The days in my hometown were very leisurely, and the children adapted faster, and within two days they were running around with their new friends.

This will be the New Year, every household has purchased a lot of New Year's goods, there are a lot of fried snacks at home, every time I go out, the four little guys have eaten a round belly before coming back, just the New Year, Lou Yanni didn't care much, only told them not to hold up.

Every day, this family sits, looks there, greets the elders, and sees Fa Xiao, who has not seen each other for a long time, Yang Lihua and Zhu Zhenzhen know that she is back, and they specially bring gifts to the house.

"I'm here for the old lady, what are you pushing." It was not enough to buy a lot of nutritional products, and when they left, Yang Lihua and Zhu Zhenzhen also forced the old lady to stuff red envelopes.

Lou Yanni couldn't push it over, but fortunately, the red envelope she gave their children was stuffed relatively large, and in the end she had no choice but to accept it for Grandma Lou.

"It's a pity that Sister Liang was transferred to other places at the beginning of last year, otherwise a few of us would have been together." Yang Lihua is very pity.

Yang Lihua has been with the army for a long time, but she will bring her children back to accompany her parents for the New Year every New Year, and she has close contact with her old colleagues and friends, and she knows more news than Lou Yanni.

Liang Yunzhen has not remarried after the divorce, originally because of the small children and the words of the people around her, Liang Dongzhen had the idea of remarrying, but her ex-husband knew that there was trouble twice later, and Liang Yunzhen gave up her mind.

Last year, when I had the opportunity, I applied for a transfer to another place.

After all, communication is not yet developed, and even if there is a telephone, it is particularly easy to cut off contact.

At the beginning, Lou Yanni and Yang Lihua had a lot of contact, but gradually they also talked about it, after all, they were too far apart, so they had correspondence with Zhu Zhenzhen, but when Zhu Zhenzhen finally looked forward to the child, the correspondence contact gradually decreased.

"You're all gone, and now I'm the only one left in the county bureau." Compared with Lou Yanni and Yang Lihua, Zhu Zhenzhen looks a lot older.

In the past few years, she has nothing to say about her days in the county bureau, just to live in a mess for the elderly, she can't leave if she wants to, the unit doesn't let people go, and the families on both sides don't want them to go far.

Although the salary is still passable, but to support the children and the elderly, there are not many parents on both sides who can help, and the children are also brought by Zhu Zhenzhen herself, so people will grow old quickly.

The most important thing is that there are few harmonious couples in this world, most of the fireworks couples, and the first few years of marriage are fine, but after a long time, the trivial matters of life, firewood, rice, oil and salt, children and the elderly, quarrels have gradually become commonplace.

Facing the comfort of her old friend, Zhu Zhenzhen herself sighed, "In life, there are only two, either bitter first and then sweet, or sweet and then bitter, I, it is sweet first and then bitter." ”

In the past, she had a very smooth life, whether it was work or family, she didn't worry about it at all, but now, it's okay not to mention it.

Lou Yanni knows a little bit, Zhu Zhenzhen and her husband are not divorced now, just for the sake of their children, two people who had such a good relationship back then.

"You think more about children." Lou Yanni and Yang Lihua didn't know what to say, so they could only comfort Zhu Zhenzhen like this.

Zhu Zhenzhen was only sentimental for a while, and quickly put aside the topic and talked about children.

Children are the greatest comfort to the mother, but the influence of the family on the child is not small, seven children play together, Lou Yanni's family has four skins, but they are also sensible, two of Yang Lihua's family are the demon kings of the mixed world, but I listen to the four Han family who are more playful, only Zhu Zhenzhen's children are honest and well-behaved, introverted and a little timid.

The comparison is actually obvious, Lou Yanni's four families are particularly leadership, very confident, and they are all organized and rational in what they want to do, and they can especially say that Yang Lihua's family is two, because the elders dot on them more, and they have some lawless egos, but they are also protected too much, not so courageous, Zhu Zhenzhen's family, just look at the eyes.

Zhu Zhenzhen looked very distressed, but there was no way, the child was still young, if it was divorced, the child would be hurt even more, and now there are many divorces, but Zhu Zhenzhen really didn't see how well a few divorced children could live.

Whether it is following his father or his mother, the child is bullied, "I don't want to do anything now, I just want to give the child a stable home, fortunately, Lao Chen still loves the child, and I still have some hope." ”

The three of them chatted, and they didn't know how to talk about Zhang Meilian, that is, at that time, they always compared themselves with Lou Yanni, the same in front of people, the same in the back, and there was a particularly unconscious younger brother at home Zhang Meilian.

"Married, divorced." Zhu Zhenzhen sighed, adults divorce casually, and the most bitter thing is the children.

Zhang Meilian made a lot of trouble at home, and she was determined to marry the object of the cotton spinning factory she chose.

As a result, he won the trouble with his family, and the object of the cotton mill never thought of marrying her at all, and finally married the family arranged by Zhang's mother, the very short gay man.

was an unwilling marriage, coupled with the trouble she had before marriage, her in-laws had a big opinion of Zhang Meilian, and they didn't bother her a lot.

After a few years of trouble, Zhang Meilian had a child, but within a few months, she threw the child at her parents' house, resigned and went to work in the south.

When the mother left, she didn't pay the money to the family, and the mother's family was not Zhang's mother alone, and there were younger brothers and daughters-in-law, what kind of good life could the children live.

ran around all day long like a man named Huazi, looking very pitiful, which is also one of the reasons why Zhu Zhenzhen is determined not to divorce, the child is so pitiful.

Yang Lihua shook her head, "Poor people must have something to hate, and someone like her is not a responsible person." ”

"Zhenzhen, don't look at other people's badness, just wronged yourself." Lou Yanni looked at the blankness in Zhu Zhenzhen's eyes and gently held her hand.

Lou Yanni has always persuaded and not persuaded to separate, but today, Zhu Zhenzhen's words and expressions undoubtedly indicate that she is very difficult, so she needs an example like Zhang Meilian to remind herself that for the sake of her children, don't go down the road of divorce.

Zhu Zhenzhen's eyes were wet, and she looked at Lou Yanni speechless.

Yang Lihua was also stunned, she went home early and often met with Zhu Zhenzhen, but she really didn't think about it so much, Zhu Zhenzhen talked a lot a few days ago, she was still a little annoyed, she held Zhu Zhenzhen's other hand, "I'm sorry, Zhenzhen, I didn't mean to." ”

"It's okay, it's because I'm too uncomfortable, just like that Xianglin's sister-in-law, I ......"

Lou Yanni and Yang Lihua glanced at each other and took Zhu Zhenzhen into her arms, "You have confidence in yourself, if you really can't stand it, just leave, we all hope you are well, your parents just don't understand it for the time being, and they will understand it in the future, they also hope that you are well, really." ”

In response to Lou Yanni, it was Zhu Zhenzhen's suppressed crying, the child was still here, she didn't dare to cry too loudly, "Lao Chen has someone outside, what should I do?" ”