Chapter 280: Psychological Gap

Yun En really pulled a deal for her uncle, Wang Ruo, her mother, and mother-in-law's cheongsam were all customized in the Xia family, and she also ordered a set of dragon and phoenix gown skirts.

Wedding dresses are not the main business of her uncle's side, and Wang Ruo also has a famous designer who has a good relationship with her and is thoughtful, so she doesn't have to worry about Yunen.

In any case, the marriage is about to be married, and now the first step is to decorate the new house.

It is said that before receiving the certificate, Sun Wei sold his small two-bedroom apartment, and the money from the sale was added to Wang Ruo's money to buy a three-bedroom apartment in a high-end community.

The proportion of places on the real estate certificate is also divided according to the house price, and Wang Ruo occupies a small amount, but he has to buy a house before obtaining the certificate, and so divided, which is Wang Ruo's meaning.

Yun En came to the confinement center to visit Xiaoxiao the next day, and accompanied her downstairs to bask in the sun, and happened to meet a young couple arguing, the wife is also a mother, wearing the same pajamas as Meng Xiao and wearing a thick coat.

She didn't cry, but said very rationally: "I gave birth to a child for a few days, and basically laid the foundation for the relationship between me and your mother for the rest of my life, and she should pretend to be a pretend." But I didn't spend her money living here, and I didn't ask her to take care of the children, what is she not satisfied with, and she has to say in front of me and my parents that she is wasting money? Is there something wrong with her brain, she wants me to feed her in person, thirteen o'clock! I'll make it clear to you today, if you want to live with me and my children, don't expect me to have anything to do with your mother in the future, I won't hinder you from fulfilling your filial piety, but your parents' affairs have nothing to do with me from now on, and I won't pester you to serve tea and water to my parents. ”

The husband didn't seem to be angry, but patiently coaxed his wife, but when he spoke quietly, Yun En and the others couldn't hear it.

In the end, the two went back well, did not fall out and did not continue to quarrel, and as they walked by, the sisters heard the husband say, "I have been annoyed with her for more than thirty years, and I have long had enough......

If you say this, if your mother hears it, she must be very sad and sad, and she has no conscience when she gives birth to a son.

However, the parents of the previous generation are the best at blackmailing their children, and this dark bottomless pit is especially serious in China.

After experiencing the era of poverty, hard work and turmoil, the psychology and spirit of the parents' generation have long been abandoned by the times.

Some elderly people, after retirement, have the courage to pursue the same chic and free life as young people, but to a large extent, they will still be complained and blamed by their peers and even spoiled younger generations.

The most harmonious families, often the elders are happy and don't care about idle things, and the younger ones are motivated and cheerful and don't be giant babies, but there are not many such families, but what restricts them is not economic conditions, but still psychology and spirituality.

"Zhuang Ruzhen definitely didn't know that her son hated her to the point of wanting to kill her, she was sad herself, and she drove her son crazy step by step." Yun En said solemnly, "The reason why he is willing to favor my testimony and let me go is entirely because I have freed him, and the conflict between him and her mother can only be resolved by life and death." ”

Meng Xiao sighed: "The previous generation of parents sucked a lot of blood from their children, but there were very few children who could be as decisive as me, and most of the children continued to pass on this distorted family relationship with the paranoia of the original family." Some time ago, my grandmother asked me if I wanted to care about my own mother and younger brother. I made it very clear to her that when I died, they would be so depressed that they would go to the streets to beg, and I would not give a penny. At that time, my grandmother's expression was quite heavy, and I don't know if she would think I was too ruthless. ”

Yun En hurriedly said: "How can it be, grandma likes you very much, and the people of the Liang family are very clear." ”

Meng Xiao smiled with relief: "I think so too, but if not, I can only be sorry for grandma, I just want to live with Liang Chen in my life." ”

Meng Xiao's wound has recovered well, but her physical strength has not yet recovered, and she walks extremely slowly, from the garden to the house where she lives, she is tired and panting.

But she still insisted on walking around, these legs were healed by Liang Chen's painstaking efforts for her, she was really afraid that she would lay on the hospital bed for a month and waste her two legs.

After settling Meng Xiao, the nurse sent the child back, and Yun En sat on the edge of the cradle, looking at the baby intently.

A few days after being born, the wrinkled little baby gradually grew, and it was very similar to Liang Chen, although it was still so young, but even if Yun En had never seen it, put the baby in a pile of babies, she could see at a glance that this was Liang Chen's daughter.

