Although they slept late, they still woke up early and did not seem sleepy at all.

"Yemei, let's not go shopping, how about we go to Yuexiu Park together?"

"Yes, yes, that's exactly what I want."

They go by bus, and although they may be quicker by taxi, they have the same idea, they want to know a place, to melt into this place, to take the company, to take the subway...... It's the best. If you've been to a place, it's better to make a little impression, otherwise wouldn't it be in vain?

So they all chose to take the bus.

Yuexiu Park is full of trees and shade, and the scenery is excellent.

They talked a lot as they walked, about love, about career, about the past, about the future......

"Xu Jie has been to Guangzhou, yes, he came to see my sister...... It's funny, when I knew that he was my brother, that feeling disappeared naturally, really, not like some of the writings, very painful and very tangled...... Being with him is more natural, because he is my brother, a brother who can express his joys and sorrows casually. ”

Hu Qinxin told Yemei the story of Xu Jie, the story is very long, and it will be described in detail below.

Yes, Xu Jie had an unhappy childhood, but misfortune can sometimes turn into wealth......

"Xu Jie's story made me understand that we women really need to think about having children, because it will not only affect our own lives, but also affect our next generation."

"Yes, the last time I went back to have a class reunion, the experience of several classmates was really chilling. Marrying well should not be the only goal of us women. ”

When it comes to their dreams, both of them feel that they should be cautious about getting married.

"Yes, if we can make our own decisions, then don't put our hopes in others, we have to make our own decisions."

"Qin Xin, I found that we have a little bit of a real resemblance. Even if it's a broken love, we don't want to live or die, and we feel that a relationship is over after it's over, it's not so scary......"

"What else? You have to be able to afford to put it down. ”

A glittering mediocrity without ambition and passion, aimless, infinitely repeating the day, slowly sliding towards death, without thinking about the cause. Preserving and repeating the world as it is seems neither desirable nor possible. - Beauvoir, "The Second Sex"

"Yes, we came to this world to explore a new life, and it is better to move forward than to indulge in the emotional whirlpool and waste our youth."

Speaking of these, Yemei suddenly felt that she didn't want to go to Xu Jie, and it was unlikely that she would fall in love with him if she found it, after all, Hu Qinxin used to have a good impression of him, although it was later confirmed that they were brother and sister, but she couldn't step over this hurdle emotionally. She only hopes that Xu Jie will be fine, she only hopes that he is doing well, if she can know if he is doing well now, and where he is.

When she was young, Yemei didn't know the importance of her career to herself, and she would pursue the opposite sex in reverse roles, just like pursuing Zhang Da.

However, now, she knew that there was no point in chasing.

"If the two love for a long time, why bother to go to court

Twilight. ”

This is one thing, and the second is that if either partner feels that they are not in a relationship with each other, then they will not be able to fall in love freely and love naturally.

"The curse that weighs on a woman is that she fell into the hands of a woman in her childhood. The boy was also raised by his mother at first, but she respected his masculine character, and he soon got rid of her, while she wanted to integrate her daughter into the world of women, and when a girl was entrusted to a woman, the woman would try to transform her into a woman like them with a passion of arrogance and resentment. Even a woman who sincerely seeks happiness for her child will generally think that it is more prudent to turn her into a "real woman", because it will make her more acceptable to society.

Games and dreams lead little girls to passivity; But before she became a woman, she was a person; She already knew that to admit that she was a woman was to give up and self-harm. - The Second Sex

No, she can't give up on herself easily.

"One day, a woman may be able to love with her "strong", not with her weakness, not to escape from herself, but to find herself, not to give up herself, but to affirm herself. At that time, love will be the same for her as he will be, and will become a source of life, not a mortal danger. But before that, love encapsulates in its most moving form the curse that oppresses on women who are closed in the world of women, women who are hurt and unable to satisfy themselves, and countless love martyrs protest against the injustice of fate, because it offers the desolate hell to them as the final salvation. - The Second Sex

I want to thank Xu Jie for not confessing easily when he was weak, otherwise, Yemei would have fallen. Then, I can't confess when he is weak, bury this feeling in my heart, if there is fate, there will always be a time to reunite.

"Xu Jie will appear, he will pick the right time to appear, just like me." Hu Qinxin seemed to have seen through Yemei's thoughts.

"Well, we want the sunshine, we want to go up and up with the sun......" Yemei seemed to encourage Hu Qinxin, like encouraging herself, and more like hoping that Xu Jie could make a comeback.

Thinking that Xu Jie's company could disappear in a short period of time, Yemei's heart became a little flustered.

Being a boss is not more secure, but more crisis-oriented.

