Chapter 172: People are self-motivated

"If you say you're mediocre, you're probably still not convinced. ”

The British duke put his hands behind his back and brutally exposed Wen Su's face, revealing the truth she was most afraid of.

Wen Su didn't expect to come to this point, her heart was overturned like a sea of resentment, and after ups and downs, she couldn't help but say: "If it is according to what my father said, the man I like, I am not worthy of it." ”

Who would like mediocrity, she admits that she is arrogant, otherwise she would not like such a character.

Knowing that she was not worthy, she looked at her marriage rationally, but she didn't want to be rejected by her father.

There were many amazing and brilliant men in the imperial capital, but when it was her turn, she couldn't help but ask: "I may be mediocre, but I know hard work, what about father? ”

"Father may say, I should accept my fate, but you may be slack and used to it, the more prominent the General's Mansion is, the more you dare not marry a woman from such a noble family, otherwise why does Father think General Yuan would come to the door in person to ask for marriage?"

The British public was stunned, as if they had never thought of this.

Yes, the General's Mansion is a family that everyone is eager for, why did General Yuan choose their National Mansion.

The reason is suddenly clear, it is precisely because of the hot spot, so it can't be too ostentatious, if you still marry a woman from a big family, you will definitely teach the saint to be jealous.

In this way, it is not necessary to find a suitable girl for his son, it just so happens that the current situation of the Guogong Mansion is not as good as before, which is just right.

After understanding this, he finally realized that it was appropriate for his daughter to marry into the General's Mansion.

As a result, his actions and deeds are a joke.

As a father, how can you admit your mistakes to your children, and as a man, your self-esteem does not allow this.

"It's a strange heart. He opened his mouth and said.

Wen Su felt tired, as a child, he shouldn't blame his parents, but his parents didn't take care of it, and he was at ease with his old gnaw.

He doesn't care about the situation of his offspring, but only cares about his own well-being.

"Everyone's heart will change, don't I have to get married? You also say that I am arrogant, do you want me to marry a merchant, but the merchant's family is at least richer than my father's favored son of a poor family. ”

She waved her hand, ignoring the look of shame on her father's face, and turned back into the house, but now she had no appetite at all.

Grandpa married the person he wanted to marry, but grandma's status was low, which caused grandpa to not fit in with his peers, and he had the name of a son, but he was not accepted by the circle, and he couldn't get in touch with deep things at all.

Forced by the environment, it became mediocre.

Immediately after marrying the person he liked, it seemed to have become a fine tradition of the Guogong Mansion, and the grandfather married the grandmother of the same low status, which caused the father to be unable to reach that circle, and finally did nothing.

Now my father also married his mother with such thoughts, and passed on these ideas to his brother, and finally married his sister-in-law, who now loves money as much as his life, and the funny thing is that my brother thinks such a sister-in-law is very cute.

"It's just self-deception. Wen Su's whole person was depressed, and the woman she liked was just an excuse to find a good reason for not being able to marry a girl from a family.

If it was a grandfather, she would still be willing to believe it, but in the next few generations, she would not want to believe that there would be so much true love for lowly women.

You must know that women with high status, like Pei Muxin and Wen Ruyi, are also the dreams of many low-status men in Beijing.

There may be women with low status but excellent status, but they are a minority.

Moreover, the things left by the family to future generations are far from being surpassed by ordinary people, just the confidence that Wen Ruyi carved into her bones is not within her reach, as well as the collection of books at home, as well as the development of all aspects of the family, as well as their etiquette.

From the inside out, everything is beyond the imagination of ordinary people.

Wen Su mingled among the young ladies of all families, she didn't dare to say that she could control others, and she didn't feel that she had to ask others to go to the trouble for her, she just hoped that when she encountered difficulties, the other party was willing to lend a helping hand to her when she could.

My father didn't understand that relationships need to be established and managed carefully.

How can you get something out of sitting at home?

It's just a disagreement with the concept, the terrible thing is that this kind of person still dominates her life, and even interferes with her life.

No morning sun lasts a whole day.

Wen Su always remembered this truth, looking at the rose cake in front of her, the family didn't understand why she had to do all kinds of things, they didn't know, some changes that seemed novel were just for frugality.

Thumb-sized rosecakes are arranged in such a way that the contents of the plate are not too large and can save a lot of ingredients.

One thing may not be very frugal, but after a variety of things are changed, the entire government can save a lot of money.

"It seems that I haven't done enough to prepare for a rainy day, and I hope that today's conversation will make my father stop doing bad things. ”

She pinched a rose cake and put it in her mouth, smiled softly, and subtle changes can also penetrate into getting along with people.

Pei Muxin and the others regard her as a friend, isn't it the result of her hard work, not to mention that when she gets along with them, she can learn some things that she can't learn.

Perhaps these learnings can't change the flaws of her family's lack of strength, but at least they can have a far-reaching impact, not only for herself, but also for the next generation.

After she sorted out her thoughts, she fell into a moment of stunned, and her father's words did not have no effect on her, and the person who tried to press the secret corner of her heart appeared again.

Favorite man.

His Royal Highness, who was independent and outstanding, might never know what she thought about him in his life.

Qihuai, who is destined to be unsuccessful, can only be pressed in the obscure corner of her heart, where there are not only the most beautiful girlish feelings, but also her unknown selfishness.

I really envy Wen Ruyi who can withdraw from his relatives and retreat from men who don't like him, and I also envy Yuan Chuyao's ability to talk freely with King Sheng, and I envy Yan Xin's daring to love and hate.

She is the only one who understands what she needs most of the time, but she is easily confused, not knowing whether what she is doing is right or wrong, and has uncomfortable self-doubt.

The girl standing by the window looked out the window at the wide courtyard, where there were precious flowers and plants given to her by the little sisters, as well as carp in the tank, which she had been carefully raised.

It takes time and effort to do this, but when they are invited to come and visit, they see such a beautiful scenery, and the look of surprise and appreciation they show that her efforts are never in vain.

The Jumping Beam Clown has no self-knowledge, and unlike her, she has.

She doesn't give everything, but she also gives part.

Isn't that enough?