It's okay to have a hard heart, she saw that there was nothing wrong with Cousin Tian Bao's doing this, and her aunt would really protect Cousin Tian Bao, and many times, Cousin Tian Bao said this, Cousin Niuniu would listen to him.

But after hearing her brothers' explanations and directly acting for her, she hated complaining very much, and she wanted to be told to her mother if she secretly hid all the sugar, and she was told to the teacher by her classmates when she was distracted in class, so she was very angry, and she didn't want to be like that.

"Don't, brother, I don't want to become a complainant." As soon as his mouth was flattened, tears began to roll in his eyes.

Lou Yanni was already listening, and the brothers and sisters discussed, but at this time, they still had to come out to speak, she asked the four children to sit in a row, squatted down and talked to them, "Mom asked you like this, what if you see a child stealing other children's things?" Do you want to tell the teacher? ”

Four brothers and sisters, you look at me, I'll look at you.

"Then there are classmates who have been bullied in school, you see it, and you can't beat each other, do you want to tell your parents or teachers?"

Doubts flashed in the eyes of the four little guys, and they looked at Lou Yanni in puzzlement.

Lou Yanni said these words, which are a little different from their usual cognition, in fact, several children like to report everything to Lou Yanni and Han Rin before they go to school, and now they also say it, but Lou Yanni discovered early on that they have their own little secrets.

It doesn't matter if there is a little secret, it is normal for a child to have a secret, Lou Yanni is not curious about this, and she has not inquired about it.

However, the child is still young, and it is the time to establish a view of right and wrong, Lou Yanni does not want them to think that it is not a good thing to complain, and then hide everything from their parents and teachers, and carry it blindly, before they have the ability to be completely independent, Lou Yanni still hopes to establish effective communication with the child.

"But, Mom, it's not good to complain." Sensible raised his hand, "We hate and hate the classmate in the class who loves to complain, he is very annoying, he tells the teacher everything, and he is not righteous at all." ”

Fang Yan silently added a sentence in the back, "Dad said that a man should be righteous." ”

This is probably the difference between the education of father and mother, as a mother, Lou Yanni would rather her children be less righteous and take care of themselves, of course, she does not deny Han Rin's words.

"It's right to be righteous, but it depends on the situation, right?" Lou Yanni nodded, and looked at the four children's eyes one by one, "A good friend secretly told you that he secretly took his parents' money to buy candy to eat, will you be happy because your good friend shared the secret with you, or do you think you should tell your good friend's parents?" ”

The four children fell silent.

"It's not right to steal money." The obedient expression was also a little tangled, but he made the fastest choice, "I want to tell my uncle and aunt." ”

Sensible looked at his second brother, and then at Lou Yanni, "I, I, I will tell him that this is wrong, and let him tell his parents himself." ”

"I'll tell my uncle and aunt." Fang Yan also said, but his expression was slightly hesitant.

It's okay and she doesn't quite understand it, so she asked first, "Do uncles and aunts spank?" ”

"It's not right to steal money, do you think your uncle and aunt will spank?" Lou Yanni touched her head and shrunk her shoulders when she was fine, Lou Yanni looked at her three sons and continued, "Your decisions are all feasible. ”

Lou Yanni looked at Obedient and Fang Yan, "But tell Uncle and Aunt that you may lose this good friend." He turned his face to look at the sensible man who was a little proud, "Good friends may not listen to your advice and not tell their parents, what should you do at this time?" ”

"It's not right to steal money, you can tell your parents if you need to, you can't steal, I don't want such a good friend." From childhood to adulthood, obedience is the more principled one among the little brothers.

Some people's temperament really has an innate ingredient in it.

Fang Yan thought for a while, "I'll tell him well, if he really doesn't listen, I can't do anything." ”

"If he doesn't listen, I'll tell you again." Sensible looked entangled, looking like my good friend wouldn't listen to me, but he also knew that what Lou Yanni told him was very likely to happen, "He wants to be angry, I can't help it, he did something wrong." ”

Lou Yanni looked at the children approvingly, "Mom is very happy with your choice, what Mom wants to tell you is that you have to think about many things, think about it yourself, and then make a decision. ”

"Is that okay with a lawsuit, Mom?" It's okay to raise your little meat hand.

Lou Yanni nodded and shook her head, "If your brother really bullies you, it's okay, but in order to take revenge on your brother, you just hope that your parents can teach your brother a lesson, so you can't." ”

Nothing happened to look at the three elder brothers, first curled their mouths, and then said with a smile, "Don't sue, my brother is the best, I like my brother the most." ”

"Little ponyf." Sensible hum, he listened to Lou Yanni's words, and his heart was a little unacceptable, shouldn't good brothers have blessings and hardships?

But what his mother said was not wrong, and he was very conflicted.

Lou Yanni patted them and asked them to hurry up and change their pants back, and then let them think about her words for themselves, if they didn't understand, they could come and ask her at any time.

Then Lou Yanni left Fang Yan behind and asked her alone, "Mom, I saw that you were very hesitant just now, what's wrong?" ”

"Nope." Fang Yan glanced at Lou Yanni and shook his head.

Lou Yanni didn't press him again, nodded and said that she knew, and then asked Fang Yan to go into the house to change her pants, originally Lou Yanni wanted to ask Han Rin what was wrong with Fang Yan these days, but in the evening, Fang Yan ran to Lou Yanni's side again.

"Mom, I want to ask, if it's a younger brother or sister, I must keep it a secret for them." Fang Yan wanted to run after saying this, he said this, in fact, he was very entangled, he knew that his idea was wrong, but if he didn't tell Lou Yanni, he felt even more sad, and after hesitating for a long time, he still ran over.

Lou Yanni hurriedly pulled him down, the expression on her face was very serious, "No matter what?" ”

Fang Yan knew that he should shake his head at this time, but he didn't want to lie to Lou Yanni, he only pursed his lips, lowered his head and didn't speak, yes, no matter what happened, he was willing to hide it for his younger brothers and sisters, even if it was a bad thing.

Lou Yanni sighed and hugged Fang Yan to her knees, she could probably understand why Fang Yan's thoughts were so extreme, probably inseparable from his experience of coming to the house.