"She's so beautiful." Yun En said, "The skin is so white. ”

As he spoke, his mobile phone rang in his bag, and Jiang Rin sent a message saying that his parents had arranged the day, the plane on April 2.

Yun En suddenly became nervous, holding his phone and not knowing how to reply.

Jiang Rin sent another message: Don't be nervous, they just came to see you.

For his own sake, Mr. Jiang did not return to Australia for more than a year, and even reduced his business trip to the Paris headquarters, and Christmas and New Year were by her side, Yun En felt really guilty.

Meng Xiao smiled and said: "You see, just now you talked to me at length about the relationship between parents and children, and you can't turn it around to yourself, Jiang Rin is not the kind of person who wants to bind himself and his parents together, why should you think about it." ”

After leaving the confinement center, Yun En went to the studio, the two assistants did not come to work on the day off, the studio was quiet, occasionally the master passed by and saw her, and gave her an apple or orange or something.

Yun En has long felt that in this company, in addition to the marketing team that goes out, the teachers are also filled with the working atmosphere of decades ago, which is very peaceful and harmonious.

But the uncle said that sooner or later the masters will retire, and if the business is to be continued, it will definitely be necessary to train young tailors and embroiderers, and Yun En will take over the company in the future, so that he will not have to continue to maintain this kind of work style, drastic reform, so that the company can keep up with the times.

The two assistants that Yunen has recruited now are both students who have just graduated from college, majoring in shoe design, and their professional knowledge is no worse than that of Yunen, but what they lack is practical operation and experience accumulation.

So Yun En always felt that she had the responsibility to teach them something, and even take them to debut, but she had only officially debuted for less than two years, and she used to take a small assistant in the company, and people had no intention of developing in the direction of designers, so she was very relaxed, and now she is the boss herself, and she has pressure and a sense of responsibility for some reason.

In those days, when Jiang Rin was busy in the studio at home, Yun En would always sit quietly on the side and stare at him, but tonight Mr. Jiang couldn't help it and asked him, "Have I looked strange lately?" ”

As soon as Yun En opened the conversation, she couldn't stop, although the studio was working smoothly, and the business orders she received at least a month or two at the moment would have to be done, she was not in a hurry to develop and expand her business, so she wanted to be patient and slowly make every pair of shoes.

But when dealing with colleague relationships, I saw two little assistants every day, and saw that they were sometimes stupid and lazy, and she started to work in management positions before she changed jobs, but she didn't know how to manage and guide.

The feeling of being a boss is completely different from that of a boss, the boss and subordinates use and enjoy the company's resources, and everyone is a part-time worker, but being a boss is to watch others enjoy and use their own resources, and what the boss expects must be the maximum return of interests, and the mentality and functions are completely different.

"I'm worried about myself right now, and I'm not going to be the boss." Yun En said, "Is it that I am too young, I don't seem to have the courage to be a boss, it turns out that what I imagined before was too naΓ―ve." ”

Jiang Rin said: "It's really not good, so I'll hand it over to my uncle to manage it for the time being, and you will continue to be a designer." When Wang Ruo was appointed as the chief designer, he had already decided to focus on the company's operations, so you can't do both now, and I think it's normal. But then again, I can't, it doesn't mean you can't, try it first, if it really doesn't work, you can discuss it again. ”

Yun En lay on the table and thought for a long time, Jiang Rin finished a pair of shoes in his hand, although he no longer participates in the design and production of the company, but in private the business of old customers is endless, and these incomes are not known to Yun En, the last time I chatted with Wang Ruo, Wang Ruo said that Jiang Rin made more money than the salary given by the company.

"It's really fun to be a freelance designer." Yun En looked at Jiang Rin enviously, "I want to digest the psychological gap between reality and ideals. ”

Jiang Rin said with a smile: "No matter what, let's take out the salaries of the two assistants first, and earn back my uncle's lawyer's fees." ”

Yun En initiated, asking for a hug, and Jiang Rin kissed her: "Wait until I'm done." ”

"Hmph......" Although Yun En was not happy, he didn't dwell on it, so he asked faintly on the side, "How much money can you make by making a pair of shoes." ”

Jiang Rin looked at her, and Yun En deliberately raised his chin: "It's not to check your accounts, I'm just curious." ”

Jiang Rin lowered his head and continued to do things, and said with a smile: "Most of them only charge a cost of work, they are all friendships, and I should also practice my hands by myself, don't waste it." Of course, people often give more money, and I hope to continue to invite me next time. ”