain of caesarean section, she still dare not forget the pain, tears of pain flowing, helpless and no one can help. Everything can only be borne by oneself, although it is said that Jun Jiuyuan is by his side, but the kind of pain experienced alone, that kind of loneliness, there is no way to talk to others.

Therefore, she told Jun Jiuyuan that she really didn't want to be reborn.

Maybe outsiders will say that it is so easy for others to have children, why did you come to you and be so hypocritical?

Is it hypocritical?

Chu Ya faced this hypocritical person, and just wanted to spray him, you have the ability, then you go to get pregnant and give birth.

A woman is willing to have a child, more because the child is her and his.

Having this child is her love.

It is also his child, the child is looking forward to the love of his parents, and when he is born, he will be well cared for and grow up.

Selfish parents just don't care about giving birth, just throw their children to others, and just care about their own joy.

Do such parents still deserve to be called parents?

In recent years, there have been many painless abortions in the hospital, and the hospital has openly said that students have a painless abortion at half price.

When the news report came out, Chu Ya only felt pity.

Many girls who go to have a painless abortion just feel nothing.

Because these girls don't know how to take care of themselves, they think that painless abortion is not harmful to the body, but in fact, when she worked in a pharmacy before, Chu Ya had heard too many tragedies.

I once heard of a young girl of twenty-four, after getting married, conceived two children, and each time she spontaneously miscarried.

After that, the man asked the doctor what the reason was, and the girl couldn't cry by herself, because she was young and ignorant, and when she was with her ex-boyfriend before, she didn't wear a condom when she ate the forbidden fruit, just to be greedy for the pleasure of the moment, and as a result, she had five miscarriages in just one year.

The truth broke out, and the man divorced her directly, just because she was ignorant. What he didn't mind was her premarital sexual history, but that she didn't love her body at all, and she could have been a mother.

However, when she was miserable for the first time, she did not learn her lesson, and continued to make mistakes again and again, and now, if she wants to have a child, it has become an automatic abortion.

In her life, she will not be able to be a mother.

After the divorce, the girl could only find an old man who did not need to have children to marry, and her life was ruined by her momentary greed and pleasure, and also ruined by her lack of self-love.

In today's society, there are many boyfriends and girlfriends who live together before marriage.

If he really loves you, he will definitely think about your body and will automatically consciously wear a condom, instead of letting the girl take birth control pills and have a painless abortion for the sake of greedy momentary pleasure.

He is cool, but when you have a painless abortion, has he shared a little bit of your pain?

If you want to be loved, you must first love yourself.

Chu Ya didn't want to have any more children, not because she didn't love Jun Jiuyuan, but because she didn't want to give birth. If he still wants a child, she can't satisfy him, because his body knows it.

First of all, her energy is insufficient, and secondly, having another child means that the burden is heavier, and she is afraid that she will not be able to give her children a good way of education.

Today's children, not to say that they are born, can be brought by a nanny.

If you are born without teaching, why should you be born? It's a scourge to society!

For example, Jun Jiuyuan can grow up to this day, without excessive resentment against the society, and compassion. For people he doesn't know, he will also lend a helping hand, Chu Ya knows very well that it must be his mother who influenced him to make him what he is today.