"Well, if you are raised abroad, your character is unfettered. His mother was still a beautiful woman who enjoyed her own life, where would she have extra time to raise him? A child who grows up in a free-range state, in his eyes, people in the world are the same, free and equal, so he will say whatever he has in his heart, and will not take care of others. Jiang Xi said.

After Jiang Xi met Wen Qinyan for the second time today, although he still encountered the child's cold face, he felt much better after this than the first time he met.

She also got to know Wen Qinyan better, he was not so cold, nor was he really hostile to her. It's much better than some psychologically twisted children, and it's much better than she imagined in her heart.

Sheng Zhiqian looked at Jiang Xi, and after a moment of silence, she slowly answered.

"Jiang Xi, I haven't learned about what you said. After all, I've only seen him twice, and I haven't seen him positively, and I haven't spoken, so ...... However, when it comes to the environment in which he grew up, it should be. Wen Lishan, although I don't know about that woman, I've heard a lot of it. That woman was an extremely egoistic, selfish woman. She can abandon everyone's hopes and the deep love of her fourth uncle for her own pleasure, which shows what a ruthless woman she is. With such a woman, it is impossible for her to take into account Wen Qinyan's feelings. When a child follows her, it is really a sin. ”

Jiang Xi nodded, and Sheng Zhiqian said again: "So, you are right, Wen Lishan must be in a free-range state to Wen Qinyan." ”

"Well, so, the kid is quite innocent." Jiang Xi said.

Sheng Zhiqian was slightly surprised, at this time, Jiang Xi suddenly ran out to make such a remark, what did he want?

Do you want to let the Sheng family know through her mouth that she Xu Jiangxi is actually kind-hearted and feels sorry for Wen Qinyan's kid?

Not necessarily, right?

These face-saving projects, the Sheng family can see at a glance, it's not necessary, it's really unnecessary.

Sheng Zhiqian just smiled, because she really couldn't guess Jiang Xi's intentions. That's it, with her understanding of Jiang Xi, Jiang Xi won't do those boring things.

"So, what do you want to ask?" Sheng Zhiqian couldn't help but want to ask.

Jiang Xi said: "I just want to know what Wen Qinyan is like at home." ”

Sheng Zhiqian nodded understandingly: "Actually, if you want to ask me, after all, I have only met twice, and I have not had in-depth contact, let me say, I am a little uncertain." However, that child is arrogant, and he doesn't talk big or small, and he may tell you that he grew up in a free-range state since he was a child, and maybe he himself doesn't know that way of speaking is not okay. ”

"At noon, I went to Wen Qinyan's school and asked the teacher about his condition, and the teacher said that the child's condition was quite serious. The class teacher even suspected that he had autism and was reluctant to communicate with his classmates, which should not be very good from the teacher's reaction. I don't know how to deal with this. ”

Jiang Xi finished talking and looked at Sheng Zhiqian, Sheng Zhiqian's eyes were straight.

Obviously, judging from Sheng Zhiqian's widening eyes, she also refused, and she shouldn't have come to her for this matter, right? She has nothing to do with that kid, right? She's still a girl, a teenager rebellious, what's the use of looking for her?

"This, this...... Jiang Xi, it's useless for you to look for me, after all, ......"

"I'm not asking you to do anything, but I'm thinking, can I help him with something? For such a student in school, the teacher will not stare at a student to teach, and the family has to cooperate. It may be the environment in which he grew up, or the domestic tutorials are completely different from what he learned in the previous classes, or something else. However, I think that since he is already in the Sheng family, as his family, should he cooperate with the school to communicate with Wen Qinyan? Jiang Xi said.

Sheng Zhiqian paused, and then understood why Jiang Xi came.

Although it is not a matter of asking the teacher, it is almost the same meaning.

Wen Qinyan has been in school for about a week, but now no one in the second room who is responsible for educating Wen Qinyan cares about how well the child learns in school, and he even needs Jiang Xi to remind him.

Obviously, in Jiang Xi's eyes, their second room was not done well.

Sheng Zhiqian nodded slowly, "Well, Jiang Xi, I know your opinion." However, the child is arrogant, and it is reasonable that he can't get along with his classmates when he enters school at first. At home, he can directly stand up to my mother, and the child said that he didn't have a tutor because he didn't wronged him at all. He's just a kid who doesn't have any manners and doesn't care what other people think. And, one of the deadliest things you know, what's the most deadly? It's just that he didn't treat us as family, didn't treat us as family, do you think he will listen to what we say? Anything we say, he thinks we're hurting him. I don't know what the kid has experienced, but I feel like he has paranoia of victimization. ”

Jiang Xi nodded, "Yes, it's true that it's a bit troublesome to communicate with a half-grown child." They have gradually formed their own cognitive world, have their own thoughts, and now everyone around him, family, classmates, teachers and friends, are all strangers, and he is now in a very uneasy and panicked environment, so he will be wary of everyone. ”

Sheng Zhiqian looked at Jiang Xi, but still didn't understand what Jiang Xi meant.

