Liu Baiqian gradually opened up to me and slowly talked about some attitudes in life.

I couldn't help but ask her: "Then you have always been single, in fact, you are very lonely, there are some times, traveling around alone, don't you feel a little lonely?" ”

"What's lonely, although I look younger, but this year Chinese New Year's Eve, I've always walked like that." She smiled faintly, "I still want to keep going like this." ”

I nodded.

can reveal his age to men so calmly, he really doesn't plan to find a boyfriend, so he has no scruples.

She told me that she had a lot of troubles in her life.

In their county, because she is relatively successful, and because she has always been single, she is a well-known entrepreneur in the county, and there are many gossips about her.

She rejected a lot of men who pursued her, probably because those men held a grudge against her and secretly spelled her down, turning her into a silk girl.

Many men in the county secretly scolded her for being a stinky bitch, liking the archway of chastity, and I don't know how lewd she is behind her back, and how many men she has raised

I said: Now some people's concept is like this, more secular and think that such a beautiful rich woman, when she reaches her thirties, she will not find a man to marry, she must be tired.

"That's right."

She also has her own set of theories, she said to me: "To be honest - in this world, you don't have to find a partner, women, it's not that no man will die, I once read an evolutionary history, saying that we people, for the continuation of the race, there will be a kind of 'love' between men and women, in essence, it is a substance that secretes dopamine and serum amine. ”

I said: the essence of love is a hormone?

"Human love is actually a kind of hormone secretion, in order to have children, people like to do mating things, because the brain will secrete a hormone, which makes you feel very cool, which is also for reproduction and childbirth."

She said to me again: "Do you know, why after marriage, in less than two or three years, the burning love will slowly turn cold, hate each other for some shortcomings, and even cheat on each other? ”

I said: Is their love not strong? They got married too quickly and didn't notice each other's shortcomings?

"No, it's not."

Liu Baiqian shook her head and said: "The dopamine and serum amine secreted by people will make people estrus and enter a state of excitement that wants to mate, just like an animal in puberty, which will make you unable to realize the shortcomings of the other party and automatically block the shortcomings of the other party, but the high concentration of this stimulant hormone will not last too long, it will only last for about two or three years, and it will subside." ”

"This is the estrus period of living creatures, at this time, that is, what people often say love has subsided, and there is no enthusiasm between husband and wife, in fact, the estrus period of wanting to mate has passed."

"But after that, people may also enter a second estrus, the brain secretes dopamine and serum amine again, and they are crazy to like other people, and they see that the person who is married to them is full of shortcomings, and the person they like has 'no shortcomings', so they have an extramarital affair."

She said that this is all caused by hormones, and the genes in people's bones, due to natural selection, there is a "extramarital affair gene" at work.

This is a survival gene that humans have evolved over thousands of years to reproduce and not hang themselves from a tree.

Just like in the animal world, many animals will mate with each other and have children, and then leave separately, waiting for the next estrus period, and then looking for a new partner.

We human beings have only established a social system and values, bound ourselves, and human beings are like tigers, lions, wild boars and wild dogs, which are animals in the animal world.

I heard it strangely, saying, "The essence of man is a beast, affected by various hormones secreted by the brain?" Human love, and even the subsequent extramarital affairs, are rooted in human genes? ”

Xiao Qing'er muttered: Then we people, don't we have real love?

"Yes! There is real love! ”

Liu Baiqian immediately affirmed, "Some love has been running for seven or eight years, and after the high concentration of these estrus hormones, after this 'hot love period', they will see each other's shortcomings, why can they still tolerate it?" Can we still get married together? This is true love. ”

After getting rid of the "hot love estrus period", you can face the real other party, really like each other's character, accept each other's shortcomings, like each other's every move, and like each other's soul.

"Therefore, some couples who have been in love for seven or eight years will basically get along in the second or third year, and there are disagreements, and there are many scenes of quarrels between the two parties, right? It's even very common, right? This is the hot love mating concentration of the human brain has subsided, if you can continue to fall in love, persevere, and accept each other's shortcomings, then there is a great possibility that love will achieve positive results. ”

She told us that she had seen several of these couples.

After experiencing such a long-distance run, there were disagreements in the middle, and then they got back together, basically they were very harmonious and loving after marriage, and they would not get divorced.

I was shocked to hear that she was like a cold surgeon who dissected everything cruelly and thoroughly.

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