"The project we did at school used to eat together." Bai Yao noticed everyone's hot eyes and showed an embarrassed smile.

Sunshine smiled brightly at Grandma Bai: "Thanks to Bai Yao, otherwise I would definitely not be able to persevere in that project, I really thank her." ”

Su Qian's eyes swept over the two of them, and he clicked on his rice bowl with chopsticks.

While everyone was still eating, it was raining outside the window, so the afternoon activities were canceled and everyone chatted in the room.

"Tell me how you met Sunshine?" Mother Yang is naturally very interested in Bai Yao and Sunshine, and she has a lot of fate with Bai Yao. I met at the gate of the Sunshine Community, and she was still the granddaughter of Grandma Bai.

"We were in one school in high school." Bai Yao pursed his lips, the three men were playing poker together, Sunshine pinched a few cards, and frowned: "Then there was a time when I took the wrong lunch box for him, and then he ate my box lunch." ”

"Yes, in the third year of high school, I always brought him a box lunch." Yang's mother nodded, very happy to discuss these topics with Bai Yao, she lowered her voice and said: "Because I participated in a parent-child forum with his father before, and the expert said that one of the major ways to relieve tension with children is to cook for them yourself, so that he can feel your love." So I cooked for Sunshine for a whole year, and he didn't talk to me before, but then he got much better. ”

But Sunshine eased her relationship with her mother, just because Sunshine felt that if she didn't talk to her mother again, she might be poisoned by these bento.

If cooking is an act between parents and children, then how long have I been a mother to Sunshine...... Bai Yao complained silently in his heart. But what exactly is the contradiction between Sunshine and his parents? Yang's mother went to participate in the parent-child forum: "I didn't expect that we would later participate in the same project in the same university by chance. ”

"What kind of projects are you involved in? I feel like Sunshine loves this project, and I've rarely seen him so involved in something. Mother Yang asked curiously.

Bai Yao thought about it, picked something interesting and replied: "It's to help classmates solve troubles, and sometimes Sunshine needs to play some specific roles." Since the launch of this campaign, we have helped a lot of people. ”

"Do you say playing a role?" Mother Yang asked again thoughtfully.

"Well, I heard that Sunshine joined because she likes to perform." Bai Yao nodded: "Everyone says that it's a pity that Sunshine doesn't go to be an actor." ”

Mother Bai turned her head to look at the sun who was biting the card and frowning. He is very good-looking, and when he was a baby, some friends in the film and television industry wanted to introduce him to be a child star, but Yang's father never agreed. After Sunshine grew up a little, I don't know if it was influenced by the people around him, he wanted to become an actor for a while, until he ......

At this time, Grandma Bai coughed twice, and Bai Yao hurriedly brought her water to help her pat her back. Su Qian also turned his head, glanced at Grandma Bai, and saw that she was okay before turning his head and continuing to play cards.

Yang's mother looked very envious: "Teacher Bai, I have always wanted to ask you, how do you get along with your children?" ”

Grandma Bai smiled and shook her head: "Actually, there is only one reason to get along with the child, and that is to listen to him." ”

"Listen to him?" Yang's mother muttered to herself.

Grandma Bai nodded: "I have been a teacher for so many years, and I have found that the biggest reason why children have a bad relationship with their parents is in communication. It is often said that there is a generation gap of four years, and there is simply a gap between parents and children. So how do you communicate? ”

Yang's mother listened carefully, and turned out a pen and paper to record carefully.

"Children don't listen to you, so only you listen to them." Grandma Bai told Yang's mother her experience, in Yang's mother's eyes, Sunshine, who is almost twenty years old, is a rebellious child.

"Maybe you don't agree with his ideas, you will feel naïve, but you have to listen to it first. After listening, you have to think carefully, digest carefully, and then reply to him. And not a word, or not a thing. Grandma Bai took a sip of water: "In this way, eighty percent of the contradictions can be resolved." ”

"Teacher Bai, thank you so much, your words are very important to me, if only I could see you earlier." Mother Yang excitedly held Grandma Bai's hand.

Grandma Bai smiled and shook her head: "It's because I misunderstood you before and felt that you were not competent enough, so I didn't want to see you." ”

"Actually, I am." Mother Yang sighed: "You see that in the past, it was humble and unwilling to ignore me, but now Xiaoguang is unwilling to ignore me." I felt like I had done a lot for my child, but in the end I didn't get anything. Sunshine was very naughty when he was young, and he had to make trouble every day, and I was bent on getting the custody of Humility back at that time, so I ignored him. Later, Sunshine had a conflict with his father, and Sunshine didn't like to communicate with us very much. ”

"This point hot spring is open, let's go to the hot spring." Before he finished speaking, Su Qian came over and asked everyone to go to the hot spring together. The main feature of this farmhouse is that it has a natural hot spring, and it is said that many bubbles will strengthen the body and relieve fatigue.

The men and women are separated from the two baths, separated by a natural stone wall. Because of their age, Grandma Bai and Mother Yang felt tightness in their chests after soaking for a while and went back to rest.

Bai Yao felt a little hot, so he leaned against the stone wall to cool himself down a little. Unexpectedly, the sound insulation effect of the stone wall was not good, Bai Yao heard someone talking on the other side of the stone wall, it should be Sunshine and Su Qian.

Uncle Yang felt sleepy after soaking in the hot spring for a while, and went back early, Su Qian was often beaten by his father when he was young, so he had old diseases, and soaking in hot springs was good for his health.

The sun came late, and I like to flutter in the water, so I didn't go back for half a day.

"Sunshine, tell me why you hate me." When he was tired from the sun and was about to go back, Su Qian stopped him.

Sunshine stopped and glanced back at Su Qian. Su Qian's shoulders were exposed to the water, and there was an obvious scar on his chest. This scar Sunshine remembers that it was when he was very young, and one day Su Qian came to his mother to ask for money, but he fainted at the door. The blood on Su Qian's chest oozed out of his clothes, and then his mother and father hurriedly sent Su Qian to the hospital. And he was forgotten about playing in the yard, he stood alone in the yard for hours, hungry and unbearable, and the aunt next door received a call from his mother and picked him up. Later, his mother took him to the hospital, and he heard that Su Qian's father smashed Su Qian with a beer bottle, and the beer bottle shattered and pierced Su Qian's chest. But after the police came, Su Qian said that it was not his father who did it, but he fell it himself.

"Is it because when you were young, I often went to the school gate to block you and rob you of your pocket money? Or is it because you were in constant condition when you were young, so your mother ignored you? Su Qian took a deep breath, he was not good at such conversations, but he still tried to say: "At least let me know why, so I can find a way to make amends." ”

Sunshine sneered, his eyes were incredible, and he was extremely hurt.