"You think so much about him and speak for him, you didn't try to communicate with Wen Qinyan?"

Jiang Xi raised his eyes, "I tried, that kid is hostile to me, unlike you, just a stranger's attitude." For me, it was probably a transfer of hostility from his mother, so I asked him about the situation and what was wrong with him, and he refused to communicate with me. ”

"Right? You've already seen that kid, and I just thought you hadn't seen him, so I'm more objective in my words. But you've seen it, so you know exactly what that kid is like, aren't you? ”

Sheng Zhiqian's words fell, gently picked her legs, and sat back on the chair.

"Jiang Xi, I personally tell you, Wen Qinyan is the most difficult child at that age, he has his own ideas, whatever you say, he thinks that you are harming him and calculating him. I really don't understand why he has such deep paranoia of victimization. He doesn't want to think about it, if he is a child, if we really want to harm him, just rely on his words to say it and expose it, I won't be able to hurt him? Wen Qinyan said that kid don't talk about communication, it is impossible for him to talk to you normally. ”

When Jiang Xi heard this, he felt that it was not a wise decision for him to come to Sheng Zhiqian.

Sheng Zhiqian looked at Jiang Xi's embarrassed face, and suddenly said: "There are a lot of people in the Sheng family, and the child has nothing to do with us, why do we two little girls think about this problem?" ”

"Well, that makes sense." Jiang Xi couldn't help but echo: "I don't have a position to take care of this matter, and he doesn't appreciate it, his father doesn't want to take care of it, I do this, it seems a little redundant." ”

"Yes, he has nothing to do with you, and besides, it's not that our family doesn't care about him, it's that he doesn't let us care. When I came home, my mom would ask him how he was at school, and he wouldn't say, how do we know? Sheng Zhiqian immediately echoed.

"It's true, if he doesn't say it, we don't know what happened to him at school. Halfway children are so difficult, right? It's not so difficult to communicate with your own family, and it's not so difficult to communicate with you since you were a child, right? Jiang Xi suddenly asked.

Sheng Zhiqian shook her head: "I don't know, I haven't been a mother either." Jiang Xi, if you ask this, is it because you are afraid of having a child? Don't worry, even if you give birth to ten or eight, it won't be your turn to worry about it, and there are many people in the Sheng family to help you worry about it. ”

I was stunned for a moment, and then laughed: "You're right, it's not my turn to worry about it at all." ”

Sheng Zhiqian approached Jiang Xi and asked, "When are you going to have a child?" Although I can guess that you don't have that idea now, but in the Sheng family, my grandmother is very traditional, and the daughter-in-law who marries into the Sheng family is the first thing to pass on the lineage, no matter if you give birth to a boy or a girl, you always have to actively complete your mission as the daughter-in-law of the Sheng family. However, you are in a better era now, and my mother and aunt have just entered the door for a few years, but they are not as easy as you. I often hear my mother mention you, saying that you are the happiest young grandmother of the Sheng family, married to my fourth uncle, or only entered the door of the Sheng family at this time, but I don't know how much easier it is than when they first entered the door. ”

"What do you mean?" Jiang Xi was puzzled.

Could it be that the eldest sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law suffered when they entered the door?

Looking at the old lady, she doesn't look like a person who will embarrass people, why does it sound like this......

Sheng Zhiqian said: "Because you enter the door now, my grandmother and her old man don't care much about family affairs anymore, and all the power of the family is handed over to the eldest aunt." But when my mother and aunt entered the door, the Sheng family's rules were very strict, you know that more than 20 years ago, the family was very strict with women. If you had entered the Sheng family ten or twenty years earlier, it is estimated that it would not be so easy to enter. Grandma is very picky, the person who picks on you, you have to be picky about your family background, education, appearance, etc., anyway, everything that can be picky, she will be picky, so ah, how happy you are now. Not only did you not have to wait for her old man to nod before entering the door, but you are all married to the fourth uncle and you are still living outside, the Sheng family has not had this rule since ancient times, you can imagine how happy you are. ”

Jiang Xi nodded slowly: "Oh, compared to this, I have become the best." ”

"Yes, now the whole family will take care of your ideas, but in the early years, the daughter-in-law of the Sheng family had no right to speak." Sheng Zhiqian said, "Only after giving birth to the Sheng family's bloodline can it be regarded as truly related to the Sheng family." ”

Jiang Xi gently supported his face, "So, Sheng Jianian is really good to me, he blocked these things for me, and he didn't tell me this." ”

"My fourth uncle is actually a very good person, but he is not very good at expressing himself. However, he does not face you as he faces us. Sheng Zhiqian said with a smile.

Jiang Xi glanced at the time: "It's almost time to get off work, let's get here, I still have to go upstairs to finish." ”

Sheng Zhiqian also looked at the time: "Okay, then let's go first." Wen Qin said that I will remember to mention the matter of that kid to my mother when I go back. But Jiang Xi, you have to understand, even if we have the heart to accept him, we can't help it if he doesn't want to. ”