Chapter 514: Persuade each other and see the pain clearly in reality
Sheng Zhiqian glanced at Sheng Yuqi and thought clearly about the language before answering.
"Actually, sister, for people like us who often run outside, these behaviors of my brother-in-law are really common. On the contrary, it is the kind of person who walks outside a lot, has nothing to do with him, and is as clean as we ask for without any cats......
"Zhiqian, have you been poisoned by this society? People who are clean and self-righteous have problems, and it is normal for a man with a family to mess with flowers and grass outside? Sheng Yuqi sneered: "Why do you say such things, I think my sister is so strange?" β
"Sister, listen to me, like my brother-in-law, although he used to follow Brother Jiang Lai, he also represents the Sheng family and Party A. He went on a business trip, but his brother-in-law didn't have that idea, and people would have all kinds of people who wanted to have a relationship with him. If he refuses, does that mean that we don't give face? Sometimes this kind of business dealings are involuntary......"
"Are you saying these things with a touch of conscience? Why has the fourth uncle never messed with flowers outside? Sheng Yuqi asked rhetorically.
Sheng Zhiqian was speechless for a while, and after a few seconds: "What is the status of the fourth uncle now?" What kind of project can be run by the fourth uncle himself? But the hand is also step by step, I don't believe that the fourth uncle did not receive such 'benefits' in the past few years when he was young. Sister, you haven't gone out to work, you haven't gone out to see the darkness of this world, I tell you this, you won't believe it, but those dirty plots you see on TV will only be more dirty in real life. β
"You're here to say nice things for your brother-in-law, aren't you?" Sheng Yuqi asked.
Sheng Zhiqian shook her head: "I think that if you want to divorce, then leave happily, so that everyone doesn't have to suffer." But can you really live away from him? β
Sheng Yuqi had nothing to say, and leaned aside silently.
"Sister, it's easy to say anything now, the main thing is that you can leave now? It's not that he can't live without you, it's that you can't live without him. β
Sheng Yuqi's tears flowed down instantly.
Sheng Zhiqian sighed softly, "What does he Jiang Xiaohui have to lose?" Before he met you, he had nothing, and now after leaving you, he is just going back to the past. Do you think, he is young and handsome, and after so many years of training in Shengshi Group, it is easy to find a good job, right? He's not bad, is there still a lack of women to pounce on him? So, what did he lose by divorce? Without the Sheng family, people would not have a bad life. But you, my sister, can you leave him? You'll be immersed in the damage he has done you. β
Sheng Yuqi dried up because of her tears, but at this moment, she still couldn't help crying desperately.
Sheng Zhiqian said again in a low voice: "Sister, there is another question, you don't have a past point now, will this point pass after the divorce?" No matter who you are with in the future, you will still be angry when you think about it. Moreover, I was angry at that time, you were already divorced, Jiang Xiaohui was not by your side, you couldn't arrest him at any time and beat him and scold him, you couldn't vent your anger and sadness, you could only suffer it yourself. Have you figured it out? β
Sheng Yuqi looked at Sheng Zhiqian with teary eyes, and Sheng Zhiqian said a very realistic problem.
That's the question of venting emotions.
She lives at home, and she will be angry and angry in the future, do she want to vent to her family and smash vases at home every day?
But at that time, Jiang Xiaohui had nothing to do with her, and she didn't know which woman she was happy and chic next to.
Why let yourself be so miserable, so easy to let him go out and be chic?
"The main thing is that although you are angry and angry now, you still love him in your heart. I know why you're so angry, because you love him so much, so you don't think your feelings are worth it, don't you? Sheng Zhiqian asked.
Sheng Yuqi nodded, "He said that he would treat me for the rest of his life, and he would only love me for the rest of his life." We've discussed this before, and it's he himself who says that when two people are together, loyalty is the most important thing. But now? What is he doing? β
"Sister, there are some things I can't tell you, because you have never been out, and you don't know what the world is like now. But I have to tell you that everyone out there now is just a superficial glamour, and many people can hold themselves down very low for the sake of their own status and a little benefit. Do you say they have no dignity? No, they also have dignity, just to live, everyone has their own last resort. How can you understand this? β
Sheng Zhiqian's words fell, and she didn't know if Sheng Yuqi could understand what she said.
In fact, it seemed to her that this was a normal thing.
Jiang Xiaohui is not good enough, but he can be regarded as a talent. And he is a member of the Sheng family, and he will definitely be regarded as a guest by the partner when he goes out without thinking about it.
Why did Jiang Xiaohui fascinate Sheng Yuqi back then, wasn't it because he was handsome?
