Chapter 387: Rejecting Mother's Kindness
So when her mother offered to help her take care of the child, An Mu refused without thinking about it.
She knew that her behavior would hurt her mother, but she believed her mother, and after listening to her explanation, her mother would definitely understand what she was thinking in her heart.
"Mom, after all, didn't you say before that you were going to go out with Uncle Li to travel around the world, you can't just leave your agreement behind me because I gave birth to a child. ”
What's more, Uncle Li is so good to her, she doesn't seem to disappoint Uncle Li.
Besides, the mother is already so old, if the child is handed over to her to take care of, she will definitely not be able to do it.
So from beginning to end, An Mu never thought about asking her mother to help her take care of the child.
"What's more, I am the mother of the child, it is natural for me to take care of the child, even if I did something bad at the beginning, but I will study hard, I believe that no woman is born to take care of the child, so you don't have to worry there. ”
Although An Mu worked hard in front of her mother to ensure that she would be a competent mother, she had no bottom in her heart.
After all, having a child for the first time and taking care of a child for the first time has a lot of things for a woman, and she still has to learn some things, so it's not as simple as words.
In fact, these questions are also very clear in An Mu's heart, but in order to let her mother not worry about her, she said these words.
"And your task now is to fall in love and enjoy life, as for the children's affairs, you can completely leave it to me, if I really can't take care of it, then I will also hire a nanny, and when the time comes, I will take care of your grandson with the nanny, so you can rest assured." ”
Although her daughter explained it to her, Wen Yue was still very unhappy in her heart.
Because the moment she saw her grandson, she liked the little child so much that she wanted to take care of the child.
But what her daughter said also makes sense, after all, when her daughter had not yet given birth, she had already promised Li Bai that after her daughter gave birth, she would accompany him to travel around the world, which was also a dream she had always had.
But Wen Yue can't rest assured that her grandson, if her grandson is a healthy baby, she will definitely travel happily, but her grandson has such a serious congenital defect, so Wen Yue has no heart to travel around the world again.
After finishing speaking, An Mu looked at her mother who was still unhappy, so she hurriedly said coquettishly.
"Mom, I know that you feel sorry for me, afraid that I will be tired of taking care of the child alone, but I also feel sorry for you, you have worked hard for most of your life, and now is the time for you to rest and enjoy life, how can I hand over the child to you!"
Although Weiyue was unhappy in her heart, she was still very happy when she heard her daughter say this.
"Besides, the child has to live by his mother's side, so that he can grow up healthier, if you want to have a child, you can come and see it at any time, why do you have to take him with you!"
And Li Shishen, who was standing next to him, never said a word from beginning to end.
Because he also agrees with his wife's statement, after all, if the children are handed over to the elderly, they are also very uncomfortable as young people.
Since his wife has no experience in taking care of children, but Li Shishen has also considered it, even if his wife can't bring it to hire a nanny when the time comes, he believes that the child will be taken care of very well.
"Mom, don't you want your boyfriend in order to take care of the child, if that's the case, how can you make me feel sorry in my heart!"
After hearing her daughter say this, Wen Yue no longer embarrassed her daughter.
After all, the child was born by her, and as a mother, she has already asked to help her take care of the child, and if she doesn't want to, she can't snatch the child from her.
Forget it, she won't bother to fight with her for children here, and she should enjoy the rest of her good time.
As for the drudgery of raising children, leave it to them young people, lest they have not suffered when they have not suffered, and they still say that raising children is a very easy thing!
After figuring it out, Wen Yue looked at the two of them with a smile on her face.
"Since you've said so, then it's hard for me to say anything, but with children, you must be careful and careful, and you must not be careless. ”
The clumsy daughter doesn't know if it's also clumsy with children.
"If it really doesn't work, I suggest you hire a full-time nanny, and you can't take the children hard, you know?"
Today's young people always think that they are all-round artists, and they can do everything well as long as they want to do it, but who of them knows that it takes a lot of hard work to bring a child to adulthood!
It's okay not to let her take it, so that their young people can experience the hard work of being parents.
"Also, you are new parents, I suggest you search the Internet for experience with children, don't you know it blindly?"
After hearing what his mother-in-law said, Li Shishen, who was standing next to him, hurriedly said.
"Mom, don't worry, I'll check it on the Internet later. ”
Seeing her son-in-law's nervous look, as if she was going to snatch her son from her, Wen Yue couldn't help but smile.
"You don't have to be so nervous, I won't snatch my son from you. ”
Saying that, Wen Yue handed the baby in her hand to Li Shishen.
