Lin Tong was a little surprised when he received Xiaohong's call at night, "I heard that your mother gave birth to a little sister?" Is she okay? ”

Xiaohong said embarrassedly: "It's good, my little sister weighs six pounds, my mother was also discharged from the hospital yesterday, everything is fine, let my aunt remember." If it hadn't happened to her, she would have thought about whether she would have written to her aunt to tell her about it!

Lin Tong guessed that there must be something wrong with her calling, not just to report the good news, and after chatting with her for a few words, he asked her: "Xiaohong, is there something wrong with you?" Tell me something! ”

Xiaohong hesitated, thinking of the steamed buns that Pan Yuying showed off in front of her in the morning, and the words that came out of her mouth, and told her about it, "...... At noon, Jiaqiang came to talk to me, just to get along with me, but don't mention the marriage first, and wait for two years when his family is anxious to urge him......" Xiaohong was also a little dazed, Wang Jiaqiang said that what he said was the same as before, as if the humiliation yesterday did not exist.

"Auntie, I don't know what to do? If it goes on like this, yesterday's incident should not have happened, I am unwilling, what if his family does not agree after yesterday? But if I break up, I'm a little reluctant, I, I really like him. ”

"There is a teacher Pan in our school who likes him very much, it seems that he also has this meaning at home, but Jiaqiang doesn't like her, and always avoids her......" She bought a bun in the morning and she didn't eat it, but the bun ran into Mr. Pan's hand, and said something that was displayed in front of her, "I feel a little uncomfortable, but it's obviously not what I eat...... I don't know why I'm so stingy, aunt, I feel so uncomfortable, I don't know who to say these words to......"

Lin Tong sighed when he heard this, this stupid girl!

"Xiaohong, I'm really not good at talking about this kind of emotional thing."

She was a little disappointed to hear the eldest mother say this, in her heart the eldest mother could do everything, if even the eldest mother could not give her the right opinion, she really didn't know what to do.

"To know whether it is good or not, not only on the surface, but also when you use your heart to experience it, outsiders can't see it just on the surface. If you think he deserves it, then you should fight together, instead of simply going superficial and hiding it from his family. If you're not sure if it's worth it, then ask yourself and think about whether his usual words and deeds are really good for you, not just good on the surface......"

In fact, Lin Tong doesn't know much about the relationship between men and women, she didn't have a partner in her previous life, and she married Xu Zhenhua directly in this life, she was hurt by him and wanted to divorce, but later his behavior moved her bit by bit, which is why the two of them have such a happy life now.

But to give advice to others, she is really not good, in case she is wrong, what if Xiaohong will not be happy in the future?

In the past ten years, she has given advice to others to divorce her family, and it is aimed at married women, so don't harm Xiaohong.

So she consciously said it clearly enough, but Xiaohong was very entangled when she heard it, she was just not sure if it was worth it, she just didn't know if his kindness to her was really good!

Lin Tong thought for a while and said, "I think, if he really likes you, he shouldn't have put forward this suggestion of going underground to fall in love...... Of course, he probably thinks it's better to wait until he is older to force his family to accept it, but I think since he wants to be together, it's better to make it clear to his family now. Also, I think what Xiaomei said is right, if it's really because of family conditions, you might as well reveal what the uncle does, maybe he will give you some points, but it depends on what people think, after all, the army and the local area are not a system, and the eldest mother doesn't have any big skills to be a teacher......"

She said a lot of nonsense, and she didn't know what kind of mood Xiaohong was in, she looked at Xu Zhenhua with a worried brow anyway, "You say, should we go over to meet the parents?" ”

Xu Zhenhua held her hand and asked her, "What are you doing to see your parents?" Xiaohong has parents. Xu Lao Er is no longer resistant, didn't you say that Xiaohong's stepfather is quite reliable? Besides, she is also a big girl, and she has been working for two or three years, and she can't figure out this thing, and she calls to annoy you, I think her ability is really limited. ”

"Don't be like this, Xiaohong called me to tell me about this, which shows that she trusts me as a lady." Lin Tong half lay on him, "Forget it, you're right, people have parents, and I can come up with ideas or something." ”

Although this idea is not very reliable, it is the same as not saying it, but for some people in the chaos, it can still point out a way forward for the other party to clear the clouds.

"Don't you think such a man is not responsible?"

Lin Tong said angrily: "Do you think everyone is like you? For a person who is usually obedient at home, it is not bad to be able to do this level, but, you are right, I don't like this either, and it is not unsightly, why? "Besides, weren't you held in the palm of your hand by the old man when you were young?

But she kindly didn't expose his old roots.

Xu Zhenhua smiled: "I just take this as a compliment to me." ”

"Yes, yes, you're the best, okay!" Lin Tong propped his elbow on his leg, "Actually, let's talk about this matter, I still have to blame Xu Lao Er, just let's talk about it, are you willing to be such a character in your family?" If it were me, I wouldn't want my son to marry the daughter of such a family, and my daughter would not be able to marry into such a family. Therefore, there is really nothing wrong with what other parents do. ”

Xu Zhenhua looked at him funny, "Then which side are you?" ”

Lin Tong rolled his eyes at him, "Nonsense, Xiaohong is your niece, what does that have to do with me?" Besides, if you don't agree, you don't agree, and that's too insulting. "It's okay to have a showdown with my son, don't I have to agree with this daughter-in-law? He also deliberately called people home to humiliate him, which was too much.

Xiaohong didn't get much useful advice from her aunt, she lay on the kang, thinking about whether she really did what they said, and shined on the identity of the uncle?

But do people accept her or his identity as an uncle and teacher?

The young Xiaohong felt a little uncomfortable in her heart, and couldn't understand why two people loved each other but had to be involved with the family.

It wasn't until Wang Guihua cried in that room that she went over to ask and found out that it was her uncles, who heard that they were living a good life now, and wrote a letter to ask for money.

"I was so good at the beginning, how can I have the face to cry poor and ask for money now? I don't, my own children are still reluctant to eat and wear, why lend them them? said it was borrowed, who didn't know that it was a meat bun looking for a dog. Also, I was embarrassed to ask Xiaohong and her aunt to help arrange work, why are their faces so big? ”

Tie Xin sighed and comforted: "No matter what, don't borrow, don't borrow, don't be angry, it's not worth it if you're angry!" Who doesn't have a few bad relatives! ”