"You go in first and open the sandbox game."

"And then?" Tang Xiaonian asked.

"Come out." Lu Yanhui.

"Come out?" She wondered, "Do nothing?" ”

"yes, nothing."

Lu Yan bowed his head and looked calm.

Tang Xiaonian had no choice but to speak, opened the door, and went in-

The two children should be more accustomed to the treatment place here, after all, it is not the first time to come, but when they heard the sound of the door and saw Tang Xiaonian approaching, they both shrank for a moment!

Two pairs of small hands, quickly holding each other, looked nervously at the door, and also looked at her-

looked at each other fiercely, Tang Xiaonian had to suspect that he was either a big villain, or a big demon who forced them to take injections and medicines!

The problem is that she is also empty-handed, and she doesn't have a needle tool!

But according to Lu Yan's instructions, he walked in, didn't talk to the two children, looked at each other, didn't even say hello, walked directly to the sand table games, opened them, took some matching tools and models out, put them on the table, and walked out with a calm face!

The eyes of the two children always followed her, clasping their little hands and not moving.

It wasn't until she walked out that she seemed to breathe a sigh of relief, looked at each other, and let go of her hands.

"They...... I should still be very wary and afraid of me as a stranger...... Even a nurse! ”

Tang Xiaonian saw it, walked out, closed the door, turned around, and said to Lu Yan by the window, "Wait a while...... Will I really be able to communicate with them about the kidnapping case? ”

She was a little worried.

"There's no hurry."

Lu Yan said, looked at the time, waited for a few minutes, and said, "Go in a few more times, just like just now, choose something to do, don't have to communicate, after repeating, then communicate, but don't be too abrupt and frequent, and don't arouse suspicion and disgust." ”

Tang Xiaonian was puzzled.

I listened to him explain, "About here, the reason is that this is the environment they are already familiar with, in their concept, it is a space that can be emotionally soothing and relaxing, but the first time they enter, it caused them to be nervous, which shows that you are excluded from the familiar environment, people have anxiety and nervousness, and children are the same, but this kind of anxiety in the face of emergencies and strange things produces anxiety, which is called state anxiety, relatively speaking, it has the characteristics of temporality and transience, and it will slowly disappear as you adapt. If you suddenly enter and come directly to them, they will become psychologically alert, and communication, not only can not be trusted, but on the contrary, it will also produce counter-resistance in an anxious situation, so first of all, let them adapt, and integrate you into the familiar environment, in order to move on to the next step. ”

Lu Yan's explanation has always taken care of her, and the explanation is easy to understand.

Tang Xiaonian knew what he said, waited for a while, and then did as he arranged.

Back and forth, in and out a few times, as if nothing had happened, no communication, no speech, doing ordinary nurses, tidying up, finishing, walking, waiting in front of the door.

The first two times, it hasn't changed.

But in the middle, it was obvious that the eyes of the two children had become a little accustomed to it, and they had relaxed their vigilance a little, and their little hands were not so tight.

The last time, they didn't seem to have any interest in her entering, leaned on their backs, lowered their heads, and began to read the picture book next to them.

Tang Xiaonian walked out and asked, "Is it okay?" Now, can I go in and move on to the next step? ”

"Wait." Lu Yanyan.

She certainly didn't know what to wait for.

Just watch him always observe the child......

One minute, two minutes...... Just now, she went in once in about ten minutes on average, and this time, she waited a little long.

Approximately...... Fifteen minutes!

The youngest child, the six-year-old brother, suddenly looked up and said something to the elder brother-