Chapter 581
"In addition, for the sake of the children, I hope you can take the children out to play at least one day a week, although we are divorced, you are still Xuanxuan's father." Before the divorce, Zhu Zhenzhen hated this man very much in her heart, thinking that after the divorce, she would let him not see her son for the rest of her life, but when she really left, she was relieved, and the other was for her son.
Lou Yanni also persuaded her that children still need fathers to grow up, if Lao Chen has children in his heart, don't prevent them from seeing each other, don't think that children understand everything when they are young, even if he doesn't understand it now, he will remember it in his heart.
Lao Chen was very surprised, he raised his head and looked at Zhu Zhenzhen, with tears in his eyes, and even a little expectation.
But Zhu Zhenzhen didn't look at him anymore, and turned around and left directly, and Lao Chen only saw a slightly brisk back.
"Mom, what is divorce?"
At night, Lou Yanni took her four children to sleep in a room together, she took a bed with nothing to do and sensible, and Fang Yanhe was obedient on the small bed next to her.
It's okay to snuggle up in Lou Yanni's arms, her eyes full of curiosity.
Lou Yanni thought for a while, "Divorce is a couple without feelings, I don't like you, you don't like me anymore, and I don't want to quarrel every day, if you are separated and don't live together, it is divorce." ”
"Xuanxuan's younger brother's parents are divorced, and he is very sad." Nothing continues.
Lou Yanni doesn't know how to answer this, parents divorce, the most hurt is always the child, no matter how big or small the child is, no child will want their parents to really divorce, some children will say angry words, but their hearts are actually sadder than anyone else, more painful than anyone else.
"Hmm...... Although Xuanxuan's parents are divorced, they are still Xuanxuan's parents, the divorce is an adult's decision, and it has nothing to do with children, they still love Xuanxuan very much. Lou Yanni stuffed her okay hand into the bed.
Sensible thought for a while, "Then can I tell Xuan Xuan like this tomorrow?" ”
In the past few days, several children have often played together, and Yang Lihua is idle, either taking the children to the countryside, or pulling Fang Yan's four brothers and sisters to the county seat, and taking Zhu Zhenzhen's Xuanxuan with her.
Tian Bao at home was used to being a little unpresentable by Sister Lou, the first two days were fine, and then there was a fight, Tian Bao played wildly, some people came crazy, and the ground was also up and down the river in winter, originally Fang Yan and the little brothers had a good time with him, but Tian Bao bullied nothing, the three brothers didn't play with Tian Bao, and they were in the county town with the two brothers of Yang Lihua's family and then took Zhu Zhenzhen's Xuanxuan to play.
Lou Yanni nodded, and the four children got the answer and soon fell asleep peacefully.
Lou Junlin and Huang Zhuan took the train early in the morning on the fifth day of the first month, Lou Junlin had to be on duty at night on the sixth day of the first month, and Lou Yanni and Xu Shan bought tickets for the eighth day of the first month, thinking of accompanying the old lady for two more days.
In the past two days, Lou Yanni has been busy with Zhu Zhenzhen's affairs in the county, and the remaining two days are dedicated to staying at home to accompany Grandma Lou, but unfortunately Grandma Lou doesn't need her to accompany her, so when she is fine, she pulls Xu Shan and Huang Yuan, and asks them to accompany her to walk around the village.
"Done?" Seeing that Lou Yanni didn't go out, Grandma Lou asked her.
Lou Yanni nodded, "It's all done." ”
Grandma Lou nodded, "Okay, stay at home today, your uncle's family is coming." ”
Someone is coming from my uncle's house? Lou Yanni was stunned for a moment, and soon came back to her senses, this is to pick Lou Junlin back to Beijing to come over on purpose, if you want to go to relatives, why not come while Lou Junlin and Huang Yuan are there.
"Your sister is really ruthless, in the past few years, she said that she would ignore us and ignore us." Aunt Liang walked on the road, scolding Liang Sumei for being ungrateful, if they hadn't been matched by the matchmaking back then, where would she be her factory lady and go to the city to live a good life.
Uncle Liang was silent, his face was depressed, he didn't want to come this time, but he was forced by Aunt Liang to have no choice but to follow.
In the past few years, Liang Sumei has not come back for the New Year, every time she takes her in-laws over, or sends the child back, even if she comes back, she will never go to the door of Liang's aunt's family.
Liang Meihua said unhappily, "If it weren't for Mom, you treated your cousins and cousins badly before, my aunt wouldn't have ignored our family." ”
Liang Sumei has a soft temperament, has no ideas, and is easy to be deceived, although she has remarried, she has always entrusted Aunt Liang to take care of Lou Yanni and her brothers and sisters, and also gives money to Aunt Liang every year.
After she remarried, several children had a bad relationship with her mother's family, and Liang Sumei also knew, but she always believed Aunt Liang, saying that it was because they helped her and her current husband renew their relationship, and if the children complained about them, she didn't dare to face it in her heart, she had been fooled and never figured it out.
However, the paper can't hold the fire, Liang Sumei can't be fooled for a lifetime, as soon as the matter is broken, honest people also have a temper, and they directly cut off from their parents, and the money is also completely broken, in fact, she didn't ask for the money she gave to Aunt Liang a few years ago, and she is already very affectionate.
Listening to Liang Meihua's words, Aunt Liang was stunned, "Who am I for, not for your brothers and sisters, debt collectors!" ”
"Don't say that, I'm a married girl, but I didn't take advantage of it." Liang Meihua immediately wiped her mouth and didn't admit it, she still wanted to have a good relationship with her aunt and cousins.
Aunt Liang was half angry, and pointed at Liang Meihua and couldn't speak for a long time, "Okay, in this case, you can go to your aunt's house by yourself, I'll go!" If it weren't for your man, the old lady would have to throw this face under the junior's feet? ”
Today, the Liang family came over for Liang Meihua's husband Li Yuanchao, this person committed an accident, was arrested in the provincial capital, and was not released back for the New Year, Liang Meihua was anxious, remembering that she had heard that Lou Yanni's man had friends in the provincial capital, and people often drove jeeps to Lou's house, so they wanted to come and visit relatives, ask for a favor, and ask Lou Yanni to be a Chinese person.
Liang Meihua changed her words suddenly, and immediately went to Aunt Liang's side, "I was wrong, I didn't talk nonsense, Mom, don't be angry, I said that a son-in-law is half a son, and the aid court is filial to you on weekdays, which is better than his own mother......"
Aunt Liang glanced at Liang Meihua, and no longer said that she wanted to go back, but only urged Uncle Liang, who was carrying the courtesy, to hurry up.
However, before they arrived in the village, they met Lou Yanni, who had been waiting for them for a long time, at the entrance of the village.
During the Chinese New Year, Lou Yanni didn't want to have an unpleasant quarrel with Aunt Liang and them at home, just say something outside, and I want to know that Aunt Liang's family will not be a good thing when they come to the door, when she saw Liang Meihua from afar, Lou Yanni was more sure of what she thought, anyway, no matter what they said, she would not help anything.