"Yes, she doesn't." Cai Li said, "She thinks that the Tang family's family is not high enough, and Mrs. Zou is harsh. ”

It's good to be strict, if you change to a kind person, wouldn't you be disturbed by Cai Zhen? You see that Hua is a stern person, so although Cai Zhen is restless, the General's Mansion is still calm and quiet, and she didn't let her make any big waves.

Shen Yiyi felt that this family business was very good, and asked, "Does Cai Zhen have anyone he likes?" If she is happy with others, she still has to consider her own opinions, and she can't beat the mandarin ducks. ”

"This ...... I do not know. Cai Li shook his head and said, "The girl's thoughts are hidden deeply, maybe she will tell her sisters, but how can I let my brother know." ”

That's right, she went to Cai Zhen and Cai Qi to ask? Shen Yiyi had never seriously pondered Cai Zhen, but after thinking about it carefully, she had some ideas, and recalled: "When I was in Hangzhou Mansion, I met Cai Zhen, and I didn't know that she was your sister at that time...... At that time, because I was sunk in the pond, my clothes were wet, and I put on Hu Shizi's cloak, and she said that I was not close to men and women......"

How sharp a woman's sixth sense is, Shen Yiyi immediately realized that most of the people Cai Zhen likes are Hu Shu.

Cai Li also reacted: "She likes Hu Ziyuan? It was hot to shave her head, Hu Ziyuan was not interesting to her, and it was impossible for Jin Guofu to marry her as a clan wife. ”

Cai Zhen should know this truth better than them, but whether he will be willing, I don't know. Shen Yiyi shook the wine jug, poured the last bit of wine, and raised the glass: "Come on, it's done!" ”

Cai Li clinked glasses with her, drank them all, and said, "Your amount of wine is really good." ”

That is, the wine of the Great Liang Dynasty is like sweet water, how many degrees can it have? She knows how to distill the technique, but she doesn't want to use it, if the alcohol is too high, how can she be a thousand cups of talent?

Shen Yiyi smiled, picked up the only two remaining skewers of meat, divided Cai Li's skewers, and said, "Skewers, drinking, it's really a bit of the meaning of my time, next time we go to the roadside stall, it's even more like." ”

Her time? Cai Li was interested: "How did you people get married?" Is it also to marry first, and then get married? ”

"Some follow the ancient rites and get engaged first, but most of them get married directly." Shen Yiyi said, "However, regardless of whether there is an engagement or not, everyone will fall in love first, and get married without falling in love, which is called a flash marriage." ”

"In love?" Cai Li heard this new term for the first time, muttered it, and asked, "What does it mean to be in love?" ”

"Falling in love...... Shen Yiyi put one hand on her cheek, tilted her head and said, "I'll give you an example, for example, there is a person named Cai Li, he has a good impression of a girl named 'Shen Yiyi', so through continuous pursuit, he finally captured her heart, and then ......"

She actually used themselves as an example...... Cai Li blushed slightly, but still quickly caught her words: "Then they are ready to get married." ”

"Married? Far away! That's what a point! Shen Yiyi couldn't cry or laugh, "Then they confirmed their relationship and became each other's boyfriend and girlfriend, Cai Li is Shen Yiyi's boyfriend, and Shen Yiyi is Cai Li's girlfriend. ”

"......" modern people are so troublesome! Cai Li shook the wine jug and found that it was empty, so he got up and brought another jar and slapped the mud seal, "Just start falling in love?" ”

"That's right." Shen Yiyi nodded, "In the process of falling in love, through continuous exchanges and communication, they understand each other, and they are sure that the other party is the person they want to spend their lives with, and they will finally be ready to get married." ”

Oh...... first chased a girlfriend, then fell in love, and finally got married, understood.

So where is he now?

Cai Li thought for a moment and asked, "How can I determine my relationship?" Do you need to be the same as the beam, give a gift, and change the Geng post? ”

"No, you don't." Shen Yiyi shook her head, "You just need to ask for the girl's consent and ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend." ”

The procedure is quite simple, Cai Li took a sip of wine and memorized it carefully.

He seemed to be particularly interested in this topic, and after a while, he began to ask questions again: "After confirming the relationship, you start to fall in love, right?" So when you are in love, how do you communicate and communicate? ”

"On a date." Shen Yiyi blurted out, "It's just two people going out shopping, eating, watching movies, and traveling together...... And so on and so forth. ”

"Watching a movie?" Cai Li was stunned.

"You can understand it as watching a play, for example, the 'puppet show' you made up for 'Shen Yiyi' can be said to be extremely attentive - that is, dating." Shen Yiyi said with a little sour in her tone.

However, Cai Li didn't seem to realize it, and looked thoughtful: "Then how long do you usually fall in love before you decide to get married?" ”

"There is no fixed number, more than a year, more than two years, more than three years...... There are also those who talk about seven or eight years, or the last ten years. If you only talk about getting married for a few months, it is considered a flash marriage, and it is generally not recommended. Shen Yiyi patiently replied.

"Seven or eight years?! Last ten years?! Cai Li seemed to be frightened, "It will take more than a year at the earliest??" ”

"yes, what's wrong?" Shen Yiyi felt that his reaction was quite strange, this is the love habit of modern people, and he is not from Daliang, why is he panicking?

Cai Li snapped his fingers under the small kang table and nervously calculated - how long had he known Shen Yiyi? It has been six or seven months since we first met at the Li Jiajiao store in Hangzhou, right?

But this is just the time to know, not the time to be in love, hey, what a time to be in love, they haven't decided on a relationship at all!

With a hint of despair, Cai Li poured several sips of wine fiercely: "Then, will you live together before you confirm your relationship?" ”

"Of course not, even if you are in a relationship, you may not live together." After Shen Yiyi answered, she asked him in surprise, "What are you doing drinking so much at night?!" ”

"No, nothing." Cai Li put down the wine jar that had been drunk and got off the kang, "I'm going back." ”

Get back? They have been sleeping in the same bed (kang) for the past three or four days, why do they suddenly have to sleep separately? Of course, if you want a man to stay and sleep together, you will be embarrassed to kill Shen Yiyi, so you have to pretend that there is nothing to do and get up to see him off.

Delivered to the door of the room, Cai Li turned around: "You go out later tomorrow, I will send someone to bring you something." ”

Don't stay overnight, and then send someone to deliver something tomorrow morning? What the hell? Shen Yiyi was puzzled and waved his hand: "General Cai walks slowly." ”