Chapter 288: Childhood Experiences Related
Human personality is often formed in childhood, and it will not be easily changed unless it is later encountered with a particularly great stimulus.
Before Zhuang Yan and Qin Mufei guessed that Xu Rou must have been too strict with her parents when she was a child, on the surface, she was submissive and weak, but her heart was full of a kind of resistance, this kind of resistance is like explosives in a jar, as long as it encounters a fuse, it is likely to explode.
For a long time, Xu Rou's emotions have not been able to vent, and they have been accumulated in her heart, either she will slowly become depressed and depressed, resulting in mental illness, or she will have a big explosion at a certain point in time, that kind of eruption is like a volcanic eruption, out of control, and no one knows what the consequences will be.
Xu Rou is unwilling to live with her parents, so no one can know her situation, and no one can follow her all day long, right?
Zhuang frowned, he knew that Xiang Zisu cared about Xu Rou's friend very much, and he didn't want Xu Rou to have anything, but he didn't think about how to solve this problem, it would be a good idea to let Xu Rou go to a psychiatrist, but would Xu Rou be willing? Many people are still a little taboo about seeing a psychiatrist, because they always think that they don't have any psychological problems, and Xu Rou is the same.
"I don't care, you have to help her." Xiang Zisu said a little unreasonably.
Zhuang Zhuang smiled bitterly: "You can let her go to see a psychiatrist." ”
Xiang Zisu was stunned: "You mean she has a psychological problem?" ”
solemn nodded: "I think it should be, this has a lot to do with her experience when she was a child, if I guessed correctly, her parents were very strict with her when she was a child, and she was also very afraid of her parents, they said that she would not dare to go west, which developed her current character, obedient, dare to be angry but dare not speak, but this is only on the surface, in fact, she is very angry in her heart, but she has already learned to suppress her anger." ”
Xiang Zisu felt that what Zhuang Zheng said was very reasonable, but she still thought that Xu Rou seemed to be very normal, and if she was asked to see a psychiatrist like this, she might not agree.
"Aren't you and Qin Mufei both experts in psychology? You should have a way, right? ”
solemnly coughed: "What kind of specialty are we, we just said that we have studied psychology, do you think it is so easy to reach the level of an expert?" And we are very familiar with Xu Rou now, even if we can help her, the effect will not be too good. ”
"Why?" Xiang Shiso asked.
Solemn replied: "Because of the familiarity, she is likely to question our professional level, and she will pay more attention to something other than the treatment, which is not conducive to her treatment." Zheng Zheng said in a very general way, and he didn't want to explain more about the problem.
Xiang Zisu sighed: "Okay, I'll persuade her, but I don't know if she will agree." ”
"Try to convince her that if she continues like this, her situation will be very bad." Solemnly said very seriously.
Xiang Zisu turned her head and glanced back, she naturally looked at Xu Rou, Xu Rou was sitting on a bicycle, and she didn't know where her eyes were looking, her expression was a little sluggish, Xiang Zisu recalled the bits and pieces with Xu Rou, it seemed that Xu Rou often had such a daze situation, every time she asked her what she was thinking, she would smile at herself, and then said that she didn't think about anything, just let her brain relax, she said that her mind was blank at that time.
Now it seems that Xu Rou is lying to herself, Xu Rou has her own complex inner world.
Xiang Zisu believes in Zhuang Yan very much, and even has no doubts about his ability in psychology, since Zhuang Zhuang said so, then Xu Rou's situation must not be optimistic, she secretly decided to help Xu Rou.
Zhuang Zhuang didn't say anything about Xu Rou anymore, lit a cigarette, and slowly pedaled the bicycle: "None of your friends are fuel-efficient lamps, I really don't understand, how did such a few people get together." ”
Xiang Zisu didn't understand the meaning of Zhuang Zheng's words, she turned her head and glanced at Yan Yan: "What's wrong with my friend?" ”
Said solemnly: "Didn't you find that they all have their own thoughts? And until now I haven't been able to sort out what happened to the night they invited the Saucer Fairy, everyone said differently, they couldn't remember their seat when they invited the Saucer Fairy, even they were telling me who lived in the same room with whom that night, I carved Xu Rou and said that she was in the same room with Chen Jie and Jiang Shanshan that night, but Shao Yan and Jiang Shanshan said that there was only one room between her and Chen Jie that night, Jiang Shanshan, Liu Feifei and Shao Yan were all crowded in another room, I can't figure it out, is this their mistake or someone is deliberately lying in it. ”
These days, Zhuang Yan really hasn't talked to Xiang Zisu about the investigation of this matter, and now the two of them are in a car only to say this will not feel embarrassed, Zhuang Yan also deliberately brought the topic to the case, if he doesn't talk about the case, then Xiang Zisu may talk about feelings with him, what he is most afraid of talking about at the moment is feelings, he doesn't want Xiang Zisu to be sad, and he doesn't want the two of them to feel embarrassed when they get along.
"There is such a thing, but why should they lie?" Although Xiang Zisu is not stupid, there are some things that she is unwilling to think about.
said solemnly: "Yesterday, Liu Feifei said something right, do you remember?" She said that only Chen Jie and Shao Yan saw the female ghost in red, and she suspected that there was no female ghost at all, and it was Shao Yan and Chen Jie who were lying and scaring everyone. ”
Of course, Xiang Zisu was present when Liu Feifei said this, but she didn't think deeply about Liu Feifei's words, at that time she hoped to persuade a few girls to stop arguing, and she hoped that the team could get along in harmony.
Even the black hand in the midst of them Xiang Shisu hoped to influence her and make her give up hurting her sisters.
Xiang Zisu is a kind girl, and she can't accept that person will do something to her sister.
"You also suspect that they are playing tricks?" Xiang Zisu asked solemnly, in fact, she also believed a little in her own heart.
Solemnly sighed: "I don't want to believe it, but I have to say that what Liu Feifei said is very reasonable, apart from the two of them, who else has seen the female ghost in red?" In addition, Liu Feifei told me earlier that her relationship with Shao Yan is the best among several women, but it doesn't look like that, Shao Yan and Chen Jie's relationship seems to be much closer than the rest of you. I can't understand this, does Liu Feifei think so? But Liu Feifei's-for-tat appearance yesterday is also very revealing, she seems to have opinions about Shao Yan and Chen Jie. ”