When she got the admission letter of the Clothing Vocational College, Tian Niu thought she was dreaming, although she worked hard, her grades have been hovering a little bit in the middle and upper reaches, and if she relaxes a little, she will fall into the middle and lower reaches.

This is still when her aunt and uncle have communicated with the teacher many times, and the teacher pays more attention to her.

has no talent, her mother often says this about her, but Tian Bao is even less talented than her, but what she gets is always her mother's comfort and encouragement, unlike her, who has been beaten since she was a child and grew up.

In fact, there is nothing, Tian Niu can figure it out by herself, she has a grandmother who loves her, and she also has uncles and aunts who feel very sorry for her.

In the third year of high school, even if the uncle and aunt asked the teacher again, in fact, the teacher didn't have much energy to care about her, and without the teacher staring, Tian Niu's pressure was less.

At this time, the second aunt always told her, it doesn't matter, don't be anxious, just learn slowly and solidly, she is not better than the best, as long as she compares with herself, the foundation is solid, more important than anything else.

Tian Niu listened to her second aunt very much, she didn't pursue difficult problems, she just repeated those basic questions every day, and slowly stabilized her grades.

When it came time to the college entrance examination, her two aunts and uncles did not put any pressure on her, and her aunt always told her that if she couldn't take the exam and repeat her for another year, if she didn't want to study, she would go to Beijing to follow her.

As for what her mother always said, if she can't read it, she won't read it, Tian Niu didn't pay attention to it at all, there must be sadness, but she has learned not to care.

During the exam, she was very relaxed, including the evaluation of the score and filling in the volunteers, Tian Niu was very relaxed.

The score assessment is okay, her mother wants her to fill in the school in the province, so that she can take care of the family nearby in the future, to be honest, Tian Niu is unwilling in her heart.

She can roughly foresee what life will be like if she stays at home.

After graduation, she was assigned to work in the unit, and then when she was old, she was urged by her mother to get married and have children, and maybe she would be asked for a large amount of bride price, which was the case with several of her middle and high school classmates in the past.

In the past few years, Tian Niu has been accustomed to her uncles and aunts, in fact, she is a little "willful", and finally Tian Niu followed her heart and chose a clothing school in another province, which is a school she has long been optimistic about.

The assessment score is actually a little worse, but she wants to fight for it, make clothes, continue to study embroidery, Tian Niu wants to inherit and carry forward the craftsmanship of Tai Ma.

She never told anyone about this, even the second aunt, who thought she wanted to learn clothing, just because she liked it.

Unexpectedly, the admission letter really arrived.

"A white-eyed wolf with no conscience, you don't want to think about your parents when you go to school so far away!" Sister Lou has been in a bad mood recently, probably because menopause has also arrived, and the whole person is very irritable.

Tian Niu kept her head stuffy and didn't speak, originally in order to escape her mother's nagging, she could go to her second aunt's house for the summer vacation, but over the years, she took into account her parents' feelings, and every time she went to the house of her second aunt, aunt or uncle, at most she would only sit for a week, and she would take Tian Bao with her.

Tian Niu is the same this summer, I am afraid that her mother's face will not look good and she will feel uncomfortable, she has always been helping at home.

In fact, their family is very good in the township, because the two aunts and uncles have the ability, especially the second aunt and the younger aunt have also paid for the road repair for the village over the years, and after the ancestral hall was repaired, their family's reputation in the village is very high.

And because of the support of her aunt and uncle, their family has been doing a good job in breeding, Tian Niu has never asked how much money the family has, but she knows that the family must be rich.

The family has added a tractor and a diesel tricycle, not to mention these, it is what Tian Bao usually wears, Tian Niu knows that the family must be rich.

But the family's money has never been hers, Tian Niu knows it in her heart, and she never expects to have her share.

Her tuition began to be given by the second aunt, and her aunt and uncle were close, it was just aunt and uncle, she was also a person with a father and a mother, Tian Niu didn't say it, she was actually very uncomfortable in her heart, especially after her mother suffered it with peace of mind.

The tuition fee, or later her father lost his temper, her mother paid for her, every time she paid it, she always had to say a few words, how much money she spent on the family, she used to zip around day and night, and how difficult it was to make loquat cream to save money to support their siblings in the season.

The important thing is that in the end, there is always a sentence that the money will be returned to the family when she works in the future.

