The idea of the individual is meaningless to the group, so from the moment people are born, they are not comfortable, they must be at the mercy of fate, and fate, in fact, is what the group we live on imposes on us, just like a big river that flows endlessly, we are just a drop of water, no matter how we struggle, in the end we must and can only go with the flow, unless, you can jump out of the water, or be absorbed by the soil, or be evaporated and vacated, you think it is detachment, in fact, it is just gone, That is, death in the general sense.

This is our fate.

But even so, there will still be people who are unwilling to be at the mercy of fate, and these people who are struggling are by no means alone.

Among these, it is the great man who struggles to climb to the top of the tide and scolds Fang Qiu, the hero who sacrifices his life to leap violently and uninhibitedly, and the wise man who is detached from the light and dust.

Lin Hai may not be able to be the first two, but he very much hopes to be a wise man.

The exchange with Luo Haifeng made Lin Hai understand a lot, of course, the most important point of understanding is empathy, if a person is only used to thinking from his own position, he will only make himself more and more narrow.

Of course, Luo Haifeng's words can't be fully listened to, from the perspective of goodwill, Luo Haifeng may just want to try Lin Hai's Taoism, or Luo Haifeng's bad taste, fortunately Lin Hai was not led astray by his words, otherwise Lin Hai not only came in vain today, maybe this pit will go to Lin Hai's future husband to laugh at Lin Hai, if Lin Hai really wants to cry like that, he can't find a place to go.

Lin Hai didn't know what Luo Haifeng thought of him, but at least he didn't have a bad feeling, otherwise he wouldn't have made the last promise, out of prudence, Lin Hai didn't rush to put the 'seeds' out, but planned to visit again in a few days, anyway, Luo Haifeng has already published a lot of books, at most next time I will talk about another one, and didn't he say that he would play chess.

......

When Lin Hai and Luo Haifeng had a 'happy' exchange, Ye Xuexin, who was in a good mood, arrived at Ah Nuan's home.

It was not Ah Nuan who opened the door, but a 'girl' whose head was only on the tip of Ye Xuexin's nose and had no expression on her face?

Ye Xuexin first showed a surprised smile when she saw the girl with facial paralysis, then quickly restrained her smile, bent down slightly, leaned in front of the tip of the girl's nose and sniffed hard, and then raised her hand in front of her nose with a disgusted face:

"It stinks, you're drinking again early in the morning!"

The girl didn't care about Ye Xuexin's exaggerated expression, and fought back expressionlessly:

"It's nothing compared to the stench of estrogen that permeates you, and besides, I just woke up and drank a small bottle of Soul Wine."

"You have this kind of thing too, look at your foul chest, dare you say that you have less estrogen?"

The girl with facial paralysis glanced at Ye Xuexin, didn't bother to argue with her about these meaningless topics, turned sideways to get out of the way, and motioned for Ye Xuexin to come in quickly.

Ye Xuexin entered the door with a smile, and by the way, she reached out and pressed on the top of the girl's head, the girl rarely showed an angry appearance, and shook her head vigorously to avoid Ye Xuexin's malicious head touch.

"Touch my head again, I'll turn my face with you!"

"Hehe, what about my goddaughter?"

"Eat and sleep."

"I'll take a look."

Ye Xuexin threw off her shoes, put on a pair of slippers at random and rushed to the bedroom, and the girl with facial paralysis reminded coldly in the back:

"If you don't wash your hands first, Nuan will kill you."

"Oh yes, forgot, haha."

After a while, Ye Xuexin and the girl with facial paralysis entered the master bedroom one after another, A Nuan smiled and raised her hand to make a quiet movement, and then said softly:

"Coming?"

Ye Xuexin walked quickly to the edge of the cradle and looked at the sleeping baby, and sighed with satisfaction for a while:

"Why are you sleeping, little lazy pig, don't wait for your godmother to come and play with you."

"You remember your daughter, now you probably only have your little man in your eyes."

Ah Nuan stabbed with a smile, Ye Xuexin grinned and did not refute, looked left and right:

"What about my husband?"

"I went to play ball with my colleagues."

"Huh! So chic. ”

Ah Nuan smiled and explained for her husband:

"Usually he is at home to help me take care of the children, so I can't wait for a weekend to let him relax."

Ye Xuexin nodded, looked down at the cute and explosive baby in the cradle with a smile, reached out and gently touched the baby's tender face, and couldn't help laughing.

The girl with facial paralysis stood aside coldly and looked at Ye Xuexin and the baby, and then interjected coldly:

"How's your progress with Lin Hai?"

Ye Xuexin smiled sideways:

"That's good! I took him to my house, and my parents were happy with him, but I didn't even expect it. ”

Ah Nuan also whispered in surprise when she heard this:

"Your parents didn't object!?"

Ye Xuexin glanced at Ah Nuan:

"Do you think you should object?"

A Nuan laughed dryly:

"I didn't mean that, I was just a little surprised, I can understand if you say that your dad didn't object, but your mom... She is a very picky person, how can she not have an opinion of Lin Hai? ”

Ye Xue smiled proudly and was about to speak, but the paralyzed girl on the side interjected:

"I also think that Lin Hai is not suitable for you, are you putting pressure on your parents?"

Ye Xuexin was not angry when she heard this, she was very clear about the character of the girl with facial paralysis, she said that Lin Hai was not aimed at Lin Hai, her personality was like this, she always spoke straightforwardly, and she didn't think much about other people's feelings at all, but she never lied, she would say whatever she thought in her heart.

