Chapter 637: Don't Talk to Him
Wang Yajun cried just now, and now his mood has calmed down a lot, Lin Tong listened, and gradually understood that the fight between the two, except for the old lady picking in the middle, was caused by poor communication between the two.
Because Wang Yajun complained a lot about her in-laws, Fang Dayong didn't like to listen, she would only reprimand her every time, after a long time, she didn't like to talk to men if she had something to say, and the old lady said behind her back that her daughter-in-law was so bad and so bad, which caused the misunderstanding between the two to get deeper and deeper.
This fight was also caused by the accumulation of previous contradictions, and the matter in front of the store was just a fuse.
Wang Yajun felt that men didn't have the two of them in their hearts, only their Fang family, and they would think about the Fang family when they had anything. Fang Dayong felt that she was calculating, they were all a family, and his family was in difficulty, so couldn't his daughter-in-law help her, and she had to care about these small money?
That's right, now Fang Dayong, as Lin Tong thinks, has swelled.
He felt that this money was small money, but because Wang Yajun had earned money over the years and fed his appetite, he didn't know how hard it was to make money, and he didn't know how much money Wang Yajun had spent and how much hard work he had paid for this store.
After his brother's two families moved to eat and live in the store, she refused to give up the right to operate the store, so she quarreled with her mother-in-law at the dinner table, her mother-in-law said that Fang Dayong was a nest, and he couldn't even be the master of a woman, and this man who wanted to save face, under the old lady's provocation, waved his fist at his daughter-in-law for the first time.
Therefore, a man doesn't understand himself, he doesn't feel sorry for himself, he can't see how much you give, and his heart is biased to the armpit, so don't want such a man.
"Yajun, if it were me, I wouldn't have been with him! You have the ability, and you don't look bad, why did you hang yourself from that crooked-necked tree in his house? It's just that Fang Dayong wants to feel sorry for you, his heart is biased, and his eyes are blind? He doesn't have any judgment of his own? ”
Wang Yajun sighed, and said with some loss: "Their family used to be very poor, but then he had the ability and salary, and the family contracted land, and his life was much better, maybe every time he went home, every time he went back to his hometown, his family and fellow villagers held him, making him a little unable to recognize himself, and he wanted to save face, as soon as his mother said that his life was better than that of the family, he would go back to quarrel with me......
She was silent for a while and then said: "I've actually had enough days like this, and the little feelings I had at the beginning have long been consumed in quarrels again and again, but what about divorced children?" ”
She wiped a handful of tears, "I can't bear Xiaoqian, she will definitely not be able to live a good life if she is left behind, but I can imagine that I will have a hard time in the future with her, and I don't want Xiaoqian to be scolded for being a child without a father...... Alas, I'm also in my thirties, so let's deal with it like this, divorce, that is to say, how can I really leave! Not to mention that military marriages are not allowed to be divorced, even if I really want to divorce, I don't know what to do in the future? ”
Don't look at what she said, it's nothing more than sadness and anger, but if you really want to divorce, one is that you are afraid of the unknown in the future, and the other is that she is not as emotionless as she said.
After ten years, can you have no feelings?
In the past few years, the two of them have always been affectionate and loving, but it is only in the past two or three years that there has been a conflict because of the intervention of the old man, and there has been a rift in the relationship.
"Who's family doesn't have a bump in the road", "Whose family doesn't live like this", "It's good to be older in a few years" and so on, just like Wu Wenhua said, if you divorce in this way, then there will be no couples in this world who are not divorced.
Lin Tong has no intention of divorce after listening to her words, of course she will not make decisions for her after she is angry, and encourage her to leave, you know, her thoughts are not equal to other people's ideas.
"So what are you going to do? Stay for two days and go back? Lin Tong was still a little angry in his heart, "If you go back like this, isn't it tantamount to admitting it?" When the time comes, their family won't take you seriously. ”
"I don't know." In fact, Wang Yajun regretted it a little, she shouldn't have run so far in a fit of anger, if she ran back to her mother's brother, it was close, Fang Dayong might still pick her up, but now that it was so far away, it was impossible to let him pick her up.
But the child is still at home, and this day has to go on, she smiled bitterly: "I can only stay for two days and go back." Look down on it, look down on it, they didn't look down on it before anyway. ”
Lin Tong said dejectedly: "Aren't you waiting to be bullied like this!" No, you stay first, and I'll help you figure it out. ”
It's useless for others to say anything about housework, but if you really listen to it, there will be so many family conflicts?
Wang Yajun didn't have any expectations, but the sadness and anger in her heart, after telling her, also vented half, and her mentality became more peaceful.
Lin Tong felt that the affairs of the Fang family were actually similar to those of the Xu family, but Xu Zhenhua had her in his heart, and the contradiction with his mother was very prominent, as long as he could make a mistake, it would be easy to deal with.
But Fang Dayong's situation is not the same as his, it is his own parents and his parents, and his parents treat him well, so it is impossible for him to handle family affairs like Xu Zhenhua.
What's more, the personalities of the two are also very different.
Why don't you transfer Fang Dayong to Shencheng?
This method will not work, it will not cure the symptoms but not the root cause, in case the old man and the old lady come again, how much property she has put in is not enough for them to worry about.
The most important thing in this is Fang Dayong's attitude.
"Since you're here, you can relax, stay here for a few days, don't worry about going home first, don't worry about Xiaoqian, you're not at home, Fang Dayong just took a look at how his family treated the child, if he really has no one, I advise you not to think about him and the child, it's good to leave early, there is no harm to the child." If he still has a heart, knows that the child's mother is not there, and thinks about the child, if you don't divorce, you can slowly bring his heart over, and you can have a better life in the future. ”
Lin Tong instructed her: "Now your task is to let go of those bad things at home and rest for a few days." ”
Wang Yajun smiled bitterly, what can you do otherwise? As soon as she came, she felt embarrassed to go back.
After saying that, she felt much brighter in her heart, and made dinner with Lin Tong, and Xu Zhenhua and they also made a pigeon cage.
"Look at your Xu Tuan, how good it is to be more attentive to the child!" Her words were full of envy. "In our hospital, except for your family, I really haven't seen anyone who is so good to my daughter-in-law and children, not even Cui Tuan."
Lin Tong smiled: "He is not usually at home, and he comes back occasionally, of course he has to behave." ”
But Fang Dayong is not often at home, when she takes the child to see him every week, he still likes to tease the child very much, and then he came back to the town, and after being at home for a long time, he didn't play with the child much, and then, after his parents came, he rarely accompanied the child, every time Xiaoqian pestered him to play with him, he said with a straight face that they were all big girls and always pestered to be a father. She knew that those words were actually instilled in him by the old lady. But some people say that someone has to be willing to listen!
Thinking of this, a trace of loss flashed on Wang Yajun's face.