Chapter 563
Lou Junlin is nothing, Lou Yanni told him, he and Lou Yanqiu are the youngest, and the brothers and sisters are now doing things within their ability, so that he doesn't have a burden, and when Lou Yanqiu gets married in the future, it will be the same, and he will not be treated badly.
And at this time, Lou Junlin didn't know that Lou Yanni planned to return all the money he had remitted to him.
After listening to this, Huang's mother quickly pulled out the dowry they prepared for Huang Yuan and said it again, it can be said that it is very rich, Huang's mother was also very complacent before, and felt that her own love for her daughter was the first share, but now she and Lou Yanni mentioned it, and their family is afraid that there is still less.
However, both sides are not the kind of people who are overly calculating, both sides are very sincere, and there is only one theme, I hope that the little couple will live a good life in the future, and the two families will give the little couple a little more reinforcements if conditions permit.
After the dowry and dowry are negotiated, it is time to talk about the engagement and marriage, the engagement is done on the woman's side, and if you get married, you must go back to your hometown to do it, as for the capital side, depending on the meaning of Lou Junlin and Huang Yuan, do you want to make up a case in the capital, please invite colleagues and relatives and the like.
At this time, the social status quo, in terms of the status of men and women, is mainly male preference for women, and it is a matter of course to go to the man's house to run a drink, Lou Junlin is not really rich after all, his own unit has a house, and he is also a capable person, Huang's father and Huang's mother are intellectuals, and they are also a little conservative in their hearts, so they have no opinions on this.
When he got married, he wanted to go back to the countryside to do wine, and Lou Junlin was also angry with Huang Yuan, at this time Lou Yanni said, and Huang Yuan listened obediently.
After everything was negotiated, the time was not early, and Lou Yanni and Lou Junlin offered their resignation.
The old couple originally wanted to ask Lou Yanni's family situation, but they were embarrassed to ask, and it was strange to inquire about the man's sister's family situation on this occasion.
also blamed their daughters for not paying attention, Lou Junlin is silent and talkative, they took a fancy to this son-in-law, so they didn't care so much about Lou Junlin's family situation, and they didn't know much about it.
Scholars still have some high standards, and they feel that they have fallen in love with Lou Junlin, it is enough to be self-motivated and responsible, and it is a good thing for gay men to be filial to the Gu family, and they will not stop them, so in addition to understanding Lou Junlin, the old couple knows a little bit of the basic situation, and the specific situation is really not clear at all.
As soon as Lou Yanni and Lou Junlin left, Huang's father and Huang's mother grabbed Huang Yuan and tortured her.
It's a pity that Huang Yuan didn't know about it, she only knew that Lou Yanni was a military sister-in-law, and now she was in the army in the north, and she resigned in order to take care of the four children at home.
Lou Jingping's words are soldiers, and I don't know anything else, Lou Junlin usually talks mostly about what happened when he was a child in the past, and rarely says what his brothers and sisters are doing now.
"......" Huang's father and mother glanced at each other, only thinking that their daughter was stupid, but fortunately she met Lou Junlin, and the Lou family looked like a kind family.
On the way back, Lou Yanni and Lou Junping didn't go to the car, they weren't too far away, and they could walk back if they walked slowly.
Some of the things that Lou Yanni and the Huang family's parents talked about before had not been discussed with Lou Junlin, "Sister, the wedding bride price should be simple, there is no need to be so grand." ”
Since he decided to get engaged, Lou Junlin must have talked to Huang's father and Huang's mother, Huang's father and Huang's mother didn't expect that the conditions of the Lou family were so good in advance, and they just picked up the good ones when they opened their mouths, and only asked Lou Junlin to prepare the house, so he didn't ask for anything else.
Lou Junlin spends less money himself, and he has saved a little money in the past few years, and it is enough to use that money to prepare.
Lou Yanni glanced at him and felt that her younger brother was still a little naïve, "The in-laws don't want their attitude, our preparation is also our attitude, if you want to marry someone else's daughter, it's not enough to say that you will be good to her in the future." ”
Besides, Lou Yanni is not too generous, she also asked her friends and classmates in the capital before she came, and she came to mention it when she had the bottom in her heart, and the things she gave were not out of line, so she referred to the big picture, if there was no such condition at home, it would be okay, isn't there now.
Lou Junlin just thinks it's not good, you see that when Sister Lou and Lou Yanni got married, the family was quite difficult, there was nothing, and now as soon as he got married, he would use his family's strength, and he felt ashamed of it.
"Eldest sister, Dad has already given him the best he can give at that time, don't think about it so much." Lou Yanni looked at Lou Junlin and felt very relieved.
When the elder brothers and sisters naturally have some responsibilities for the younger brothers and sisters below, especially when the other party responds to this payment, they are eager to give them the best they can.
As for herself, Lou Yanni really doesn't feel that she suffered any grievances when she got married, she has everything she should have, besides, comparing the past with the present, there is really no need, the environmental conditions are different, you can't let Huang Yuan compare the customs of many years ago, people have to look forward.
The jealousy between brothers and sisters largely comes from the partiality of their parents, the love given is not even, and they naturally want to ask for more if they don't feel love.
"Big brother, you don't have to worry about it, when he gets married, we will buy it for him, and then I will have to send something to my eldest brother." Lou Yanni joked with sorrow, and she didn't know when Lou Jingping would be able to settle down.
Lou Junlin, "......"
By the time Lou Jingping arrived in Beijing a day earlier, Lou Yanni was already staring at the workers renovating Lou Junlin's new house.
When he found the place according to the address, he was wearing a small hat with a stack of newspapers, holding a brush, and was playing with the newspapers on the floor in a good manner, but he didn't know whether she was brushing the newspaper or herself, and her clothes, pants and face were all 888.
Lou Yanni also had no choice, she had nothing to do, so she could only get a brush for her to play around in the house.
"Why did you bring her here?" Lou Jingping held everything in his arms and followed Lou Yanni to her house.
Lou Yanni sighed, she also wanted to put nothing on her grandfather's side, but she was not happy to have nothing to do, she cried in front of a milk doll, and she cried when the doll cried, so noisy that Han Huan couldn't rest at all, Lou Yanni could only take her.
"Mom said I was a trickster." It's okay to forget that I accused Lou Jingping at the train station a few months ago, which would put my arms around Lou Jingping's neck, affectionately, and when I said this, I was very proud.
Lou Jingping liked the pride of being fine, and hugged him all the way to the house, but he still had nothing to do and yelled to come down and go by himself, so he let him go.
After putting the things down, Lou Jingping didn't delay, cleaned up, went to buy some things, and went to visit Huang's house.