On Saturday, Yemei suddenly received a call from Chen Jingling.

"Yemei, are you free? I'm in Hangzhou, with my children, and I want to come and live with you at night, okay? Chen Jingling's voice sounded a little sour, and there was no sense of joy.

"Huh? Why didn't you say it earlier? Absolutely! After a pause, Yemei asked again, "Do you want me to come and pick you up?" ”

"No, you don't have a car, and you can't drive, I'll come by myself, and I don't have any luggage." Chen Jingling said a little anxiously, "I'm hanging, the child is making trouble." ”

Seriously, Yemei was a little surprised and a little happy, after all, she hadn't seen her for a few years, and she was full of expectations for this meeting.

However, Chen Jingling came too abruptly, firstly, she did not greet her in advance, and secondly, she listened to her tone as if Ye Tongtong did not come together.

So, what did she come to Hangzhou for? You don't just want to see wild plums, do you?

Alas, don't think so much, don't think so complicated, go buy some fruit, buy some good food to entertain guests!

Yemei is good at recycling, she made her own wardrobe and desk from waste wood, and the bed was a bunk bed that was eliminated from the school, and she refixed it, and it was very strong. Put things on the upper floor, and sleep on the lower floor. Although the rental house is small, after she arranged it, the space became larger. When there are guests, she can also free up the bed on the upper floor, which is really a big win.

When Chen Jingling arrived in Xiasha, it was already half past twelve at noon, but fortunately, Yemei lived near the bus station.

She looked a little embarrassed.

"This kid really loves to make trouble, but it's unreasonable." As soon as she entered the door, Chen Jingling nagged, and sure enough, after marriage was very different from before marriage.

"It's so cute! It's hard for a child on such a hot day! "Yemei is going to pick up the child.

But the child cried and ran away.

"It's Aunt Fang, my mother's good friend, don't be afraid."

"Time flies so fast, your daughter is so old in the blink of an eye."

"Quick? You look like you're fast, and I'm going to be dead when I bring it up. Chen Jingling said exaggeratedly.

Chen Jingling's daughter is quite beautiful, and she has inherited the advantages of Ye Tongtong and Chen Jingling.

The child was hungry and thirsty, Chen Jingling was not polite as if she had arrived at her own home, she picked up a cup to feed the child water when she entered the door, and then continued to feed the child.

"You eat first, I'll take care of the children for you." Yemei said.

"Don't, this little ancestor can't be controlled by others, it's too clingy."

The process of eating is really like a war.

"It's really inconvenient to eat at someone else's house with a child, Yemei, I'm at ease here, look, it's a mess for you."

"Understood, understood, I'm here as my home, it's okay......" Yemei said quickly.

In less than a quarter of an hour, the child became familiar with the wild plum, and was no longer restrained, and played freely in the room.

The child is really skinny, and he is so energetic that he can't climb here for a while, and move here for a while......

"You can't move things casually here in Auntie......" Chen Jingling kept yelling.

Who is this Chen Jingling at the beginning? It's a different person.

"Am I not gentle at all?" Chen Jingling yelled at the child every time

will smile helplessly at Yemei, "I can't help it, don't yell at her for being dishonest." I'm already a sane parent, and some people even fight with their hands. ”

"It's not good to hit a child, there will be a psychological shadow."

"But, sometimes there's really no way, she can't listen to you everything, you have to say something N times before she listens, and even if she talks about it, it's useless, you have to take some lessons yourself to understand."

To tell the truth, with this child, Yemei looks tired, it's really embarrassing for Chen Jingling, how did she survive?

The child tinkered for a while, and finally got tired, in fact, he was tired after sitting in the car for so long, but when he first arrived in Hangzhou, there was some novelty.

One second I was still tinkering with toys, and the next I fell asleep, exactly two o'clock in the afternoon.

"First, I took my children to Hangzhou to play, and by the way, I came to see you, and I was really bored to stay in Wenzhou." After the child fell asleep, Chen Jingling breathed a sigh of relief, and then confided.

"Yes, as a housewife, the circle of life is narrow, tired and annoying, right?" Yemei said understandingly.

"Alas, in front of you, I won't hide it, housewife is really not a good character......"

As she spoke, Chen Jingling suddenly burst into tears.

Chen Jingling cried in front of Fang Yemei, she said, she said vigorously, as if she wanted to pour out all the grievances in the past few years.

"I can't tell what is wrong with him, he doesn't spend it, and he is willing to give me the money. However, he never went into the kitchen, never did the laundry, never ...... But who told me that I didn't have a job?

He is busy, either busy studying or busy traveling, and his days at home can be counted with his fingers pinched all year round.

He would give the money to his mom and say that his mom was hard...... If you give it, you will get 50,000. He also said that he was afraid that he would not have a chance to give it if he had a heavy burden in the future. I felt that something was wrong, but I couldn't refute it.

My parents are both dual-income workers, they are not short of money, not to mention that they don't take the money we give, they also put money for us to spend.

So, sometimes I just get angry.

They are both parents, why are his parents different from mine? The child still has his last name! ”

Fang Yemei listened carefully, but she didn't know how to comfort her.

"Men are all ...... like that" is okay to say? She herself is not married, so how do you know what a married man is like?

