Chapter 123 Carrying the cool breeze, the mind is traveling far away
They went back to Xu Jie's house to warm up, and finally mentioned Hu Qinxin in bed.
Yes, it's been half a year since their family left Hangzhou, how is it now?
"Manager Zhong came out, he was looking for a job, and he came to my company for an interview." Talking about Hu Qinxin, Yemei remembered that Manager Zhong came to her company to apply for a job.
"Looks like he's down...... He shouldn't dare to make a mistake in a short time, and in general, he still wants to save face. Xu Jie frowned, he felt sorry for the presence of such scum in the male group.
"In his bones, he just thinks that women can do it as long as they have money, so he doesn't think that he is hurting people. I didn't expect it to be planted this time. Xu Jie's view of women is different from that of ordinary men, which is very gratifying to Yemei.
"Yes, he doesn't think it's a crime to treat women like this at all, and he can't even figure out why a woman would refuse a man with money and power." Sure enough, Xu Jie is so respectful of people, "It's a pity that Qin Xin doesn't have your permeability, if she can be so open-minded, she won't be able to get out of it......"
"I have a hunch that I think Hu Fan will be extraordinary in the future, really, a person who has struggled in the pit, once she gets out of the pit, her rapid growth will be unstoppable." Yemei mentioned Hu Fan again, and always felt that she was living in the dark night, but she had a kind of light on her body, which seemed to be able to break through the dark night.
"Yes, when the droplets of water are full of dust, it needs to be vented, and so there is a downpour, and there is lightning and thunder. I also feel that way, if she is on the right path, she will be extraordinary. Xu Jie agreed with Yemei's opinion very much, and he also faintly felt that Hu Fan had a force, which could be said to be a very strong impact, which could be seen from the fact that she dared to take the risk of fishing Manager Zhong out.
Xu Jie and Yemei were very surprised, how could they have such the same views on people and things? What makes them so acquiescent? Are they the same values? Or something similar? If you don't speculate for more than half a sentence, if you talk about speculation for a year and a half, it's not too long.
The two of them spend very little time together on the weekend, but they are extremely warm, they go to the vegetable market together, do laundry and cook together, and talk about life together...... The vegetable market is a society full of fireworks, and when they entered here, they took off their identity as bosses and seriously pondered about eating.
"Xu Jie, do you really like braised pork and fried eggplant in sauce?"
"Well, it's not all, I'll have a little trick when I first saw my biological father, to be honest, I was a little excited, and I wanted to recognize him right away. But it's too presumptuous, I'm afraid in case it's not. I'm just trying to find a way to get their attention. ”
"Hahaha, I didn't expect you to do this too!"
"Still, I'm really thinking about these two dishes now, do you mean I miss them?"
"Maybe, should we take the time to see them? Basically, they won't come to Hangzhou. ”
"After the year, I'll go see them when I'm on a business trip."
It's rare to cook, and the two of them actually have a feeling of having a picnic in the wild, and their interest is a little high, and they both drink a lot of wine.
think
Thoughts are always beautiful, but reality is inevitably gloomy.
The next night, Yemei called Hu Qinxin by the way after work.
Hu Qinxin's voice sounded lazy and full of tiredness.
"He proposed to me......"
"Ah, what a good thing!"
"Well, I want to run away."
"What's wrong? Why run away from ......"
"Alas, it's hard to say in a word, it's really a chicken feather to talk about marriage!"
"Talk about it, maybe it's going to be better."
"Well, a while ago, he proposed to me, and I agreed without thinking about it, so my parents began to discuss our marriage."
"Isn't that a happy thing?" Yemei smiled.
"Yes, I thought so at first, but it's annoying, before we got married, they discussed letting me have a few children...... They said that our conditions are so good, there is no problem in terms of economy, and our own conditions are also good, so it is better to have two children, one with his surname and the other with my surname. ”
"Yes, any relationship is not good when it touches the marriage posture."
"Yemei, you must think I'm funny, I suddenly don't want to get married, and I don't have any expectations for marriage."
"Me ...... too"
"I don't think I'm going to be able to manage my marriage...... Like my mom and dad......"
"Me too...... What I hate more is that wedding custom.
Accept the bride price, one is that I don't need it, and the other is that it feels funny.
But don't accept the bride price, people still have to gossip, saying whether you have a defect to talk so well.
Some people say that zero bride price is not feudal, I want to ask, does it mean that it is not feudal to live in different husbands and in-laws? At the same time, does the baby born to a woman have her own surname? If so, then it is indeed not to accept a bride price! Otherwise, wouldn't it still be very feudal? As long as it is a bride under that set of feudal customs, it is like a commodity in the eyes of men, have you ever seen someone cherish the goods given for free? If you have a little bit of badness, people will say that it is cheap and not good! I hate objectifying women! ”
"Yes, I'm most afraid of getting married and having to face these problems. After I get married, what if my parents want their children to have my last name? What if the in-laws don't agree? …… It's such a headache. ”
"Otherwise, let's stop getting married and just fall in love."