Ah Nuan looked at the girl with facial paralysis strangely and said:

"Xiaohan, how do you know that Lin Hai and Xue Xin are not suitable, could it be that you know Lin Hai?"

The girl with facial paralysis is named He Han, she is not Ye Xuexin and A Nuan's classmate but a colleague, according to common sense, He Han and Lin Hai have never intersected, the two are unlikely to know each other, let alone have any in-depth understanding, but Ah Nuan, who is also familiar with He Han's character, also knows that He Han never talks nonsense, and she must have a basis for saying so.

He Han shook his head lightly expressionlessly:

"I don't know."

"Then how can you be sure that Lin Hai and Xuexin are not suitable."

He Han glanced at Ye Xuexin, Ye Xuexin stuck out her tongue mischievously, and He Han said:

"Because I have analyzed Lin Hai's consumption data."

Ah Nuan was stunned:

"What? What data? ”

"Consumption data."

"Consumption data? Where did you know about his... Holy, no, you two..."

Ah Nuan suddenly figured out something, and looked at Ye Xuexin who was snickering and He Han who was expressionless in surprise.

Ye Xuexin explained with a smile:

"That's right, when I asked you to help promote the 'Easy Accounting' mobile phone application among my classmates, I installed a data collection module in the software for Lin Hai."

Ah Nuan was stunned for a moment before she cried and laughed and said:

"Aren't you afraid that Lin Hai will find out and get angry?"

Ye Xuexin shook her head:

"I'm just in case he gets cheated on by other women."

Ah Nuan pouted:

Do you believe that? But how to prevent other women by installing a consumer data collection module? ”

He Han interjected coldly:

"It's too simple, see if he has any extra spending that suddenly appears, and if he buys feminine products."

Ah Nuan thought about it, and her face became a little ugly:

"With this collection module, Lin Hai's personal secrets have all been exposed, you guys are doing too much, but can you get one on my husband's mobile phone."

Ye Xuexin smiled:

"Aren't you afraid that your husband will be angry when he finds out?"

Ah Nuan, who has always been harmless to humans and animals, raised her eyebrows:

"He dares!"

Ye Xuexin smiled, and then said with a slight positive color:

"I'm in a special situation, I can't directly contact Ah Hai to come up with a last resort, I will tell Ah Hai to ask for his forgiveness in the future, as for your family, forget it, it's really too much, it's better to have more trust between husband and wife."

Ah Nuan pouted fiercely:

"You only allow the governor to set fires and don't allow the people to light the lamps, okay, don't crook the building, Xiaohan, you continue."

He Han glanced at Ye Xuexin, and continued with a little smugness:

"The analysis of consumer data can not only see whether he has close relationships with women, but also more things, such as Lin Hai has no ineffective consumption, which shows that he has a very self-disciplined personality, he spends the most money and has the closest contact with his parents, which shows that he is very filial and rarely goes out to eat, which means that he has no friends and contacts, and is a relatively dull person..."

"Wait, that's not a problem, is it?"

He Han continued indifferently:

Of course, there are bad things, he seems to be too self-disciplined to show that he is not self-motivated, lacks the courage to accept change, no friends means that he is not good at socializing, not good at weaving his own network, emotional intelligence may also be relatively low, as for such a big and no less than twice a week on the phone with his parents, indicating that he may have a parental dependence complex. All in all, Lin Hai basically summed it up with the word 'mediocrity'. ”

Ah Nuan nodded, in her mind, Lin Hai was indeed a mediocre person.

Ah Nuan glanced at Ye Xuexin again, and found that Ye Xuexin smiled and didn't seem to care at all about He Han's not very good evaluation of Lin Hai.

He Han ignored the reactions of the two as if he was in a meeting, and continued what he had not finished:

"On the other hand, Xue Xin, whether it is external or internal, or family background, has nothing to do with mediocrity, although it is not outstanding, but it must also be classified as an elite class, if Xue Xin and Lin Hai develop a relationship, there will definitely be a lot of problems, not to mention the differences in living habits, consumption habits, values, etc., just from the pressure of the surrounding wind comments, I am afraid that it is difficult for a mediocre man like Lin Hai to withstand it, if there are people who have a heart to stir it up, the result is self-evident. Therefore, I thought that the result of Xuexin and Lin Hai would most likely fail, so it was better to give up this relationship, so as to save the time when both of them were injured, and in the end they couldn't even be friends. ”

Ah Nuan couldn't help but ponder when she heard this, but Ye Xuexin pouted and smiled:

"Don't you think it's ridiculous that you don't know what feelings are analyzing my relationship with Ah Hai, besides, what you said is data, not feelings, if feelings can be analyzed, then they are definitely not feelings, not to mention, even if there is the worst result you say, at least I have loved with all my heart, even if it hurts, it is worth it, feelings can never be judged by things other than the feelings of the parties, Xiaohan, I really hope you can understand this, Otherwise, you'll always have to rely on alcohol to feel your existence. ”

He Han pursed her lips and didn't make a sound, she couldn't tell whether she was angry or touched, Ah Nuan sighed slowly and said:

"No, I said Xuexin, if you know that there is no good result, you should be cautious."

Ye Xue smiled calmly, and said with a smug face:

"What does it mean to know that there are no good results, and those analyses are not reliable at all, okay, besides, Ah Hai is also trying to change himself, this time he can get the approval of my parents, you really think it's my reason, wrong! In fact, even I was pleasantly surprised, Ah Hai's change was really big, as if he had an epiphany. ”

He Han's calm eyes lit up suddenly, and he looked at Ye Xuexin thoughtfully, not knowing what this genius data analyst was pondering.