Tian Niu loves this family very much, she didn't think that she would have to break off with her family as soon as she got married, but her mother's words were too hurtful, and she would always give birth to the urge to leave home quickly, earn money and pay off the money.

She really can't afford the kindness of her parents.

"When you were a child, you were thin and small, your mother fed you a mouthful of rice soup, you always think that I only hurt your brother, not you, you are also a piece of meat that fell off my body, I hurt your brother and hurt you more, but you are a girl, your mother can only ask you more strictly......"

"You, I don't know why your temper is so big, what Mom said before is true? That's not to see if you don't care about your studies, and deliberately say it to force you, you see if I don't say that, how can you afford to be admitted to college, you are good, and you still remember your parents' hatred. ”

"You don't want to think about it, your parents are farmers, how difficult it is to pull you to the point where you can be trained to become talented, you are good, I can't wait to leave this family, I will calculate with you, you look at how much money you have spent on the family for so many years......"

……

That's it, endlessly, and the topic will always be about money at the end.

It's very cold, Tian Niu sometimes doesn't dare to think about what she would have become if she didn't have her grandmother, aunts and uncles.

Maybe like some of her junior high school classmates, she got married early, had children, and then quarreled with men and in-laws to help her mother's family.

The children born by themselves will also be treated differently, anyway, the daughter's family, isn't it all for the family, for the brother and brother!

But fortunately, there will still be people who love her and will tell her that in this world, girls are the same as boys, they should be cherished and valued, and if their parents don't love her, she can still have self-esteem and self-love.

Throughout the summer vacation, Tian Niu helped work at home, but the summer vacation was only two months, and it was soon time for school to start.

Tian Niu packed her luggage, "Mom, I'm leaving." ”

"Let's go, don't come back after you're gone!" Sister Lou said angrily.

Tian Niu pursed her lips, didn't speak, and went out with her luggage, her father and Tian Bao were waiting outside the door, to take her to the county to take a car.

"Here are the tuition fees and living expenses, if you don't have enough, write a letter to your family and call, and Dad will remit it to you." sent people to the place, Tian Niu's father stuffed the tuition and living expenses into Tian Niu's hands.

"Study hard, don't worry about home."

After speaking, Tian Niu's father stood aside, he was still so bad at words, but Tian Bao, as he grew older, he was broken by his aunt and uncle a few times, and he also understood that it was not easy for his sister, and the relationship between the sister and brother gradually improved a lot.

"Sister, you're good, I'll say damn when I go back, don't take her words to heart." Tian Bao stuffed a bag of snacks into Tian Niu's hand, "If someone bullies you, you call back, and I will seek justice for you." ”

Tian Niu smiled and frowned again, "You, put more of your mind on studying, don't fight all day long, your uncle and uncle-in-law let you go to the military camp for training, not for you to learn martial arts and bully people." ”

"I know, it's not like someone bullying you that I did it." Tian Bao was a little embarrassed.

Tian Niu nodded, "Okay, go back early, take care of your parents at home, your parents have rheumatism, if you don't have the plaster, remember to go to the hospital to buy it, you don't usually have an old-fashioned mother, she loves you so much." ”

"Okay, okay, I know, you're more verbose than your mother, be careful on the road, and make a phone call when it's time to arrive."

"Study hard, don't be naughty."

……

After three years of college, after graduation, Tian Niu was assigned to work in a large garment factory of a state-owned enterprise.

quickly achieved management from the grassroots level, and then went abroad for further study at his own expense with the support of Lou Yanqiu.

After returning to China, she continued to work in the factory, met a suitable comrade Tian in the factory and got married, and gave birth to twin daughters in the year she became the deputy factory director.

Sister Lou has complained a lot over the years because Tian Niu has not been home much, but Tian Niu gave birth to a child, and she still went.

Seeing that Tian Niu's mother-in-law's family was like a jewel to her two granddaughters, Sister Lou was always upset, and when there was no one, she persuaded Tian Niu to have another son quickly, but it was really not good, she took the two grandsons back to raise them.

When the time comes, the relationship can still be regenerated.

"Mom, I'll only have these two daughters in my life, and I won't give birth anymore." Tian Niu is very determined, not to mention that her mother-in-law likes the two daughters very much, even if she doesn't like it, she doesn't plan to have another life.

She likes to have children and daughters, if she doesn't have a son, she won't force it, and there is nothing wrong with the two daughters.