"But would a man think so?"
"It doesn't seem to be good......," Yemei said decisively, and her heart hurt a little after speaking.
"I hung up on ......"
"Anyway, you have to be happy!" Yemei said with some eagerness.
"Hmmm......"
Hu Qinxin's grief was transmitted to Yemei through her mobile phone, which resonated.
Yes, who said that love is a process of constantly discovering each other's strengths, and marriage is a process of constantly discovering each other's shortcomings.
To be honest, no matter who you marry, after you get married, you will always find that you are not married to the original person, but to another person. - "The Siege"
In other words, women too, after getting married, you will always find that you are not married to the original person, but to another ......
It's like cooking, once in a while, and everybody finds it fun, day in and day out
...... for it Then I can't stand it.
How good is Xu Jie with himself now...... But...... If you get married, will it break this beauty?
That night, Yemei dreamed, and dreamed several times in a row.
I dreamed of many snakes, one of which was huge, hovering around a girl......
Yemei screamed in her dream, shouting for the girl to flee quickly......
Then, she was awakened by her own shouts.
Snake! It is the animal that Yemei fears the most, and when she was a child, she went up to the mountains to cut firewood, went down to the fields to plant vegetables, and pulled seedlings in the fields...... She was afraid that she would encounter snakes, and she was afraid all day long.
Especially once, I heard that a man in the next village encountered a python, and then he ran desperately, but finally got entangled by the python, and he was entangled to death...... In the end, he suffocated to death......
She trembled when she heard this, and she was even more cautious when she went into the mountain.
So, what does this dream portend? Does the snake represent difficulty? Is the girl in the dream Hu Qinxin?
Yemei looked at her phone, and at a little in the middle of the night, she still didn't think about it and continued to sleep.
Unexpectedly, when I squinted my eyes, I dreamed again as soon as I fell asleep.
When I dreamed of looking for a bathroom, it was like entering a labyrinth, one high-rise building after another, and each floor was richer and more luxurious...... Then the dream wind turned, and it turned into going to the show......
This dream is really fun, Yemei does whatever she wants in her dream, and she can go wherever she falls in love...... Even, when the sky is dawn, she doesn't want to wake up from her dream.
But she had to wake up, and there was still a lot of work for her to do.
It is said that dreaming of and pee means to discard the troubles in her heart, so does Yemei's dream also indicate that she wants to discard the unsatisfactory in her life?
Life is so monotonous, but dreams are so abundant.
If love is a dream, then marriage is reality, dreams are rich, but reality is very skinny.
A week later, a letter suddenly lay on Yemei's office desk!
Yes, yes!
Is there anyone still convinced in these years?
Seeing the delicate handwriting, Yemei smiled and was very pleased.
What a deep friendship it takes to write to each other with a pen!
"Yemei, I'll still write a letter, I feel that writing a letter is the best way to express my inner feelings, there are many things on the phone that can't be expressed.
I like to look at your words, strong and powerful, looking at your words is like seeing you unrestrained, and my heart will be extremely excited.
I don't know when I started hating my own words, although the people around me say Qingxiu, but I prefer to be unrestrained rather than Qingxiu. Maybe it's because I can never reach this kind of unrestrained character, so I want to have it more and more!
The character revealed in the pen cannot be disguised......
I thought about it, my character can't control marriage well, just like my words, how can I not change from delicate to strong.
With the cool breeze, the soul is traveling far away, leaving thoughts in the air and loneliness beside you.
……
Looking forward to your reply."
The letter is a bit long and lyrical.
Yemei's heart warmed, and she hurried to get the pen.
Yes, she has a lot to say
Hu Qinxin said!
"If you feel happier not to marry, then not to marry.
We're all young, and we still have a lot of options.
Whatever makes you happy, you go to her.
Fresh air, tall trees, beautiful flowers......
If you like them, you approach them.
In any case, you should be happy!
In fact, the reason why we are depressed is because we have limited time.
I also wish my time could divide into n days like a cell divides.
I also hope that I can separate myself and separate n myself.
One takes care of the family, one plays, one eats and drinks, one studies, and one breaks out to break into a career......
However, there is no way, we can't be separated, and the day is also a fixed 24-hour day.
Like you, I'm afraid of the trivialities and want to get rid of all the things and live simply.
Do what you want to do most and make your world full and sunny.
Life is short, let's leave the heavy burden of the world and move forward!
……”
Yang Yang sprinkled a large article, read it carefully, and I laughed.
Yemei's words are really spicier than Hu Qinxin's, they are big, as if they are about to spill out.
After writing the letter, Yemei laughed again: Is this considered a Hongyan biography?
(End of chapter)
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