There is a difference between men and women
Because I'm a girl, I don't like my grandmother.
Because I'm a girl, the relationship between mom and grandma is always in a state of cold war.
Because I'm a girl, I'm criticized for being naughty and messing around, and I'm being put on a crazy girl's hat.
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My mother told me that almost every child is born with the expectation of "its" gender, whether it is a boy or a girl or a twin or a dragon and phoenix. I asked my mother if she wanted a boy, and the answer was realistic, yes! At the same time, she told me that she did not regret it, she was not sad, that every baby boy would be slapped on the ass by Lord Yama when he came, that the fate of the baby boy would go through too much suffering, and that she believed that giving birth to a daughter was fate. The words are quite mysterious!
Although a few years ago it was scientifically shown that the majority of miscarriages were born in boys, the reason for this is the two ✖✖ chromosomes that are unique to women, which not only indicate the sex, but also carry many disease-resistant genes. As for now, there is still a certain amount of proof! Suddenly feel a little glad for the girl! The genetic scales are in favor of girls!
If I had been born in feudal times, I would have died young! I alone will never be able to raise the status of women, so it's better for me not to be born and grow up!
But now it's different, the vast majority of girls have education, jobs, ideas, and personalities! It is completely possible to support oneself, to live a one's petty bourgeois life, and to live without relying on the shoulders of men.
Now is the era of yin and yang, and girls can also be strong, so the female man, the queen is baked; Girls can be very good, so there are more and more women in senior departments; Girls can take care of their own families, so their parents will urge them to have boyfriends and get married; Girls can be independent and self-reliant, so there are a lot of hermit crabs.
I want to speak for girls, and it's not because I'm a girl! If I were a boy, I would praise it in more beautiful words, for the simple reason that many women nowadays share a lot of burdens with men! If you are a boy, or if your husband can resolutely deny it! My house is a great example of this!
Having said all this, the result I want is nothing more than to put aside old ideas and develop new ideas, men and women are equal to each other, get along amicably, praise each other, understand each other, and I also hope that boys learn to pamper, and it is not only boys who have gone through hardships, but the suffering of girls is self-evident!