"Okay, the baby is handed over to you, the kitchen has been prepared for you, you better hurry up and eat, I have put all the children's things in the kitchen, you had better get acquainted with it, lest you can't find anything when the child is hungry." ”
Although Wen Yue promised her daughter not to help them take care of the children, she was still very worried that their young people would not be able to take care of the children.
But she couldn't stay with her daughter every day, so Wen Yue could only put the child in their hands with fear.
As for whether they can take the child well, let's see how many days it will be, and if it is good, then she will go out with her boyfriend to travel the world.
If they don't bring it well, then she goes back and talks to her boyfriend to try to get them to leave the child to raise with them.
After hearing her mother say this, An Mu hurriedly asked.
"Mom, are you going to leave now? Why don't you stay and finish lunch before you leave." ”
In fact, after the child came out of the insulation room, all the burden of taking care of the baby fell on Wen Yue's head.
And An Mu didn't take care of the child at all, so when he heard that his mother was leaving, An Mu was still a little timid in his heart.
"No, you better take good care of the children, I'm going to do a good facial in the afternoon. ”
When she said this, Wen Yue involuntarily reached out and touched her rough skin.
"I haven't done any care for you for a while, and I find that my skin seems to be a little loose, so you can eat slowly, and call me if there's anything. ”
Saying that, Wen Yue turned around and picked up the leather bag on the sofa and was about to leave, but An Mu stopped her mother with an embarrassed face.
"Mom, why don't you finish eating and then leave, you see that the sun is so big outside, if you leave now, it will be easy to get heat stroke, so you can stay for another two or three hours." ”
Looking at her daughter's endless words, Wen Yue suddenly found that her daughter left her, as if it was not because of eating, nor because the sun was big, it should be the child's problem.
At this time, Wen Yue put her leather bag back on the sofa.
"You don't have to make excuses there, you just say something. ”
After hearing her mother say this, An Mu could only smile awkwardly.
"Actually, it's nothing, you also know that when you are in confinement, you are basically taking care of the child, but suddenly you throw all the problems to me, I feel a little too busy to take care of myself, so when you leave, can you teach me what to pay attention to with the child?"
Li Shishen, who was standing next to him, suddenly had an ominous premonition after hearing his wife say this.
At this time, after Wen Yue heard her daughter say this, she could only sigh helplessly.
"Didn't you just say that you have a good point? Why can't you bring the child again at the critical moment, and if so, how can you let me trust the child to you two young people? ”
And at this time, after An Mu heard her mother say this, she could only bow her head in shame.
Looking at his wife like this, Li Shishen could only say quickly.
"Mom, if not, you can stay here for a few more days, and by the way, give An Mu the experience of taking care of children, I believe that with her intelligence, it won't be long before she learns." ”
After hearing her son-in-law say this, Wen Yue could only do this.
"Okay, then I'll stay here for a few more days and teach you the experience of raising children, but I'll stay for a week at most, and if you can't meet the standards for raising children after a week, then the matter of raising children won't be a problem for you. ”
She couldn't let her grandson mess with her grandson as an experiment.
"As for my boyfriend's plan to travel the world with me, don't worry, I'll discuss it with him. ”
Because they have no experience in taking children, Li Shishen and An Mu can only listen to their mother's opinions.
In the next few days, An Mu will start by learning to make milk powder.
And An Mu did not live up to Li Shishen's expectations, and in just a few demonstrations, she has done very well.
But until the course of changing children's diapers, she couldn't learn anything.
Because the child is too young, An Mu is afraid that her hands are too heavy and will hurt the child, so she can't learn the course of changing the child's diaper.
This made Wen Yue also have a headache. In the end, Wen Yue had no choice but to skip this process and directly teach An Mu how to dress the child.
When Wen Yue carried the child to the bed and brought the clothes over.
An Mu, who was standing next to him, frowned involuntarily.
Mom is really ruthless, she doesn't dare to change herself without diapers, she dares to change clothes with the little guy so much, this doesn't make her embarrassed.
"Since you can't learn how to change diapers, let's start learning to get dressed today. ”
For a woman who has just given birth, dressing is a lesson that must be learned.
However, An Mu had not dressed the child once in the time, so Wen Yue decided to give her this course today.
At this time, An Mu was standing next to him, looking at his mother helplessly.
"Mom, can you learn the matter of getting dressed later! I haven't even learned the course of changing the child's diaper, and you suddenly let me learn such a difficult course, aren't you embarrassing me? ”