Sister Lou was so angry, she didn't care that Tian Niu had just given birth by caesarean section, and slapped Tian Niu on the shoulder, "You dead child, why can't you listen to your mother, can I still harm you, this man, he all wants a son, and your mother-in-law must be the same!" ”

"......" Tian Niu gasped in pain.

Sister Lou continued, "Your man has an elder brother and a younger brother, I heard that they all have sons, and your mother-in-law is not short of grandchildren, so she is so good to the two girls, but look at it, when you and your son-in-law are old and your daughters are married, she will definitely let you give your family property to her grandson." ”

"Mom, I can assure you right now that what you're worried about must not happen." As she was talking, Tian Niu's husband pushed the door in and said to her mother-in-law with a serious face.

He was followed by Lou Yanni and Lou Yanqiu, who came to visit Tian Niu, and Tian Niu's mother-in-law.

"In-laws, I can also assure you of this, Tian Niu and their will be their own in the future, and they are all two daughters, not to mention my grandchildren, even the two of us, neither of us take advantage of their young couple." Tian Niu's mother-in-law is not patriarchal, it has nothing to do with whether she has grandchildren or not.

Tian Niu also had her own eyes before marriage, and she looked at her future mother-in-law before dealing with the object, if the mother-in-law was patriarchal and not enlightened, she would not even be the object.

Sister Lou was embarrassed by her mother-in-law, especially when she was looked at by her two younger sisters, "I didn't mean that." ”

……

"Take good care of your body, relax your heart, don't take your mother's words to heart, she is so old, she can't listen to some words, and some concepts can't be changed in a lifetime, you can live your own life." Lou Yanni patted Tian Niu's shoulder, looking at the little girl entrusted to her by the old lady, who has now become a mother, and she is very relieved.

Tian Niu nodded, and smiled at Lou Yanni and Lou Yanqiu, "Second aunt, auntie, I know, don't worry." ”

Lou Yanni and Lou Yanqiu really don't have anything to worry about, Tian Niu has already figured out the way to get along with her mother over the years, as for her in-laws, because she gave birth to twins, she took care of her meticulously, and her husband was also very caring.

Sister Lou, who originally wanted to come here to take care of Tian Niu's confinement, stayed here for Tian Niu for two days, and then followed Lou Yanni and the others away.

There is really no place where she can intervene, Tian Niu's mother-in-law and man take care of it personally, and the family has hired a nanny to take a hand, she stands there, sometimes she is in the way.

Sister Lou couldn't find anything to do, so she could only deliver the things and go home.

Thinking of going back to face her bad daughter-in-law, Sister Lou was full of resentment, and couldn't help but complain to Lou Yanni and Lou Yanqiu.

After graduating from high school, Tian Bao attended a technical school, learned to repair cars, and after a few years of class, he borrowed money from his sister to open a car repair shop.

In recent years, the country's economy has been getting better and better, more and more people are buying cars, and the business is quite good.

As soon as the debt was paid off, Tian Bao got married, married a female classmate in the same class, and the two fell in love when they were studying, and Sister Lou disagreed.

Although Tian Bao's education is not too high, he has the ability, he can repair cars, and he has a sister who is a national cadre, and his uncle and aunt's family are also good, and several cousins and cousins are also promising, and there are many people who help, Sister Lou thought, how can I marry someone with better conditions.

But Tian Bao insisted, and Sister Lou couldn't resist him, so she had to marry in the end.

This marriage is terrible, he refuses to have another daughter after giving birth, and he also instigated Tian Bao to go to the ligation, Tian Bao really listened to his daughter-in-law who didn't understand four or six, and really gave it a ligation.

You said that they don't work in a public unit, and the family has money and conditions to have more children, why don't they give birth, Sister Lou especially can't understand, for these, there are other trivial things, and she quarrels with her daughter-in-law twice for three days, and in the end, even Tian Bao is not on her side.

Sister Lou is very discouraged now, feeling that her son is not intimate, and she forgets her mother when she has a daughter-in-law, but her daughter is far away, and she can't support her even if she wants to find someone to support her.

"You say, why is my life so miserable?" Sister Lou's heart was sour, and she pulled Lou Yanni and began to cry, "In my life, how easy is it to pull their sisters and brothers to grow up, in the end, they are all white-eyed wolves!" ”