Just like being at the helm, if she wants to give her employees a sense of security, she must always pay attention to the direction of the rudder and always pay attention to whether there is danger ahead.

Therefore, she has no intention of playing in Guangzhou anymore.

Career is the same as learning, if you don't advance, you will retreat, she can't retreat!

Once you retreat, you will be doomed!

"Ah, it looks like I'll have to buy a plane ticket to go back early."

"You don't have to work from 9 to 5, you're a free man, just have fun when you come, and I'll rest tomorrow."

"Although I am a free person, I am more stressed than an unfree person, the company is the foundation of my survival, and I am trembling!"

They didn't come back by bus until five o'clock in the evening, and they talked a lot, but they didn't feel like they had talked enough.

"Let's say goodbye, maybe it won't be a long time before we meet."

“

yes, I wish time had stood still. If only those things hadn't happened, you wouldn't have left Hangzhou, and we could meet at any time. ”

On the bus back, the two of them had just taken their seats when a woman sitting in the back suddenly greeted them.

"Hi ......"

"You ......" Yemei couldn't remember where she had seen her, so she smiled embarrassedly at the other party.

"You don't remember me, do you? I'm very impressed with you. The other laughed heartily.

"Oh, I remembered, did we get off the bus in the small county town and talk together? You've changed so much, I ......"

"Yes, you finally remembered, I am Zeng Xinyi, and you are Fang Yemei." The other party hurriedly took over the conversation, she knew that Yemei had a lot of things, and she probably forgot her name.

"Haha, I still remember your name, so you also came out to mix? Looks like a good mix. ”

"It's inferior to you. I, at first glance, knew that you would be different in the future. Zeng Xinyi smiled.

"Why?"

"Instinct...... You have a lot of energy, a lot of tenacity, and a lot of energy...... This is something that other girls don't see. ”

"Ah, you're so eloquent, I've been a little flustered by what I've said."

"I'm sincere......" Zeng Xinyi also smiled, "I am doing insurance now, I have to be able to speak, and my eloquence has indeed been practiced." However, what I just said to you is really heartfelt. ”

"You've been in Guangzhou?"

"No, I'm in Jiashan, next to Hangzhou."

"Wow, that's so close to me. Is it time to play in Guangzhou? ”

"yes, I'm traveling here with my colleagues now."

"I'm in Hangzhou, why don't you leave a phone call and I'll play with you when I come back?"

"yes, that's great! What is your mobile phone number? Zeng Xinyi smiled and hurriedly saved Yemei's mobile phone number.

"13......, when will you go back? I'm on the plane early tomorrow morning. ”

"Ah, we're going to play one more day, why are you in such a hurry to go back?"

"She is in Caofu, her heart is in Han, and she is thinking about things in the company......" Hu Qinxin took over the conversation.

"This is my friend Hu Qinxin......" Yemei introduced with a smile.

"Wow, that's beautiful!" Zeng Xinyi sighed sincerely.

Hu Qinxin only smiled, a little embarrassed. Actually, she doesn't like such praise very much, and she prefers that she is not trapped by her appearance like Yemei, and can be free.

"We don't know how long we can get away with it, and I heard my mother say that once a woman gets married, she is not free, and I am afraid to think about it." Zeng Xinyi said to Yemei.

"Then don't get married, never get married." Yemei teased.

"Well, then don't get married, we'll never get married." Zeng Xinyi also laughed, but she felt that this was really unrealistic, "Hey, let's talk about jokes, the family is urging every day now." ”

"Whoever urges will let whoever gets married and has a baby go to ......," Yemei continued to laugh and tease.

"Or if you just want children, you can make money on your own and be an unwed mother." Hu Qinxin also laughed and teased.

"It's unrealistic, let's just say

Play. Zeng Xinyi said with a smile, but this topic may really make her feel unpleasant, so she fell silent.

Yemei doesn't think so, if you really can't meet the right one, then don't get married, yes, don't get married, you earn enough money, if you want to have children, if you don't want to, don't even have children, isn't this okay?

Today, it has become possible for her to take her destiny into her own hands, rather than entrust it to men. If she focuses on study, sports, vocational training, political and social activities, she gets rid of male troubles and greatly reduces her focus on emotional and sexual conflicts. However, as an autonomous individual, she has many more difficulties to overcome than a young man, and I have said that neither her family nor her customs support her efforts. Plus, even though she chooses to be independent, she still makes a place in her life to give men and love. If she dedicates herself to a cause, she tends to worry about missing out on her woman's fate. - The Second Sex

Yes, they already have their own jobs or careers, so what's not to do?

(End of this chapter) ( Marriage is not going to be .com )