Now that I have been honing in the company for a few years, I have a little more calm and mature charm in my handsomeness, the kind of successful man, the handsome man who is young and ambitious, there are flashes everywhere in his body, can there be no little girl who goes forward to pounce on him?
Of course, these are aside, if this is an outsider, Sheng Zhiqian expressed understanding.
But if this happened to her sister, then she must not be able to forgive.
"Sister, there is one more point, I didn't say it before, and I don't want you to be sad. But since you have already made up your mind about divorce this time, I will say everything I want to say. β
Sheng Yuqi didn't speak, just wiped a handful of tears from time to time.
Sheng Zhiqian said again: "Sister, my brother-in-law's behavior is wrong, but in fact, if you think about it, he didn't maintain a long-term relationship with one of the women. He's just bored to have fun, it's not the kind of way to raise a family outside, is it? The kind of family that has a home and a lover outside, that's cheating, that's an extramarital affair, and that's the kind of person whose body and mind have been handed over to the woman outside. So, I think brother-in-law is like this, at least his feelings are for you, he didn't have feelings for those women. Men, the animals that think in the lower half of the body are full of passion at the moment, but when the matter is over, people don't know each other when they lift their pants. So, men are ruthless. If you don't have feelings, isn't it just being a free chicken? β
Sheng Yuqi Solar, asked Sheng Zhiqian.
"If Ren Kaichen works outside and has a relationship with other female models, can you bear it?"
Sheng Zhiqian thought for a while: "This, his situation is different." Sister, Kai Chen, he was originally a person in that circle, and they are more open to this kind of thing than we normal people. I talked to him about this before, but he said that it is impossible to do the wrong thing to betray his lover when he is in his right consciousness. Unless, there are some bureaus, everyone is coaxing under the influence of drinking too much or the atmosphere, that kind of doesn't count. β
"I don't understand, what does that mean? That is, you don't mind? β
"No, if it weren't for the fact that he took the initiative to have that consciousness to have relationships with others, I don't think it would matter. Sister, who are you like now, you only have one first love, and you get married directly? No, now everyone advocates falling in love more, experiencing the ups and downs of the relationship more, and feeling more. Who is so stupid nowadays that he will give an account of his whole life all at once? β
Sheng Zhiqian's words fell, and then looked at Sheng Yuqi.
"Of course, I'm not saying that you're so bad, at least your world is still the same as when you were a child, it's still as romantic as a fairy tale, and it's as clean as when you were a child, how nice it is."
"You haven't answered me yet, do you mind or not?" Sheng Yuqi asked persistently.
Sheng Zhiqian thought about it, but still didn't answer positively.
She said, "Sister, if it were me, I would treat him as my ex." Anyway, before we got together, we all had our own feelings. Isn't it the same as having a relationship? You will mind so much, so painful, because you have experienced it, and you don't have a world of your own. I'll let you do what you love. Even if you don't go to work, you should ask your former friends to go out shopping, buy and see, and don't put all your thoughts on your brother-in-law, there's no need. β
Men are cheap things, and if you put all your energy on him, he will not be rare with you.
If you leave him, he will be nervous and afraid of losing you.
"So, you don't mind." Sheng Yuqi let out a low voice.
Sheng Zhiqian sat closer to Sheng Yuqi.
"Sister, I don't mind, I will, but I will think about it, I won't beat him to death with a stick. When this thing is discovered, we must be angry, but in addition to being angry, do we also have to think about the essence of the person? What you coveted from Jiang Xiaohui before, do you still have it now? If not, kick it off. But the point you loved him before, still exists, has not disappeared, then you can have the courage to betray the whole world only for him, so why can't you hold hands with him now to get through this difficulty? β
"What do you mean?"
"You still love him, I hope you can divorce happily, quickly find a well-connected elite man to marry, and live another peaceful and beautiful life. However, you can't. The hope of all of us, you can't. You say, we know that after the divorce, you will be more miserable than now, as a family, who will really divorce you? β
Sheng Zhiqian held Sheng Yuqi's hand with both hands: "The fiancΓ©e in front of the fourth uncle came back and brought back such a big son, this matter is put on you and me, I can't accept it, right?" But Xu Jiangxi, she was stunned and put up with this matter. β
"She's not like us." Sheng Yuqi said.
Sheng Zhiqian nodded: "Yes, it's different, but the same thing, Xu Jiangxi still stood on the side of the fourth uncle after she made trouble, and chose to continue to live." In the end, what he won was his family, happiness, and the respect of his husband and in-laws. In marriage, you must be able to bend and stretch. You've been married for more than three years, and you still don't know that? β