"I think it's tiring enough to have a kid, you know? Yemei, they all called me another one, saying that the two have company. In my in-laws' thoughts, I actually want to have a grandchild very much, and my parents think that they are all at home anyway, and one is to bring two to bring. But I am the one who suffers! Where do they know? I want to resist, I want to refute them. Now, with only one child, it is difficult for me to get a job again, and I have already regretted my death. If I have another one, will I have no chance in the workplace in my life? How can you stand that?

In the second half of the year, the children will go to kindergarten, I don't want to listen to them, I have to look for a job. ”

However, after she finished looking for a job, her mood became low again.

"Alas, it was so difficult to find a job when I wasn't married, and now I'm still dragging my children

I don't have much experience, so I think it's almost a dream. However, being a housewife is really annoying! I know that he is not my boss, but I am still afraid of him, and he is tired to death every day, but he still thinks how easy it is for us. Yemei, I fled to Hangzhou, where I suffocated to death. As soon as he got home, he didn't help, and he disliked it in various ways, either that the stove was not cleaned, or that the child was not brought well...... I'm going crazy. But what's the use of fleeing to Hangzhou? I can't stay here for long after fleeing Hangzhou, so I still have to go back...... What to do? The city that used to feel so good is now scared when I think about it, and sometimes I wish I wouldn't come back tomorrow. ”

"Ah, Chen Jingling, why do you say such negative things! You have to believe that tomorrow will get better and better! ”

"Alas, you don't understand, when you become a housewife, you will feel that you have no tomorrow, and you will feel that tomorrow is not in sight! Every day is the vegetable market, the kitchen, the clothes, the children's ...... The thought of being like this every day is to be disliked...... I'm going to collapse! ”

It seems that the more you talk about it, the more you can't seem to finish it.

However, Chen Jingling vented and was in a much better mood.

Ye Tongtong was on a business trip, and he called in the evening to find out that Chen Jingling was in Hangzhou.

"Why did you bring your child to Hangzhou alone? That's not safe at all! I didn't expect Ye Tongtong to blame as soon as he opened his mouth.

"Yemei is ...... in Hangzhou" Chen Jingling, who was still a little angry during the day, did not get angry in the face of Ye Guantong's reproach, but was a little aggrieved.

Ye Meike was angry and really wanted to snatch Chen Jingling's mobile phone.

But in the end, she held back, and her mother warned her not to meddle in other people's affairs, especially emotionally.

"I really like to make trouble, I'll pick you up in Hangzhou tomorrow." Ye Guantong was obviously a little impatient.

"Well......" Chen Jingling was gentle and distressing.

He ...... How to say it, I still care about our mother and daughter. ”

Yemei lowered her head and choked, she didn't know how to express it.

For the first time, she found that she didn't speak so bluntly.

She always felt that something was wrong, but she couldn't explain it in words.

"You know what? This child really resembles a devil and at the same time an angel. You're always going to be made to laugh and cry by her. Sometimes when she was tired and I wanted to fall asleep, she would break my hand and say, "You can't sleep." I said, I'm so tired that I can fall asleep standing up. She would say, she can't sleep standing up, she will fall...... I asked her to learn from me, let her pat me to sleep, she said, you can't sleep, no one cares about me when you fall asleep...... You say, do I cry or laugh at this time? ”

"Then you should go to sleep with the child now, or you won't be able to sleep when she wakes up."

"Yes, but in Wenzhou, I still have housework, so I have to do housework while she is asleep...... If I don't clean up, the house will be a mess, and Ye Tongtong will talk as soon as he comes home, I really can't stand it. He would say, "Don't you just take care of a child?" Is it so tiring? My mother used to work in the fields while taking care of me...... That's when we talk about it. However, as a result, the child was frightened

, start crying, only get more tired. ”

"Alas......"

"I've thought about leaving him countless times, but how can I have the courage to leave? What to do without his children? Will I be able to find a satisfying job and raise my children? My parents also didn't support my divorce. They feel that Ye Tongtong has no bad habits, he doesn't gamble and doesn't look for a lover, he is already a very good husband, how can he find such a good one if he looks for it again? ”

"Alas, you hurry up and sleep for a while, I am tired from listening to it, and I still feel comfortable going to work."

"Well, don't talk about it, if you talk too much, you'll be afraid of getting married."

"If you're afraid of marriage, then don't get married, anyway, I like to work hard, and I have endless fun." Yemei smiled.

"Also, comfort means sinking, and then returning to the bitterness of uselessness...... I'm asking for it! Chen Jingling sighed, "It's clear that you can fall asleep standing at home, but you are very awake at this time, but you can feel physically and mentally tired." ”

"I'll go out for a while, you better have a good rest, stay for a while, the child will wake up and make a fuss."

Yemei sighed and withdrew.

I hope Chen Jingling can take advantage of this to have a good night's sleep.

Yemei clearly knows that if Chen Jingling wants to go back to the past, the only way is to ruthlessly hand over the child to the elders, and then go to recharge and find a job by herself. If she doesn't look for a job, if she gives birth to a second child, she will probably have no chance in the workplace in her life.

But can you say such things to her?

(End of this chapter) ( Marriage is not going to be .com )